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At the beginning, the motivation for chasing Han Zong's "Xiaoli Family Homestay" was IU and Yun'er, who wanted to see their Buddhist daily life.
As the storyline continued to advance, I was deeply immersed in the gentle love of the host of the homestay.
Lee Hyo-ri and Lee Sang-soon, known by the South Korean media as "Beauty and the Beast" CP, are too bamboo shoots.
It is reported that in 2011, the two met through a gathering of friends, and then they knew each other for jointly rescuing animals.
In November of the same year, Li Xiaoli generously opened his relationship and sweetly confessed to his boyfriend: "Oba really does not eat human fireworks, but I only have money." Even so, Oba doesn't hate me. ”
Netizens are sour! Fans are furious! Both mothers cried?!
At that time, they were 32 years old and 37 years old, and the old mothers were crying with joy? Deeply relieved that your child has successfully taken off the list?
Non also.
Koreans, you know, practise the supremacy of appearance without the slightest hint of disguise.
Xiao Li's mother was ugly and crying by the appearance of her future son-in-law.
Shang Shun's mother saw that her son, who had always been proud, was called a "beast" because of his poor looks, and she couldn't help but feel sad and sad.
A relationship that was not optimistic about the outside world has been fermented by time and unexpectedly become mellow and refreshing.
In September 2013, Lee Hyo-ri and Lee Sang-soon got married on Jeju Island and decided to leave the entertainment industry for a while and become a "mountain village woman".
(Lee Hyo-ri, who was not short of money, bought a piece of land on Jeju Island early and built a country house as a marriage house.) ）
"Planting beans down the mountain, grass is full of bean seedlings. Morning Xingli is desolate, with the moon lotus hoe return. The road is narrow and long, and the dew stains my clothes. Clothes are not enough to be sorry, but make a wish", take care of the vegetable garden, pick fruits, make food, play with animals, show love with brothers...
Is this the idyllic life that you are fascinated by?
02
Some people can't help but wonder about the ordinary Li Shangshun, why can he break through the siege and capture the heart of the "Flower of Gaoling"?
(1) Li Shangshun's own artistic bacteria are extremely active, and he is a powerful composer and singer, talented. (Professional counterpart with Li Xiaoli, there are many common languages.) ）
(2) Li Shangshun pays attention to the quality of life, and usually arranges the small home warmly and full of emotion.
(3) Li Shangshun does not have excessive obsession with money, how much to earn and how much to spend, rational consumption, contentment and happiness.
Li Xiaoli: "It was the first time I met someone who treated money very casually like Brother Shang Shun. He is never attached to money, spends money when he has money, does not spend when he has no money, and is a person who attaches great importance to self-happiness. After seeing Shang Shun's brother's home, I felt more and more attractive to him. His home is a small tower house, but it is very beautifully decorated, with a lot of books and flowers... The way he looks makes me feel very humane. ”
Li Xiaoli: "My brother has a lot of rice, and I have a lot of gold, so my brother should like me the most." ”
(4) In life, there are many people who can pretend to be gentle for a while, but there are very few people who can maintain and pass on this tenderness day after day.
In Li Shangshun, you don't feel any hostility.
He is simple and shy, he is kind in heart, he is loyal to himself... He arranged everything in his life in an orderly manner, like a slow breeze, refreshing the heart.
People who are truly strong in their hearts have the qualities of gentleness, "seeing the soul surging in peace." (Li Xiaoli is an activist who dares to think and dare to do, and his personality jumps out, and he and Li Shangshun just form a personality complement.) ）
Li Xiaoli: "My character... If it is not a brother, I don't know who can accept it, and I feel very solid around Li Shangshun. ”
(5) The last and most important point! When Li Xiaoli is looking for the other half of his life, the priority is not the appearance, but the fit of the soul.
Li Xiaoli: "(Oba) If you look closely, it is a beautiful man, but you have to be very careful..."
Li Xiaoli: "I like li Shangshun who has only one dress, plays guitar, and is old, in my eyes, he is the most handsome." ”
If Li Xiaoli is a heavy face control, even if Li Shangshun interprets the first 4 points vividly... The ending is too heart-wrenching.
03
Li Xiaoli, the eternal national goblin, dressed up pure and sexy.
In 1998, he officially debuted as the captain of the Fin.K.L group, with excellent singing and dancing, and his recognition was unmatched.
Later, the group disbanded, and everyone went their separate ways.
During the solo flight, Li Xiaoli was a singer, actor, and host, and at the same time, the sense of variety was explosive, the ability to carry goods was extremely strong, and the amount of money was innumerable. (Multi-habitat development, saving up ten thousand family wealth.) ）
Wheat skin color + easy to control European and American makeup + bumpy healthy body + solid business ability + damn personality charm, "drag sister" all the way, easy to harvest a vote of fans.
Li Xiaoli, acting in his own way, men love her charm, women love her frankness.
In 2005, Li Xiaoli was deeply involved in the "radio rumor incident".
When Rain received a radio call, he directly said, "I slept with Li Xiaoli."
Because it is a live show, many people are convinced of it.
After many years, Li Xiaoli only went on a certain show to clarify the rumors, "First of all, I never slept" and "if I slept... Neither a wife with a husband sleeps with a man, nor is it a great mistake, nor does she kill someone and set it on fire, and I do not think that an explanation is needed."
Plagued by rumors at the time, she decided to go hiking in order to soothe her mood.
On the way up the mountain, she heard a mother and daughter talking about this, and she couldn't help but blurt out, shouting, "I didn't sleep!" ”
In the face of gossip, she either didn't bother to explain, or the way of clarification was too simple and rude, and she was embarrassed.
04
Love is really easy to make people head-on, Li Xiaoli said all kinds of sweet words to Li Shangshun, let me can't help but be a little worried.
I am worried that ernie, who is heroic and sassy before marriage, will lose herself after marriage and circle around her husband 24 hours a day;
I worry about Ernie, who achieved financial freedom before marriage, and after marriage, she was dizzy and "forced" to live a frugal life;
I was worried about ernie, who was hot before marriage, tired and sluggish after marriage, and his eyes were dull;
……
It turns out that these brain-hole ducks don't have to be opened on Ernie.
You Ernie is always your Ernie!
Temporarily leaving the entertainment industry is Li Xiaoli's own decision.
Living in seclusion on Jeju Island with Xiao Jiaofu is Lee Hyo-ri's own decision.
Why? Li Xiaoli always pays attention to the management of body and face, and holds the goddess fan to death.
She was afraid that she could not resist the temptation of small fresh meat outside, and she was dizzy, so she tried her best to restrain herself and move to the "no man's land" to be pure.
In the past, I changed boyfriends every two years, and after getting married, I could only lock up with one person for a lifetime, which was bald to think.
If Li Xiaoli is exposed to cheating one day, I will not be surprised.
Rich! There is a face! Have a figure! The personality is also clear, and the treatment of work, feelings and life is crisp and clean.
If you put it in the Jinjiang entertainment circle, this is a proper ten thousand people obsessed with the sea king, and there are not many fish in the fish pond, all sorry for Ernie's talent.
What if one party really cheats? (Large double standard site.) ）
Li Xiaoli: "If Oba likes someone else, he will divorce, but he will not hold a grudge." ”
Li Xiaoli: "I fell in love very quickly, and I quickly withdrew, hoping that Oba could wait for me to come back." ”
The other party cheated on me and divorced, cheated on myself, hoping that the other party would wait for me to return to the family.
Speaking out this emotional logic generously, Bo Renwan smiled, and Li Xiaoli had this kind of strength.
After all, what bad thoughts can Ernie have? She just wants to pursue love.
For the sake of love, she can restrain her own nature, and the "beast" husband lives in seclusion in the "no man's land";
For love, she can also cheat in marriage and experience the fun of falling in love with small fresh meat.
If the pursuit of love is a mistake, then she is just making the mistake that every woman makes.
Li Xiaoli commented on her husband's daily life, "In fact, he either goes out to play every day or drinks tea at home, plays guitar, and sometimes works as a DJ in a place where there is no one at all."
That's it? Expect Li Shangshun to earn money to support his family, pure daydreaming!
Artists are not cannibalistic, which is both an advantage and a disadvantage.
Fortunately, the love between the two has Li Xiaoli's money to cover the bottom, so without the trouble of chai rice oil and salt, the feelings can be like now, seemingly a good.
And those couples who are confined to life have long been chicken feathers in their marriages.
Even if Li Shangshun's mentality is peaceful and talented, in the eyes of outsiders, he is still the one who climbs high.
Rich, beautiful, capable, and indeed qualified to spend.
Li Xiaolitu's is nothing more than Li Shangshun's physical and mental cleanliness + soul is interesting, compared to the scumbag who cheats money and feelings, I don't know how many times higher.
(Think of Jiang Hongjie, who is exposed these days to eat soft rice with his whole family.) ）
If the other party loses these two core competitiveness one day, Ernie can also pat his ass and leave, without taking away a cloud.
In a good mood, you may still keep your husband, and occasionally go out to find interesting little fresh meat to relieve your boredom;
If you are in a bad mood, then bother your husband to pack up and get a happy divorce.
The initiative in this relationship is always in the hands of Ernie.
On that day, outsiders do not have to go online, and the gifts given to you by fate have already been secretly marked with prices.
A man who wants money without money, a face without a face, and a man with no body, married a wife who can not only maintain his beauty, but also continue to make money to support his family.
One day she gets tired and tired, and finally kicks you away, think about it... It seems to be a routine operation and does not deserve sympathy.
"Marriage needs to be managed", the same applies to men.