"I have a wife and a girlfriend" "If the other half agrees, will you have sex with the other opposite sex?" ”
These two very strange-sounding words, don't worry, look down with your questions and answers...
The reason why these two questions will be raised is because not long ago, Chen Yufan's sweet dating photo with his girlfriend who is 18 years younger than him was exposed, and he and Bai Baihe, the "former model couple" in the entertainment industry, have once again aroused heated discussion.
As can be seen from the photo, the little girlfriend accompanies the "happy fat" to play football, and the little girlfriend on the side is very shy.
Time pulled back to 2017. At that time, Bai Baihe had a strong momentum, and the actor Wang Luodan, who collided with her, was suppressed beyond any force.
Every film starring Bai Baihe, who was crowned as the "Queen of the Box Office", achieved word-of-mouth and box office double harvest, and she became the darling of directors and investors in the industry.
But in April of the same year, she was photographed as a Thai secret male model small fresh meat. For a time, netizens have brushed the screen to sympathize with her husband who bought drunk late at night.
Who expected that a year later, the result of the peak turn, she and the male model Xiao Fresh Meat traveled to Thailand, her husband and the little 18-year-old girlfriend together.
While being husband and wife with Bai Baihe, he is in a sweet love affair with his little girlfriend.
Now her ex-husband seems to have shaken off the haze of the past and returned to a happy and happy life, but she is still being scolded and the box office performance is not good.
In fact, the reason why she will fall into the current situation may be glimpsed from her growth experience.
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On March 1, 1984, Chen Yufan, a 9-year-old child Wang, was playing with a group of friends in the Beijing compound.
He is mischievous and does not listen to discipline, but at the same time he is very smart, so that parents do not know whether to rejoice or be sad?
At that time, in Qingdao, Shandong, a female doll named Bai Xue, who had not yet changed her name to Bai Baihe, was born in the expectation of her parents.
Her father was the leader of a unit in Qingdao. Her mother was talented and originally a dancer, but because she was about to leave Qingdao to join the literary troupe, her family was reluctant to suffer from her daughter, so Bai's mother could only terminate her dream of dancing.
White Mom is young
The birth of her daughter gave Bai's mother hope that her daughter Bai Xue could complete her unfulfilled dance dreams for her.
The white father who spoiled his wife, as long as his wife was happy, so Bai Xue was arranged by his mother to go to dance classes since he was a child.
The white mother is very willing to give up her blood on her daughter's dance road.
She not only helped her daughter to invite a very good dance teacher at that time, but also encouraged her daughter to take the exam and was known as the "cradle of dancers" - Beijing Dance Academy Affiliated High School.
Bai Xue himself also likes dance very much, and has been the backbone of the class since he was a child, can sing and dance, can choreograph and direct, and is not afraid to perform in front of everyone.
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Maybe it's talent, maybe it's inheriting mom's dance genes. In 1996, at the age of 12, Bai Baihe was admitted to the Secondary Dance School affiliated to the Beijing Dance Academy.
At the age of 12, she inherited the genes of her parents who were tall and tall, and was half a head taller than her peers. With long hands and feet and a golden ratio, she is a good seedling for practicing "dance".
If there is no accident, after graduation, she will follow the path planned by her mother for her, enter the Beijing Dance Academy, and become a professional and excellent dancer.
In the years when she was in the North Dance Annex, she was very happy, not only could she dance every day, but also had no bondage from her parents and could not live happier.
However, Chen Yufan, who was also in Beijing at the time, was experiencing the darkest moments of his life.
On January 13, 1993, at the age of 18, he was in his sophomore year of high school. On that day, the school's director of teaching and his father suddenly appeared at the door of his class and said that Chen Tao (later renamed Chen Yufan) came out.
Confused, he walked out. The director of education told him the news of a thunderbolt on a sunny day: "You have liver disease, hurry up and go to the hospital with your father for treatment." ”
At first, he didn't realize the seriousness of the matter.
Until the three years from 1993 to 1996, he was repeatedly hospitalized, discharged and hospitalized again.
Each time the hospitalization time became longer and longer, I saw the patients in the same ward admitted and discharged, and then quickly hospitalized, and finally never got out of the hospital.
In addition to the physical discomfort, what made him even more uncomfortable was the alienation of his classmates and the departure of his confidants.
He said: "At that time, people did not have such a deep understanding of liver disease. ”
Classmates are afraid of being infected and are no longer willing to play with him. A girl who had an affair with him would visit her in the hospital at first. But later, under the persuasion of the woman's parents, she also left him.
He said: "At night Chinese New Year's Eve, the huge ward was just me and the nurse, and I was lying alone in a ward of seven people. Endless loneliness and sadness buried hidden dangers in his heart.
He said desperately: "A case that kills my qualification to love." ”
Luckily, Beyond's music saved him.
When he thought about it for a hundred years in the hospital room, Beyond's song "Rush Away from Everything" inexplicably rang in his ears: "There are many challenges in the world, a brave attempt, pain will eventually change you, let life rush away from everything, I want to contact new hope..."
He said: "Music saved me when I was most desperate. "When he dropped out of school due to illness, he fell madly into Beyond and plunged into the world of music.
In 1998, at the age of 23, he met the talented Hu Haiquan, and the two of them took a word in their names and formed the "Yu Quan" group.
On November 17 of the same year, the two signed to Rolling Stone Records. In 1999, Yuquan released his first album "The Most Beautiful", which instantly became popular across the strait and three places, sweeping away the haze of the past.
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Time flew by, and Bai Xue, a Qingdao girl 9 years younger than Chen Yufan, had been in the North Dance Annex for almost 4 years.
In 2000, the 50-year-old Zhang Yimou took the steps of an internationally famous director and came to the North Dance Annex to choose a pure and beautiful heroine who could dance for his new movie "Happy Time".
Although the chances are slim, once you become a "girl", it is not far from being a hit. Therefore, almost all the girls in the school have signed up, which can make the eyes of the old strategist look at it.
When he went to the corridor to get some air, he came across a 16-year-old girl. This girl is not particularly beautiful, but she is beautiful.
The old strategist, who was on a whim, threw an olive branch to the girl and invited her to participate in the film audition.
But the girl was very personal, she said: "Don't go, I can't try anyway, and it delays me to go home for dinner." ”
This moment, Zhang Yimou remembered this girl. Although she refused, Lao Mouzi still hoped to see her in the next audition.
This girl is Bai Xue, which is later Bai Baihe.
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After returning home, Bai Xue told her mother about it.
Bai's mother thought that this was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity and pressed her daughter Bai Xue to return to school to audition immediately.
White Mom Young Photo
In the audition, Zhang Yimou let her play a clip of a girl who swallowed her breath and was scolded.
The other girls basically had tears in their eyes after the performance, and only she scolded the male actors when she acted, which caused the audience to laugh.
There was no doubt that she had lost. Dong Jie, who has a "pure jade girl" face, stood out from the 50,000 contestants.
With the movie "Happy Time", Dong Jie, who became famous overnight, won the Film Newcomer Award at the 7th China Film Huabiao Awards and the Best Actress Award at the 47th Valladolid International Film Festival in Spain.
Although she lost the election, she left a very deep impression on Zhang Yimou. Zhang Yimou said to her: "You can try to enter the Chinese opera or the Beijing Film Academy in the future and become an actress." ”
However, at that time, Zhang Yimou did not know his own words, which would make the show business industry usher in a film queen close to "tens of billions of box office".
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Perhaps out of trust in director Zhang Yimou, or perhaps she firmly believes that as long as she wants to do what she wants to do, she will be able to do well, she applied for these two acting colleges.
In 2002, at the age of 18, with her solid basic skills and excellent dance skills, she successfully pushed open the door of the Central Academy of Drama and became classmates with Wenwen, Tang Yan, nursery rhymes, Sun Jian, Bai Jing, Mao Junjie, Yang Shuo, Li Zefeng, Shen Jiani and others.
Because of her hot temper and straight-talking, the female classmates in the class "respected and stayed away" from her to avoid the "innocent disaster" of her language cannon one day.
In the group photo of the female classmates in the same class, she was rarely seen.
Maybe she also disdains to manage this relationship, or maybe she feels that she has a male girlfriend article to accompany her.
How much female classmates "don't want to see" her, how much male classmates "appreciate" her.
Classmate Li Zefeng said: "She is very outstanding in our class. Many male classmates and brothers in the class were chasing her, and they almost fought for her. ”
When her love sinus first opened, she also quickly fell in love.
It is reported that her college boyfriend is a classmate Zhang Silin, who later directed the TV series "That Youth We Were Just Right".
In the talented Chinese opera, her grades and performance are not very good, and she often fails in acting classes.
But for her ambitious, it was nothing at all. From the beginning of her freshman year, she began to look for opportunities to "get ahead".
That side of the relationship in 2000 made director Zhang Yimou always remember this "personality" girl, and he regretted that he did not let her become the heroine last time.
In 2003, Zhang Yimou wanted to shoot a beer advertisement, and directly set her as a sophomore, making her a heroine.
Although she was only 19 years old at the time, she had long since faded, did not see any twisting, and smiled brighter than a flower. Her height of 171cm, coupled with her convex and upturned figure, makes her look even more attractive.
Her performance made director Zhang Yimou quite satisfied, and hinted that she could take the play under the banner of "Mou Girl", but reminded her that "in the future, the play that is not the heroine should not be picked up".
The aura of "Girl Scout" has made her acting road smooth.
Although she wants to "get ahead", she fell in love with her boyfriend at this time, and she still put all her energy on love.
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Just when she was seriously in love, the man who was closely linked to her fate in the future, as well as Wang Luodan, the "little chick" of Inner Mongolia, had already turned red and purple.
In 2005, at the age of 21, Wang Luodan graduated from the Beijing Film Academy a year before Bai Xue.
In April 2006, her partners Tong Dawei and Ma Yili participated in the TV series "Struggle", and director Zhao Baogang wanted her to play Lulu, who is also a female N.
But Wang Luodan insists on playing the same female N - a classmate who is persistent in love, dares to love and dares to hate, has a kind heart, and is the heroine.
It can only be said that Wang Luodan's vision is very "poisonous", and after the TV series "Struggle" was played, this drama quickly exploded.
In the play, Milai, who has a distinct personality, is loved by the audience, and the limelight once overshadowed Tong Dawei and Ma Yili, who played the male and female protagonists.
Since then, she has been continuously filmed, the star road is brilliant, and she has been honored with the throne of the Golden Eagle Goddess, and together with Yang Mi, Liu Yifei and Huang Shengyi, she has been voted as the "Four Little Flower Dan after the 80s".
At that time, Chen Yufan, who had been in the entertainment industry for several years, and his good brother Hu Haiquan released six albums in one go, and the album sales reached a new high, and the songs "Cold to the End", "The Most Beautiful" and "Running" resounded throughout the streets.
Good resources are pouring into him like snowflakes. In addition to music, he hopes to achieve something in film and television.
Therefore, he "does not refuse to come" and starred in film and television works such as "Beijing Summer", "If There Is No Love", "Ambition", "Waiting Alone" and so on.
At that time, Bai Xue, who was about to graduate from Chinese opera, watched his classmate Tang Yan and the article gradually gain a foothold in the entertainment industry. And with the title of "Girl", she is still a little anxious.
She thought to herself, this is not going to work. She was the one who wanted to "get ahead", so she and her former sweet college boyfriend parted ways.
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Bai Xue, who was about to graduate from Chinese opera in 2005, knew that he had no connections, no background, and his acting skills were not particularly famous, and it was a fool's dream to stand out.
At that time, most of the good resources of the film and television circle were in the hands of the big names of the "Beijing circle" composed of Wang Shuo, Zhao Baogang, Ye Jing, Zheng Xiaolong and others.
At that time, in order to enter this "Beijing circle", Feng Xiaogang also personally made sauce pig trotters and pepper and hemp chicken shreds for the recognized big man Wang Shuo, and followed Wang Shuo's ass back to the saddle for many years, which shows how much influence this circle has.
In 2005, director Ye Jing adapted Wang Shuo's novel "Playing is a Heartbeat" into a TV series "Days Related to Youth". This work alludes to the youth stories of Wang Shuo, Wang Zhongjun, Wang Zhonglei, Ye Jing, Feng Xiaogang, Haiyan and others.
The so-called back to the big tree is good for cooling, this sentence is very suitable for Chen Yufan.
In the play, there is exactly a need for a Beijing boy who can play guitar, and Ye Jing suddenly remembered Chen Yufan, who is also a child of the Beijing courtyard and has a good friendship with him, and let him serve as one of the main actors.
Director Ye Jing knows that the good brother Wang Shuo has always been in love with Xu Jinglei, and when selecting the heroine Qiaoqiao, he deliberately selected a girl with a similar temperament to Xu Jinglei.
He picked and chose, and picked the sweet and artistic white snow who was studying in his junior year.
Bai Xue, who entered the crew, is an eye-opener, and there are not only popular first-line students Tong Dawei in the play, but also the hot singer "Yu Quan".
She was very curious to see that the directors Ye Jing and Wang Shuo were very familiar with Chen Yufan, who played her opponent. After some inquiry, she felt very surprised, his appearance of Chen Yufan was actually the "Prince of the Beijing Circle", with a wide range of connections and hard connections.
After learning this, Bai Xue's heart stirred up layers of ripples.
With the unique advantage of playing Chen Yufan's girlfriend in the play, the two people have been facing each other for more than 5 months. She looked at Chen Yufan with adoration on her face, greeted him with a warm greeting, and sent him breakfast and beef noodles.
The so-called "male chasing female separated mountain, female chasing male compartment yarn".
Where can the 30-year-old Chen Yufan resist the strong attack of the 21-year-old girl Bai Xue, he quickly falls in love with this girl.
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However, at that time, Chen Yufan already had a Chongqing girlfriend who had been talking for 6 years and was ready to talk about marriage. But at that time, Bai Xue did not care whether Chen Yufan had a girlfriend, she was anxious to gain a foothold in the entertainment industry.
Chen Yufan said: "Before the previous relationship and her (Bai Xue), I had to make a choice. "As for the reason why Chen Yufan and his ex-girlfriend broke up, there are many opinions.
The ex-girlfriend said: "I don't want to make the reason for the breakup public, after all, he is a public figure, which will have a bad impact on him." ”
On the one hand, the girlfriend who has been in love for many years, and on the other hand, the little girl who is young and hot and worships herself, Chen Yuquan is very embarrassed.
But Bai Xue's words aroused the curiosity and competitiveness of countless Chen Yuquan.
Bai Xue said, "Chen Tao, I tell you that I want to be with you not for you, but for me." Now is not for you to abandon whom and who to choose, it is you who to choose between two people. ”
Hearing these words, Chen Yufan decisively chose Bai Xue.
Although the drama "Days Related to Youth" did not make Bai Xue a hit, it completely changed her fate and put her on another "shortcut" to reach the top faster.
On December 26, 2006, Bai Xueshan, a 22-year-old who had just graduated, married Chen Yufan, who was 9 years older than himself.
On January 19, 2008, Bai Xue gave birth to a son, named Yuanbao, and the big name Chen Shengtong.
After the wife gave birth, Chen Yuquan said that too many people called Bai Xue, and suggested that the wife change to a special name, which is more conducive to the development of the entertainment industry.
Wife Bai Xue asked, "What name did you change to?" Chen Yufan said, "Then change it to Bai Baihe." Therefore, Bai Xue changed his name to Bai Baihe.
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On April 17, 2008, Tong Dawei and Guan Yue held a grand wedding in Beijing, and the witness was Zhao Baogang, a famous director who won the popular tong Dawei, and the wedding banquet also happened to invite Chen Yufan.
Chen Yufan saw his wife breastfeeding the child for three months at home, afraid that she would be bored, and thought of simply taking her to the banquet and introducing her some resources.
Tong Dawei Guan Yue wedding
During the wedding banquet, director Zhao Baogang and Chen Yufan had a small chat, and when they saw Bai Baihe sitting next to Chen, he said, "What is your wife engaged in?" ”
Chen Yufan said: "Is she an actress? Director Zhao Baogang replied: "Is she still acting?" ”
Bai Baihe said, "I just gave birth to a baby, and I'm still breastfeeding." ”
Bai Baihe did not understand what Director Zhao Baogang had said, but Chen Yufan, who has been in the entertainment industry for many years, naturally understood the subtext behind the director, and he hurriedly said: "She is not fed, she can enter the group immediately." ”
In this way, in 2009, the 25-year-old Bai Baihe successfully starred in the urban love drama "Who Decides My Youth" directed by Zhao Baogang.
Joining Bai Baihe in the group was Zhao Baogang's red man Wang Luodan, and the years when Bai Baihe was busy getting married and having children happened to be Wang Luodan's most brilliant years.
It's just that Wang Luodan is a bit willful and not easy to discipline, so Zhao Dao has long had the idea of cultivating new people.
Although Bai Baihe is not the main actor in "My Youth Who Is the Master", he hugged the thighs of Director Zhao and Wang Jinghua, the gold-medal agent of the entertainment industry, through this drama.
Backed by the "Beijing Circle", as well as the strong help of Zhao Dao and Wang Jinghua, Bai Baihe's acting career is like a hanging all the way.
However, as director Zhao Baogang said: "Bai Baihe is a threat to Wang Luodan. "How brilliant Bai Baihe's career is, how bad Wang Luodan's career is.
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With the help of the east wind beside him, Bai Baihe has successively starred in film and television works such as "Lying Lover", "Home, N Power", "Floating and Sinking", "Rules Before Divorce", "Gravity" and so on.
In 2011, Bai Baihe starred in the movie "Thirty-Three Days of Lost Love" with his male girlfriend article in college.
With the role of Huang Xiaoxian in the movie "Thirty-Three Days of Lost Love", the 27-year-old Bai Baihe quickly became popular and won the Popular Film Hundred Flowers Award.
After Bai Baihe became the Hundred Flowers Award, someone asked Wang Luodan: "When you see Bai Baihe who collided with your face becoming popular overnight, will you feel a little envious and jealous in your heart?" ”
Wang Luodan calmly replied, "No, I know the value of my existence too much." ”
A reporter also asked about colliding with Bai Baihe's face, do you feel embarrassed?
Wang Luodan couldn't help but reply: "Don't say that I am like her, Bai Lily may be more embarrassed to meet me, because she is like me, not me like her." ”
Compared with Wang Luodan's answer, Bai Baihe's answer was more pleasing.
She said: "Teacher Wang is my predecessor, and I have no way to compare with her. When she was acting, there were already many people who liked her. When she became famous, I was still at home. ”
However, Bai Baihe mentioned without leaving a trace:
"At the beginning of the role of Millais in "Struggle", Director Zhao was looking for me to act, but I was on vacation with Yu Fan in Germany at that time and could not come back."
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After "Thirty-Three Days of Lost Love", Bai Baihe's resources rolled in.
She also did not have time to take care of wang Luodan, the "predecessor" whose resources were depleting day by day and was far behind her.
In 2013, Bai Baihe shifted from the field of television dramas to the field of movies.
This year, she starred in the movie "Breakup Contract" with her national boyfriend Peng Yuyan, cooperated with Zhang Xiaoquan, the male god of literary and art films, "The Five Years That Were Stolen", and also cooperated with director Feng Xiaogang in "Private Order"...
In 2014, her 6-year-old son, Yuan Bao, had just entered the first grade of elementary school.
In order to accompany her son through this adaptation period, she almost rested for more than half a year, not to take on the TV series and film work that had to stay in the crew for several months, but only to take on some dubbing and announcement work.
This year, she contributed to the animated films Pleasant Goat and The Pegasus Adventures of the Grey Wolf and How to Train Your Dragon 2.
In 2015, seeing that his son was adapting well, Bai Baihe immediately returned to work.
This year, she and Lu Yi starred in the inspirational drama "Grow Up".
In the same year, she also starred in the movies "Catch the Demon" and "Get Out!" Tumor Jun", "City in Love", "Spend a long time with Anthony".
Among them, the box office of the movie "To Catch a Demon" reached 2.44 billion, laying the foundation for her unshakable status in the show business circle.
Although the movie "Get Out!" "Tumor Jun" only grossed 500 million, but this movie helped her gain the favor of the audience.
With the movie Get Out! She won the Best Actress Award at the Beijing University Student Film Festival, the Huabiao Award for Outstanding Actress, and the Actress of the Year Award at the 2015 Annual Commendation Conference of the China Film Directors Association.
The role of Huo Xiaolan, the demon-catcher in the movie "To Catch a Demon", also made her nominated for the Best Actress of the Popular Film Hundred Flowers Award, the Best Actress of the Golden Rooster Award of Chinese Film, and the Best Actress Award of the Changchun Film Festival.
These two movies can be said to have made her fame and fortune and completely stand on the peak of her career.
Bai Baihe's acting career became increasingly prosperous, while the influence of Chen Yufan and the "Beijing Circle" gradually weakened.
In the eyes of Bai Baihe, the shadow queen at this time, her husband Chen Yufan has completed his mission.
Her relationship with her husband became weaker and weaker, and the two gradually drifted apart.
As of January 2017, Bai Baihe, with a box office of 7.7 billion, has left Zhou Dongyu, Ma Li, Yao Chen, Shu Qi, Lu Jingshan, Yang Mi of the fire, Tong Liya, "Star Girl" Lin Yun, and Li Qin, a post-90s Xiaohua Dan, far behind.
Her limelight was unmatched for a while, and she was called by the media as the first "10 billion film queen" in China.
At that time, she was 33 years old and her career was in full swing, and she did not know that a storm that nearly destroyed her career was waiting for her.
In April 2017, a video of Bai Baihe and a fresh meat male model playing intimately in a private pool in Thailand was exposed online.
When the love was strong, Bai Baihe also staged "One Finger Zen" and "Touching the Buttocks to Kill" with the male model.
Overnight, Bai Baihe's image of purity and purity completely collapsed and was pushed to the cusp of the storm.
Wang Luodan, who bumped into her face, was so happy that he wrote on social platforms: "Spring is coming. ”
Media person Zhuo Wei joked: "I feel that Wang Luodan's laughter can be heard in the West Third Ring Road." ”
At this time, Chen Yufan, who was sympathetic to everyone, quickly clarified: "Wife Bai Baihe did not cheat unmarried, and the two had already agreed to divorce in 2015." ”
But for this statement, the audience obviously does not buy it. After all, the two also joined in 2015 on the variety show "Run Brothers".
Bai Baihe talked about the way husband and wife get along in the show.
Chen Yufan generously said that the two had plans to have a second child, and their wives did not sit on the ground, but also wanted their sisters.
Who knew that she had a husband before the mouth, and a small fresh meat male model after the person.
At the same time, Chen Yufan was also picked out by netizens since 2013, and often secretly poked and poked on social platforms to show love, sending her and her and her 18-year-old girlfriend Dang Zhen a group photo.
He also wrote a hidden poem for his little girlfriend on Valentine's Day.
It can only be said that the entertainment industry is a drama inside and outside the play.
When Bai Baihe was deeply involved in the crisis of public opinion, Wang Luodan did not pry Bai Baihe's performing arts market as expected.
In 2018, Bai Baihe starred in the comedy film "To Catch a Demon 2" starring film emperor Liang Chaowei and Jing Bairan, which won 2.236 billion yuan at the box office.
Bai Baihe's box office appeal is still very strong.
So many people asked: "Why is she still able to make people black and red when she is deeply in the crisis of scandal?" ”
This question is as difficult to answer as why Yang Chaoyue can burst into flames.
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However, after "To Catch a Demon 2", Bai Baihe's results were not very good.
In 2019, she starred in the movies "A-Ma is a City" and "Dear Happy New Year", but none of them stirred up too many splashes.
In 2020, she was revealed to be suspected of reuniting with her college boyfriend Zhang Silin, and the two spent the night together.
After parting ways with Chen Yufan, her career did not seem to go smoothly.
The former "box office queen" is about to become a small transparent entertainment circle.
She once stood on a high place, where can she bear her current state of "disappearing".
In 2021, she starred in a female monologue drama called "Hear Her Say", which focused on the survival pain points of contemporary women such as full-time housewives.
In the show, Bai Baihe plays a housewife who sends her husband and children out, does laundry and cooks for the family all year round, and mechanically repeats housework.
Facing the camera, Bai Baihe said lifelessly: "My husband works in the company that makes cartons, has a stable income, does not smoke or drink, and has no vices." Every day at work, I also stopped by to help me send my children to work. ”
Everyone advised her: "Contentment, you, isn't having children what you want?" And your husband doesn't pick flowers and weeds, what else are you not satisfied with? ”
She was stunned and thought to herself: "Housework and raising children, isn't it something that both husband and wife have to do, how can it be replaced by helping me?" ”
Her dilemma is very similar to "Jin Zhiying in '82": "As a mother, a wife, I occasionally feel very happy, but sometimes, I feel that I am imprisoned somewhere, I always feel that if I cross this wall, I should be able to find the exit, but I still hit the wall, sometimes I will wonder if there is no exit from the beginning." ”
The full-time mother played by Bai Baihe in the play is actually the true epitome of countless women in China after marriage.
They are trapped in the prison of marriage, surrounded by husbands, children, and families every day.
But no one cares about them, recognizes and affirms them, and they struggle to regain their lost selves.
Through this drama, Bai Baihe also spoke out about her marriage for the first time.
She said: "Failure is not bad, it is a failed marriage. ”
Women have often saved enough disappointment before leaving.
She said: "I've also been through not-so-good marriages.
Then I hope that my future other half can tolerate the bad emotions on my personality. ”