On June 22 this year, a divorce statement caused an uproar in the entertainment industry, Zhang Qingfang divorced, and the 15-year marriage came to an abrupt end!
Who is Zhang Qingfang? Why is there a hot search for divorce?
Perhaps many young people do not understand that she has been called the "Four Queens of Heaven" with Lin Yilian, Ye Qianwen and Chen Shuhua, and has won the Best Female Singer Award twice, which is the white moonlight in the hearts of the post-70s.
Today, Uncle Chai will take you to talk about the ups and downs of Zhang Qingfang, who was once known as the "undefeated in the East" of the song world.
Born in 1966 to an ordinary family in Taiwan Province, Zhang Qingfang was the youngest daughter in the family, ranking fifth. Because of the poor conditions at home, her mother once gave her to someone else to raise, but her father could not bear it, and once his father was drunk and took advantage of the wine to get his daughter back.
This incident had a great impact on Zhang Qingfang's heart, she thought of herself as an "ugly duckling" since she was a child, and almost became an abandoned baby. But it is also this kind of childhood shadow that makes her redouble her efforts and do the ultimate in every little thing.
Later, Zhang Qingfang was admitted to the China Municipal College to study business administration, but she was more enthusiastic about various activities on campus, such as singing competitions.
In 1984, she participated in an event organized by the television company, and sang a song "Once Owned" that won the Best Singing Award in the Songwriting Competition, which made her meet the point of recording and become a signed singer.
If Zhang Qingfang is a wildfire, then Dianjiang Records is her Dongfeng. Shortly after joining the company, 18-year-old Zhang Qingfang released her personal album "After the Passion", and it was this album that sold 300,000 copies, which made her gain countless fans and became popular overnight.
How can it not be red? Clear voice, unparalleled melody, suddenly breathtaking, let people never forget the singer, since then she has been singing all the way, released "Find Back", "California Sunshine", "Radiance" and other albums, each album sales exceeded 200,000.
In addition to releasing albums, Zhang Qingfang also held solo concerts, from 1994 to 1995, she toured and held one after another, which was called the "Undefeated East" in the music world.
However, such a strange woman disappeared after 2002, all of which are inseparable from a "love" word.
Compared with the star-studded singing feats, Zhang Qingfang's personal emotional life is not smooth.
In 1989, she fell in love with the famous producer Cao Junhong, and the two walked through a ten-year love run together. It can be said that the two are golden children and jade girls, Cao Junhong has made Zhang Qingfang, he has created countless popular songs for her, and Zhang Qingfang did not abandon him when he suffered from cancer.
However, because cancer is too torturous, Cao Junhong took the initiative to break up with her, converted to Buddhism, and left the red dust behind.
This love is hurtful, Zhang Qingfang told her friend that she never wanted to fall in love again, if she could, she would only get married.
3 years later, she really met this guy. In 2002, 36-year-old Zhang Qingfang met 50-year-old Song Xueren through the introduction of Zhang Xiaoyan, a variety show big miss, who was known as the "godfather of Taiwan investment" by the industry, and was the vice chairman of Goldman Sachs Asia at the time, worth 1.5 billion yuan, and was a fan of Zhang Qingfang.
The two people were together soon after the relationship, and Zhang Qingfang offered to get married. In 2004, the two registered for marriage, and in December of the following year, Zhang Qingfang gave birth to a son, and in 2007, the two ushered in a second son.
Is Song Xueren good to Zhang Qingfang? There is no doubt that it should be very good, Zhang Qingfang once said in an interview, Mr. Song is very decent, the family concept is very heavy, and even cooks for the family himself.
In 2015, Zhang Qingfang held the "Fanghua Feast" concert, and at that time, Song Xueren was hospitalized because of acute cecalitis, because the schedule was set, neither to disappoint the audience, nor to ignore her sick husband, Zhang Qingfang was busy turning at both ends.
What she did not expect was that Song Xueren endured the pain of just opening the knife and actually went to the scene to cheer her up.
Zhang Qingfang shed tears of excitement when she sang "Deep and Sweet" on the spot, she said, "I can't help singing this song, I love it too much, Mr. Song knows me and loves me because of this song."
Her eyes were full of stars when she sang this song, because it was the song she had sung for Song Xueren at the wedding. How strong and sweet the love was at that time.
Song Xueren loves Zhang Qingfang, and he never stingy in his shots, and when he first got married, he often sent yachts and jewelry, which attracted the envy of the media. Even if the divorce is imminent this year, Song Xueren has bought a mansion for Zhang Qingfang.
Love is so, should not be separated, why are two people still separated?
Love is like fire, marriage is like water, in the marriage like water, Zhang Qingfang is living in deep water, and all this stems from the discord between the two personalities.
Zhang Qingfang has a great future before marriage, not only a veteran of the music world, but also a big sister in the variety show hosting industry, which can be said to be a big storm, and her bold and cheerful personality is also very popular with fans and audiences.
However, Song Xueren comes from an old-school family, and his traditional concept is that the wife should teach her husband and children at home, and if the wife is working outside, it means that the husband is useless and ridiculed.
Therefore, soon after the two got married, Zhang Qingfang was forced by her husband's pressure and slowly faded out of the acting world.
In 2010, Zhang Qingfang was invited by a friend to sing on the Stage of the Taipei Arena, which was such a small performance, and she also communicated with her husband for a long time before obtaining permission.
At the beginning, the sweetness of love suppressed the desire in her heart, and Zhang Qingfang felt that if she became a family, she would have to sacrifice for her family. When interviewed, she laughed in front of the screen and said that she was a "strict husband", saying that she did not dare to be two, but her eyes could not hide the loneliness.
Before getting married, she called the wind and rain in the music world, but after getting married, she became the "free nanny" of the family, and she did it for 15 years.
She works a lot every day, and Song Xueren looks for her for any trivial matters, in addition to arranging the itinerary for the whole family, but also contacting the driver and nanny to determine their work tasks.
She rarely had time to party with friends, and even if she went out for a small gathering, in less than an afternoon, she would receive countless soul-snatching calls. Not to mention going out for social parties and concerts, only with the approval of Song Xueren, she can get a moment of freedom.
After a long time of pain and entanglement, she finally proposed a divorce to him, and there was no mutual accusation or black material in the divorce statement, but the personality was not harmonious, so it was good to get together and disperse.
There are many people who see the word divorce and think of failure, think of "the dream of the giants" and "the abandoned wives of the giants", but Zhang Qingfang does not think so, she has the capital to live her life.
As early as when Song Xueren gave her a luxury yacht, she once said to the media: "I must be able to afford it first, and after I can afford it, I will not be weak in my heart when I take anything, and people will not look down on it." ”
That is to say, what Mr. Song gave her, she herself can afford to buy. Brain patch, the yacht is like the clothes your boyfriend gave you, you yourself have the strength to buy this dress, so don't panic when you hold it.
Before getting married, Zhang Qingfang had published more than 30 albums, sold tens of millions of copies, and in 1996, EMI Records invited her to sign a contract, and the signing amount alone was NT$200 million.
In addition, she also has her own side business - running a hair salon, Zhang Qingfang opened a Stella hair salon in Taipei Dazhi, selling second-hand boutique clothing accessories, and the income is very impressive.
It is precisely because of this kind of capital, Zhang Qingfang said, I married Mr. Song, not who climbed high, but only because the conditions matched. Now she does not love, only because she yearns for freedom, but Song Xueren traps her; she is bold and independent in nature, but her husband is macho and does not allow her to break free from his "control".
Her escape, in fact, is the yearning for freedom, humanistic psychologist Maslow once put forward the theory of needs, everyone has the need for self-realization, Song Xueren loves Zhang Qingfang, but his love is not what she wants, his love binds her, so that she can not release her vitality and value, so she can not find happiness.
If people are no longer happy, what value is there in being together?
As Plato once said: If, unhappy, if, unhappy, then let go; if, can not let go, if, reluctant, then pain!
Zhang Qingfang also said in an interview, "I hope I can unload all my baggage." Future events are unpredictable, nothing is eternal, and nothing is impossible. "Half a hundred years old, the first half of her life lives for others, the second half of her life back to herself, wishing her to find her own happiness."
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