I am a very strong person, always think that others can do, I should be able to do, and everything must compete for the first, fight for right and wrong. With entering the society, I understand, what system? What are the regulations? It seems to restrain everyone, and finally I know that it was only because "he is", "if it is him", "because it is him" that changed! hehe...... The same thing that happened to me and the person who was "cared for" turned out to be very different! If you have to win or lose at this time, you will only be treated as a joke or said to have no emotional intelligence. What exactly is the performance of high emotional intelligence? Work hard, don't steal and slip, can't say nice things, can't sneak around... Just be charged with no emotional intelligence! Those who can do more work are said to be stupid! I hate the workplace more and more, I am more and more afraid of dealing with people, and I am more and more forgetting what I am. In order to make others like, I change myself little by little, become good and bad, and occasionally like to occasionally hate the way I am now. To have a strong character, never want to count on anyone in the past? Nor did I think that if someone helped me, I wouldn't have to work so hard. People say that "children who cry have milk", now look back at their past 30 years, huh... Living a mess, a strong personality, a grumpy temper, it seems that all the unhappiness is in me, the "devil" has always been with me, and the "angel" has never met. Someone asked, if you had the opportunity to choose, would you choose to start over? I thought about it for a moment, smiled and said, "Probably not, because everyone's life is not destined to go smoothly, or start over, what if it is not as good as this life?" "Since they are all the same, it is better to stop fantasizing about starting over!" Maybe I'm already better in this life than in my previous life, but who has the final say in the next life? So if you're a strong person, don't be like me, and the occasional weakness isn't a bad thing.