The court ruled that Li Lili and Chen Ding were divorced, but because Chen Ding and Li Lili's house was about to be expropriated at that time, the judgment did not make a clear distribution of the property of the two people. After the divorce, the house in Meixi Lake was expropriated, and 1.09 million yuan was divided into 1.09 million expropriated funds and four resettlement houses. Li Lili believes that the house in Meixi Lake was built in marriage, and the expropriation fee and resettlement house should also belong to the joint property of the husband and wife, and should have her share.
However, Chen Ding said that the house was built by his daughter-in-law, and neither he nor his ex-wife contributed funds, which was not the joint property of the husband and wife, and had issued a legal certificate. Li Lili insisted that this was Chen Ding's expedient measure, the purpose of which was not to distribute any property to her, so she appealed every year. What is the hidden story in this lawsuit that has lasted for nearly a decade?
Because the children were away for many years, the original wife also died of illness. After living alone for six years, Chen Ding met Li Lili under the introduction of others.
Li Lili has a gentle personality, has a retirement salary, and has superior conditions in all aspects. So not long after getting along, the two received a marriage license. But what Chen Ding did not expect was that this marriage brought him nearly a decade of litigation disputes.
In the past few years, Chen Ding has not slept a stable sleep, and the average of two lawsuits a year makes him tired. The start of each lawsuit lasts at least a month. In order to respond to the lawsuit, Chen Ding has paid nearly 200,000 yuan in court fees, and he hopes that his ex-wife can end this endless war.
In Chen Ding's view, whether spiritually or materially, the protracted lawsuit has an indelible impact on both sides.
Li Li said that because her daughter has set up a new family and has her own life, having a resettlement house has become particularly important for her. Li Li sincerely expressed her apologies to her ex-husband, and at the same time hoped that her ex-husband could understand her!
In his opinion, the ex-husband should help him solve this problem together. After hearing Li Lili's words, Chen Ding's friend said,
Chen Ding has an impatient personality, Li Lili has a gentle personality, and when the two were just together, their lives were also harmonious and beautiful.
Chen Ding and Li Lili were married for the second time, but due to insufficient understanding, the two divorced after four months of close cooperation. Li Lili was born in the city, while Chen Dingni was born in the countryside, and the living habits of the two are different.
In Chen Ding's view, he has done his best to pay a lot to his ex-wife's family, but he is still disliked by his ex-wife, and the divorce has long been expected by him, and he feels that the two do not have much affection to speak of. After the divorce, his ex-wife repeatedly took him to court because of property problems, which made him feel bored, and now it is only his ex-wife's financial embarrassment that relies on him.
Because of the different times, Li Lili still retains some past habits and differences in thinking, resulting in constant friction in her and her daughter's life. As her granddaughter grew up, Li Lili's desire for a house became stronger and stronger
Years of resentment have made Chen Ding lose patience with Li Lili, in his opinion, Li Lili's situation has nothing to do with him, and he has formed a new family, the two should not have been involved in it for a long time.
Under persuasion, Chen Ding finally said that as long as the legal recognition belongs to Li Lili, he has no complaints, and Li Lili also said that she will try her best to reduce the number of times she disturbs her ex-husband.
Life is only a hundred years, and in a long life, how much such time can be spent on lawsuits. We hope that Li Lili can relax her mentality and enjoy the moment, after all, every minute and second you spend now does not bear weight.
The memory of the past can never be complete, even if you can't be a husband and wife, you don't have to be an enemy, and you don't have to stalk, then go with the flow and be an ordinary friend. As there is a saying, letting go of the other party is equivalent to letting go of yourself.
Being an ordinary friend, if there is no separation, should be the best state for divorced couples. His life is no longer related to you, and so is yours, but it does not rule out the occasional care, greetings, and certainly no need to prepare gifts for him on birthdays and Valentine's Day. It's just that at some point when you need help, you and he can't be unable to appear in front of each other.