Before getting a marriage license, all feelings are variable, not to say that living under the same roof is a lifelong thing. A lifetime is too long, and no one can guarantee what will happen in the middle.
Assuming you have a stable relationship, have been with your boyfriend for some years, are ready to get married, and have bought a marriage house, what reason do you think there is to make this relationship shatter in an instant?
Maybe you're struggling to think of a reason that can instantly trigger feelings. After all, each other has a foundation of feelings, and they all go to get married, not just for love.
I would say that a lot of trivial things in reality can trigger a person's emotions. Even if these two people have a deep friendship, they will not be able to stand the tempering.
My good sister Chen Xiao, because of her work, was assigned to follow up on this project, which led to her National Day business trip, which made her feel a little unhappy.
But the boyfriend seems to be very busy, and he did not reply in time after sending the message. It took more than half an hour to reply to her short sentence. This made her anger burn even more, thinking about what to do with him when she got home.
Unexpectedly, as soon as he entered the house, Chen Xiao was frightened. A room full of strangers, Chen Xiao's first reaction was whether he had entered the wrong house, but looking around, he was indeed his own home.
She smiled politely and then looked for her boyfriend in the crowd, then dragged him into the room and asked him what had happened. It turned out that these were relatives of her boyfriend, who had come to live with her during the holidays.
That's right, I didn't go to dinner, but to stay with her. Listening to her words, she was particularly devastated. Why didn't she discuss it in advance? With so many people coming at the same time, she couldn't arrange it.
When Chen Xiao was angry, her boyfriend said calmly, "It's okay. They can make floors. ”。 Xiao Chen Mei felt that her boyfriend was a very caring person, and even relatives who could not let go of the family were brought to the house to settle down.
Chen was embarrassed by the face, did not lose his temper, just smiled and explained that because he came back late from a business trip, he was not very welcome. Please forgive me.
That night, Xiao Chen didn't even take a few bites and gave up his position. She watched them eat and drink and instantly gave up her appetite. She had to say that she was full, and let them eat slowly, and she slipped into the room.
She asked me for help and asked me what to do. I said what else could I do, but I could only endure. After sending these relatives away, it is appropriate to come to your boyfriend to settle the account. Otherwise, they are outnumbered. At this time, they are just positive and will definitely suffer losses.
Chen Xiao listened to my opinion, did not erupt into a small universe, but gave her boyfriend a face to help him take care of these relatives she had never met and never met.
She felt that after a day of running, this job was more tiring than her own business, and she was eager to run away from home immediately. No matter how many people, they all sensibly told her that these relatives must be sent away to teach her boyfriend a lesson.
Fortunately, the advice of relatives with good eyesight to stay here all the day was not the way to go, affecting the couple's arrangements and not disrupting their plans because of their arrival.
Chen muttered in her heart that this had already made her a big mess, but because of her face, she still politely stayed. My eyesight-less boyfriend also said that he stayed a few more days, and finally went to the city, only to feel the prosperity of the big city before going back.
The two sides argued for a while and finally decided to leave after lunch. Otherwise, it will be difficult to go back, and there will be traffic jams when you go back. Everyone was quite happy with the result.
In order to make a good impression on his relatives, Chen Xiao went to the vegetable market to buy a lot of hard dishes, which was a treat for them. After a full meal, they packed their bags and walked around lively.
At this time, Chen Xiao was always relieved, so she didn't have to force herself to say something polite. She wanted to ask questions right away, but seeing the messy living room and the floor with nowhere to waste, she decided to get hygienic first.
After the busy, she slowly and leisurely asked her boyfriend why she invited relatives to her house without saying a word, and let her cousin use her skin care products, causing her to collapse.
Even though Chen had exploded at this time, the boyfriend still didn't understand. She thought she was making a big deal out of it. She was all the relatives in the family. She came home to catch up with the holidays and stayed for one night. He still accused Chen of being unreasonable, unsympathetic, and not humane at all.
This was already the case before marriage. If you get married, you'll reap the rewards. Chen cried and asked her boyfriend, is this so? Insisting that he was right, he slammed the door in anger, saying she was too stingy.
During this time, Chen Xiao cried and asked me, what should I do? I comforted her and said it was just a hurdle in life. If you marry him and have children, there will be some tribulations waiting for you.
It was his fault. You behaved well and warmly welcomed these relatives. If he hasn't realized his mistake yet, separation is the best option. Such a loving boyfriend can't marry.
It is said that it is better to demolish a temple than to destroy a marriage. I have watched the whole process from acquaintance to love, and I hope to see your love blossom and bear fruit, but this just reminds you.
As for what to do, you still have to decide for yourself. You might as well imagine what you would do and crash again if you got married and had children after marriage, and this unexpected thing happened again.
Hearing this, Chen Xiao calmed down a lot. She told me she was glad she hadn't gotten her driver's license, otherwise, it would have been a really impossible day. I asked her, how is your marriage room? Would you like to?
She hesitated for a moment and sold one person in half. No one takes advantage of anyone. As for whether she wants to or not, there is no point in dragging bad things in her hand, it is better to let go.
I didn't expect her to be so decisive. You know, many women, after a relationship, tend to find it difficult to get out. Didn't expect her to be so calm and smart that she couldn't help but give her a thumbs up.
Some people may say that a woman like Chen Xiao is too stingy, not modest at all, and not suitable for marriage. I would like to say that it is not that she is modest, but that she is unwilling to wronged herself, and she has the capital to live herself.
Now girls have been able to last a long time. They have their own house, stable jobs, scooters and friends. Love really isn't a necessity for them.
They don't need to aggrieved themselves for the sake of the world, and live an uncomfortable, particularly aggrieved life. We come into this world to experience, not to suffer.
The good or bad of life, after all, you decide. When you see bad signs in your relationship, smart women tend to choose to make decisions quickly rather than pestering or paralyzing themselves.
The happiness of our lives is like a kite in the sky. We should be at the helm, holding the kite line tightly in our hands and deciding where it flies and how high it flies.
Never wronged yourself for the sake of unimportant people in your life and make yourself unhappy. In life, what matters is not how others are, but how they laugh happily.
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