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At eleven o'clock every night, The Words and you don't see each other
⊰ Song: Song Name: Sunflower Promise - Hata Motohiro⊱
I remember last month, I had dinner with a few friends I hadn't seen for a long time, and I talked about some things in the past after small talk, and several people had feelings. A friend pointed at me and said:
"Or your boy is living well, when you used to study, you saw that you liked to write articles and write novels, and now you can still do your favorite work after graduation, which is the completion of life." 」
Yeah, it's been a few years, and only I'm still sticking with what I liked to do at the beginning. Although he is a professional friend, he has changed several jobs before and after the end, and he has not engaged in professional-related work for a long time.
Whoever graduates is a high-spirited posture, always feeling that no matter what kind of work they come from in society, they can easily make achievements in a certain field. Only later did I suddenly understand the difficulty of life after experiencing the hardships in society.
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A friend of mine is like this. When I was in school, I served as the president of the student council, served as a class president, won a scholarship, and worked well every year. In school, the scenery is endless. After graduation, instead of working, he borrowed some money from his parents and then borrowed some money from outside and started a business with a few friends.
Later, they operated for a period of time with little success, and this year they encountered an epidemic. This period of time may be his most difficult days.
In fact, I have always respected people who are pioneers on the road to entrepreneurship, because they dare to challenge some of the things that we who only want to be stable and comfortable do not dare to do.
But no matter what you do, I think you must first calm down.
We often say that to do something, it is not necessary to have a thought to do it;
You first have to understand it.
Later, when I accidentally brushed the circle of friends, I saw one of his dynamics:
"On paper, I finally realized that I had to do something about it."
I gave him a thumbs up. Yes, that's right, that's what it's like to do something.
We often say that whether you are on the road to work or on the way to start a business, you need to take full force to deal with it. Perhaps, it didn't pay off well for a few days or for a long time. None of this matters.
The important thing is that you are really sinking your heart into doing such a thing.
Well, I believe you are not far from success.
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Because life is always your own, you have the right to make it any possibility you want.
Work hard, turn your interests into your work, live the way you want to be. That's a success.
In fact, there are really many criteria for defining success, and there is no uniformity.
A person has no wealth, power, no outstanding emotional intelligence, no outstanding IQ, only wife and children, only a small room of 80 square meters, working nine to five every day, to pay car loans, mortgages, to pay children's tuition, to support a family's life. However, they are happy and have no quarrels, can you say that such a life is not a success?
You have to believe that some people have spent their entire lives without a happy family.
Or it is self-made, has a beautiful wife, has a big house, and is dressed in fine clothes and food every day, and sings night and night. But all because he had money, he wasn't happy. Can you say he was successful?
Success cannot be determined by one person, a sentence or a quotation.
The success of young people is to be able to hold on to loneliness and withstand suffering. Only by sinking your heart and doing practical things, then you are not far from success.
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I have a friend who graduated until now has been obscure, whether at work or in communication, belongs to that kind of small transparent type.
Some time ago, I went to Chengdu, met him by chance, and after three words and two words of greeting, I learned that he is now the leader of a certain enterprise, all year round, and his salary is also small 100,000. He is a real person, and there is no excessive cost, and in the end, he can save tens of thousands. He told me that he planned to save up for a few more years and then go back to his hometown with his girlfriend to buy a house and live.
Because it happened to be the time of work, I casually asked him if he was going home, and he turned to me and told me that he was going to pick up his girlfriend who had not yet left work and go home together.
The neon flashed by, and at this moment, I suddenly found that although such a life was not wavy, there was no passion and surging energy. It's safe, but it's also very comfortable.
I guess that's his success.
Young people, whether your life is uneventful or passionate, as long as it is what you think, it is a success.
Therefore, the future is still long, please do not look at the master low. Only by calming down, holding your breath, and resisting temptations can you have your own success.
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