Not long ago, Tang Miao, a 39-year-old former member of the men's volleyball team, posted a dynamic on his personal social platform, writing: "Flowers naturally become flowers, clouds naturally become clouds, existence is meaning, a winding path slowly turns into the fog, a piece of green quietly avoids autumn, a sentence I am destined by the sky, wet red eyes, call back life, light up my heart "! Tang Miao has been paralyzed for 12 years, but many people still remember Tang Miao's name and the accident.
The classic line "My life is up to me" is also a true portrayal of Tang Miao's confrontation with fate over the years. In recent years, although Tang Miao has been somewhat dissatisfied, he still maintains a positive and optimistic attitude. Many netizens also often send encouragement and blessings to Tang Miao, ''I wish you good health!'' ''Brother Miao, have you been doing well lately?' ''This life is still very long, wheelchairs and beds can trap the body, can't trap the mind'". Tang Miao also patiently replied: "Although the body is not good, the spirit should persist."
Speaking of Tang Miao, many fans sympathize with his suffering, Tang Miao is 2.03 meters tall and was the main force of the Chinese men's volleyball team. He and Shen Qiong, the head coach of the Shanghai men's volleyball team, can be said to be the most dazzling "Gemini stars" at that time. From entering the Shanghai first team to occupying a place in the national arena, Tang Miao only took three years. At the 2003 Asian Cup, the main player left the team due to injury. Tang Miao was given an important task due to his injury. It was his first time in the main squad, but he played an eight-sided game and together with his teammates set a brilliant record of winning the top four.
Since then, the Shanghai men's volleyball team has won a series of matches in the domestic league, winning the league championship since 2004 and the National Games in 2005, and Tang Miao also quickly emerged from the young players. At that time, everyone thought that his future was unlimited, but unfortunately he was jealous of talent and ended his career at the age of 25. In 2007, Tang Miao participated in a friendly match against Shanghai in Russia. During the pre-match flexibility activities, Tang Miao accidentally fell into the head and seriously injured, losing consciousness below the chest.
After several rescues, the injury was still very serious, and he was diagnosed with a burst fracture of the sixth cervical spine with a complete spinal cord injury, and could only spend his life in a wheelchair. He and his ex-wife Zhou Suhong were once the golden children and jade girls in the sports world, and Zhou Suhong also took care of Tang Miao for five years, but in order not to drag down his wife, Tang Miao chose to divorce. After the divorce, Zhou Suhong remarried to a rich man and now has a very high status.
For many years, it was his father who took care of Tang Miao, and his father also suffered from heart disease, and as he grew older, he seemed to be a little overwhelmed. Two years ago, Tang Miao gave birth to her daughter through IVF. In order to reduce the burden on her father and let her daughter have a complete family, Tang Miao decided to openly marry on social platforms, hoping to have someone who is willing to take care of him, accompany him, and spend his life together.
More than four months have passed since the news of the marriage, and no one is willing to formally respond to him, after all, it is not easy to take care of Tang Miao's family, and there are many well-meaning people who are willing to provide free help within the scope of their ability, but Tang Miao politely refused. I hope that with the development of medicine, Tang Miao's paralysis can be cured as soon as possible, and I hope that he can find a partner as soon as possible.