【Text: Ah Afraid】
In 2016, Hong Jinbao and his wife Gao Lihong appeared at the Mission Hills World Star Game, when a certain ice was in love with Li Chen.
At the scene of the red carpet, a reporter asked Hong Jinbao directly:
Hong Jinbao's face turned green on the spot, directly choking the reporter:
The reporter was intimidated from coming to the stage, and Hong Jinbao no longer answered any questions about "a certain ice dry father".
In addition to Hong Jinbao and female reporters, there was also Mrs. Hong, who was standing on the side, Gao Lihong.
Why?
In the face of Hong Jinbao's various scandals, Gao Lihong could only smile helplessly, because she was also a "third party on the throne".
In order to do a good job of "Mrs. Hong" after marriage, Gao Lihong needs to "keep her ears out of the window gossip" and be willing to be a stepmother, so that the 56-year-old does not have her own children.
You say, has Gao Lihong ever regretted it? Is it worth it to interpret the word "virtuous wife" with 30 years of youth?
Today we will talk about the story of Gao Lihong and Hong Jinbao.
01
Gao Lihong is 13 years younger than Hong Jinbao.
In 1965, she was just born, and Hong Jinbao had already filmed films such as "The Education of Love", "Big and Small Huang Tianba", and "The Moment of Life and Death".
Gao Lihong's parents are australians, one is Chinese, mixed-race she has been very good-looking since she was a child, her facial features are bright, like a porcelain doll, no matter where she goes, Gao Lihong is the focus of the crowd.
During middle school, Gao Lihong felt that she belonged to the stage by nature, and her shadow could always be seen in the campus drama.
But Gao Lihong's parents feel that studying business and living an ordinary life is a better choice, and in the end, Gao Lihong can't help her parents and can only choose to go to business colleges.
After graduating from college, Gao Lihong originally found a job as a secretarial clerk, but after working for a long time, she felt that she was still suitable to live under the flash, so she changed her career to modeling.
In 1984, Gao Lihong was 20 years old. One day, she saw that TVB was holding the Miss Hong Kong election, and Gao Lihong signed up with the mentality of trying it out.
No one expected that Gao Lihong would go through five levels and cut six generals, and Yan Press Qunfang won the championship in one fell swoop, winning the championship and the title of "Most Photogenic Miss".
After that, Gao Lihong went to the United States as the champion of Hong Kong Sisters and participated in the miss universe competition.
On the day of the competition, Gao Lihong wore a Chinese Qing Palace costume similar to that worn by Cixi, and there was both the subtle elegance of Oriental women and the fashion and beauty of Western women between her hands and feet, and finally Gao Lihong won the third place in the "Best National Costume Award".
Most of the beauties who won the title of Hong Kong sister can successfully enter TVB and start their own smooth star path.
But Gao Lihong is an exception.
After fulfilling her obligations as a Hong Kong sister champion, TVB did not sign an artist contract with her. It is reasonable to say that based on the appearance conditions alone, Where the Koryo Rainbow is placed will not be buried, why would TVB reject such a good seedling?
First, because Gao Lihong's appearance was too Westernized, it would seem out of place in the film and television dramas at that time, so there was no suitable role for her.
In addition, because Gao Lihong's Cantonese level is poor, she can't play fluently with the actors.
Although she grew up in Hong Kong, because her family background is different from the public, Gao Lihong can speak fluent Chinese, English, and Japanese, but she is not fluent in Cantonese.
Gao Lihong, who wanted to become an actress, was rejected because her language was not good, which made her deeply shocked, and she began to practice Cantonese hard. Two years later, Gao Lihong's Cantonese level has greatly improved, and with the rapid development of the film industry, suitable roles for her have also followed.
02
In 1986, Gao Lihong officially stepped into the Hong Kong film circle and starred in her first film, "Ghost Hunting", in which she played a supporting role for Wang Zuxian and played the exorcist Xiao Ling.
Dark clouds of thick curls, thick eyebrows hooked the heart, but she smiled a little more delicately.
"Beautiful" is the label that the audience attaches to Gao Lihong.
But Gao Lihong did not like to be an empty and beautiful woman.
After filming the second film "Yuan Zhenxia and Wesley", Gao Lihong saw that the action movies in the film industry were popular at that time, and they would definitely be the mainstream in the future, so she thought of transforming into a "female star".
But for a woman who has never been exposed to martial arts, being a star is undoubtedly a fantasy. Just when she was at a loss, the most important man in her life came to the scene, and the opportunity for transformation also followed.
The year Gao Lihong stepped into the film industry, director Zhang Jianting was filming "The Bride of the Crossing Port" in Canada, and the male protagonist was Hong Jinbao.
At that time, the role of Hong Jinbao's ex-wife in the film was still empty, and Gao Lihong's "beauty" was outside, and for the sake of the film's box office, someone proposed to let Gao Lihong play the role of Hong Jinbao's ex-wife.
In this way, 36-year-old Hong Jinbao and 24-year-old Gao Lihong met.
At that time, Hong Jinbao had become the premier big brother in the Hong Kong film industry, surrounded by warblers and swallows, and countless beautiful women, but his first sight of Gao Lihong was still stunned.
Gao Lihong's role in "The Bride Over the Port" is very small, filmed in less than a week, and in just a few days, Hong Jinbao was fascinated, and Hong Jinbao put down his big brother's body and was attentive to Gao Lihong.
He took care of Gao Lihong everywhere, and even personally prepared breakfast for her, made milk tea, made coffee, and even quit smoking and lost 30 pounds for her, which was the thinnest time in his acting career.
With Hong Jinbao's liking, Gao Lihong's transformation into a "star" is not easy. Soon, Gao Lihong officially studied with Hong Jinbao and became a female disciple of Hong's class.
There is an old Chinese saying that men and women are not tired of working together, and male masters and female apprentices practice their skills, and they do not feel late at night.
After entering the Hongjia class, Gao Lihong's career also gradually improved.
In 1987, Hong Jinbao directed a "Oriental Condor" and invited Gao Lihong to participate, in which Gao Lihong changed her usual feminine and cold image and transformed into a "beating woman".
Sharp eyes, dirty makeup, coupled with neat punching and kicking kung fu, to get rid of a guerrilla, she was also nominated for the Academy Award for Best Supporting Actress for her outstanding performance in the film, but unfortunately lost to Jin Yanling.
But this is not the most important, to be able to cooperate with Hong Jinbao is what she wants.
03
One is the big brother of the Hong Kong circle with eight faces of prestige, and the other is a beautiful family with a love pulse, and the two have a long-term love affair, and the love is inseparable.
But no matter how much the two fall in love, Gao Lihong is an unjustified "third party", because Hong Jinbao already had a family at that time, and his wife was Cao Enyu.
Cao Eun-yu and Hong Jinbao met in 1977, when Hong Jinbao went to South Korea to shoot a scene, in order to facilitate communication, the Korean reception team arranged a translator for him, and by the way, helped him take care of work, take care of life, this all-round reception is Cao Enyu.
At that time, Cao Enyu and Gao Lihong were just as old, and Hong Jinbao, who was born and flowing, quickly moved his heart to her. But at first they just admired each other and had no intention of getting married, but then something happened that changed their relationship.
Hong Jinbao just returned to South Korea from Hong Kong, and when he got off the plane, he asked Cao Enyu to take him to check in the hotel, but the staff of the hotel kept stopping Cao Enyu and not letting her stay, and the staff insisted on verifying the relationship between Cao Enyu and Hong Jinbao. Hong Jinbao was anxious when he heard this, and said angrily:
Hong Jinbao took Cao Enyu to the consulate, and the two officially got married.
After getting married, Hong Jinbao lived in South Korea for a while, and finally he decided to return to Hong Kong to develop, so he asked his wife's opinion, "Would you like to follow me back to Hong Kong to develop?" Cao Enyu thought about it for a while and finally agreed.
However, not long after returning to Hong Kong, the stable days after returning to Hong Kong passed, and Hong Jinbao, who was accustomed to the affair, began to go in and out of the Wind moon place with his brothers, drinking, dancing, and playing with girls, and made countless scandals.
Over time, Cao Enyu naturally couldn't bear it, and began to quarrel with Hong Jinbao, and the feelings of the two appeared cracks, and later they quarreled every day, and the marriage cracks also became the Grand Canyon, which could not be healed.
For the first marriage, Hong Jinbao confessed that he had unlimited scenery in front of his brothers, and he quarreled every day as soon as he returned home, which was too boring. Finally, in 1991, the two ended their married life of 14.
But it has to be said that although the marriage between Hong Jinbao and Cao Enyu came quickly, it was not maintained for a long time, and within 14 years, Cao Enyu also gave birth to three sons and a daughter for Hong Jinbao.
04
Hong Jinbao's front foot has just been divorced, and the back foot Gao Lihong has become the righteous Mrs. Hong.
This day Gao Lihong waited for 5 years.
These five years of heartache are known only to herself, she finally got rid of the title of "third party", on the wedding day, Hong Jinbao invited most of the entertainment industry to the scene.
In the interview, Hong Jinbao also said that the reason why he married his ex-wife was because someone in a foreign country was good to him, and it was easy to get in love.
Both brightly and secretly they are expressing their true love for Gao Lihong.
In the program "Lu Yu has a date", Hong Jinbao also said that "Gao Lihong is the first woman I love in my life".
But the first is not the only one.
Gao Lihong's life after marriage is controversial, because Hong Jinbao "reminds" her that she was a third party before.
After marrying Gao Lihong, Hong Jinbao's style of style has not changed, he will often take his brothers to linger in the lights, and will spread gossip with female stars.
Unlike Cao Enyu, Gao Lihong chose not to believe these rumors, and would declare that the relationship between the two was very good.
Even when the relationship between Hong Jinbao and A Certain Ice was rumored by the media, Gao Lihong was still indifferent to the world.
When interviewing Hong Jinbao, Lu Yu once asked, "If the news from the media is true, will you admit it?" ”。
Hong Jinbao said bluntly:
Immediately after Hong Jinbao said that in the entertainment industry, this big dye vat, everything will be encountered, the most important thing between husband and wife is trust, Gao Lihong did this very well, as long as Hong Jinbao said that the news is false, he did not "cheat", Gao Lihong chose to believe him.
05
In order to live with Hong Jinbao, Gao Lihong lost a lot, and the most embarrassing estimate is to give up the right to procreate.
At the age of 26, she became the stepmother of Hong Jinbao's four children, and in order to avoid being eccentric to the outside world, Gao Lihong resolutely gave up the opportunity to have children, exchanged sincerity for sincerity, and let the four children believe that they regarded them as their own.
It can be said that Gao Lihong was both lucky and unfortunate in this marriage.
Now that times have passed, Hong Jinbao and Gao Lihong have been holding hands for 31 years, and the couple naturally has their way of getting along.
Once the big brother is old, more and more like a child, his dependence on Gao Lihong is also increasing day by day, as long as Gao Lihong is not around, he is very picky, there are many things that do not eat, but as soon as Gao Lihong comes home, Hong Jinbao does not pick anything.
This is one thing and one thing, Gao Lihong's softness can always hit Hong Jinbao's tough heart.
Feelings are the most unspeakable things, if Gao Lihong did not marry Hong Jinbao, did not choose to teach her son, presumably with her posture and efforts can also become a benchmark for "playing stars".
But it also takes a lot of courage to hold Hong Jinbao and choose to support him behind his back.
People often say that love is respect, love is tolerance, love is cherishing, love is understanding, and love is the courage to go on at all costs.
But perhaps, true love is companionship, it is joy, it is my old age, and I want to hold your hand again.
Looking back on the first half of Gao Lihong's life, she has lost too many things, and the criticism has always been around her, and now, after the baptism of wind and rain, she has finally achieved the happiness she wants.
Everything was the best arranged.
After the baptism of wind and rain, I hope that Hong Jinbao and Gao Lihong can enjoy their old age and share the joy of heaven.