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Zhou Yun and Jiang Wen
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been difficult to get along with since ancient times, and ordinary people are like this, and celebrities are no exception. In October 2005, when Zhou Yun and the international film emperor Jiang Wen formed a family, her mother-in-law was estranged from her. In the vicissitudes of the years, how do mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along? How does Zhou Yun influence her mother-in-law?
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On October 8, 2005, Zhou Yun and Jiang Wen registered their marriage in Beijing and officially became the daughter-in-law of the Jiang family. Holding a bright red marriage registration certificate in his hand, complicated tears flashed in Zhou Yun's eyes. At this time, Zhou Yun was 27 years old, and she realized from many married friends around her that if a woman wants to marry for a long time, the first task is to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, filial piety first, and generosity tolerance. Zhou Yun firmly took these experiences to heart and reminded herself at all times.
Zhou Yun and Jiang Wen's marriage house is a 600-square-meter villa in the western suburbs of Beijing, while the Jiang family's parents have lived for decades in a mansion left by Prince Gong of the Qing Dynasty, which is more than 200 years old, with mossy walls and exposed wires. After returning from the honeymoon, Zhou Yun said to her husband seriously: "Let's take our parents to live together, a big family can not only have a harmonious relationship together, but also have a care for each other." ”
Zhou Yun
When he first purchased a marriage house, Jiang Wen moved the idea of living with his parents and prepared to let his parents live in at the right time; unexpectedly, less than a month after the new marriage, Zhou Yun offered to live with his parents, and his wife's filial piety warmed and touched Jiang Wen. In early November, Jiang Wen and Zhou Yun mobilized their parents to move, and Gao Yang said to them: "Your father and I have lived here for more than 4 decades, and we don't want to go anywhere." Zhou Yun lovingly took her mother-in-law's hand: "Mom, please rest assured, I will take care of you and let you and your father enjoy the blessings." She and Jiang Wen couldn't help but say that they forcibly carried the in-laws' luggage to the car and invited the second elder into their home.
Zhou Yun vacated the master bedroom with the best lighting and ventilation conditions in the living area on the second floor for the in-laws to live. Before her retirement, her mother-in-law Gao Yang was a music teacher at Haidian Primary School, with the stubborn occupational disease laryngitis common to teachers, and the first thing Zhou Yun did when she got up every morning was to rinse her throat with a cup of fresh honey with warm boiling water. Father-in-law Jiang Hongqi once participated in the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea, and during the war years, he fell ill with his old cold legs, and he was particularly afraid of the cold in winter, so Zhou Yun laid a thick carpet of pure wool in their room.
However, Gao Yang was estranged from Zhou Yun. In November 2003, Jiang Wen divorced his ex-French wife Sandrin and has not been made public. After the divorce, his love affair with Zhou Yun was also carried out in secret. The media and fans who do not know the truth mistakenly regard Zhou Yun as a "third party" who destroys Jiang Wen's family. Influenced by public opinion, Gao Yang was prejudiced against Zhou Yun. Coupled with the fact that Zhou Yun was a full 15 years younger than Jiang Wen, Gao Yang mistakenly thought that Zhou Yun valued his son's fame and fortune.
Jiang Wen with his ex-wife and daughter
In June of that year, Jiang Yilang came to Beijing from Paris, France for summer vacation. The little girl is 9 years old and has a delicate face that is characteristic of a mixed-race child, and Gao Yang loves this granddaughter especially. If Jiang Wen had not divorced Sandrin in the first place, Jiang Yilang would have had full fatherly love and maternal love, and she would have spent time with this granddaughter day and night. The appearance of the granddaughter now deepens Gao Yang's prejudice against Zhou Yun.
On the morning of July 2, Gao Yang saw Jiang Ichiro's arm being bitten by mosquitoes in several large red envelopes, and accused Zhou Yun: "You can't take care of her finely?" Zhou Yun quickly apologized to her mother-in-law: "Mom, I didn't mean it, I forgot to give Ichiro mosquito coils last night." ”
On November 13, 2006, Zhou Yun successfully gave birth to a healthy and cute baby boy in the hospital. Although Gao Yang was overjoyed by the birth of his grandson, his attitude towards Zhou Yun still did not change much.
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Speaking of Zhou Yun, her parents are engaged in electronics and clothing business in her hometown of Wenzhou, Zhejiang, and her family is very superior. As an only child, she is the pearl in the palm of her parents and has not suffered any grievances since she was a child. At the age of 16, Zhou Yun became the winner of the Miss Wenzhou beauty pageant; two years later, she was admitted to the acting department of the Central Academy of Drama. Before marrying Jiang Wen, Zhou Yun starred in many influential film and television dramas such as "Heroes of Heaven and Earth", "Walking Through Happiness", "My Brothers and Sisters", etc., and was recognized as a woman who combines wisdom and beauty. Since becoming the daughter-in-law of the Jiang family, Zhou Yun hid her pride and brilliance, taking care of her husband and serving her in-laws as an ordinary daughter-in-law, but she did not expect that her patience and sacrifice would never be recognized by her mother-in-law.
Jiang Wen and Zhou Yun
Zhou Yun grew up in Wenzhou, has a sense of financial management since childhood, and began to speculate in stocks when she was still studying at the Central Academy of Drama. On May 30, 2007, the stock market suffered a black storm, plunging 499.67 points, and Zhou Yun's stock market value lost a lot in one day. She was anxiously communicating with her friend on the phone when she was overheard by her mother-in-law. Gao Yang was dissatisfied, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was not harmonious.
On the one hand, she was giving birth to her own mother, and on the other hand, her favorite wife, and the two women took turns to put pressure on herself, which made Jiang Wen overwhelmed. Mother and wife both love themselves deeply, are the two most important women in their lives, the reason why they have conflicts, each other have their own reasons, Jiang Wen knows that he is sandwiched between two women, the responsibility and obligation to act as lubricant, repair the emotional rift between them.
On November 5, 2007, the 60th birthday of Zhou Yun's father, Zhou Yun and her husband rushed to Wenzhou with their sons to wish their father a happy birthday. On the way back to Beijing, seeing Zhou Yun's bright face and good mood, Jiang Wen said to her emotionally: "Making the old man live comfortably and happily in his old age is the primary responsibility of being a child." My mother's personality is a bit strong, but she is so old that it is difficult to change, and the only thing that can be changed is the attitude of our children to her. As a junior, it is a virtue to take the initiative to bow your head in front of the elders. I know that you are kind and tolerant, have suffered a lot of grievances, and I remember your kindness to my parents. Jiang Wen's sincere words made Zhou Yun burst into tears. Seeing that her mother-in-law had given birth to such an excellent husband, Zhou Yun decided not to worry about her mother-in-law anymore and looked for opportunities to take the initiative to show kindness to the elderly.
Childhood Jiang Wen with parents
Jiang Wen and his younger brother Jiang Wu
Jiang Hongqi is very addicted to smoking, smoking two packs of cigarettes a day, and the pungent smell of smoke is permeated at home all day long. Second-hand smoke is very harmful to the health of the family, Zhou Yun learned from the Internet that aloe vera can effectively eliminate second-hand smoke and is very effective in purifying the family air. In March 2008, Zhou Yun carefully selected a pot of aloe vera from the flower market and gave it to her in-laws with a smile. The daughter-in-law took the initiative to show herself, which made Gao Yang have a lot of face, and her face finally had a soft expression.
However, Zhou Yun sometimes disagreed with her mother-in-law, and at this time, their common idea was to call Jiang Wen to talk. Once, Jiang Wen was in Shanghai National Day gift film "The Great Cause of The Founding of the People's Republic", Zhou Yun called and told him that he had suffered grievances. Jiang Wen gently comforted him on the phone for more than an hour, and finally calmed his wife down temporarily. But when Zhou Yun's phone just hung up, Jiang Wen's mobile phone rang gao Yang's complaint again. Mom's confession was more than two hours. Jiang Wen's ears were numb, his head was buzzing, and his heart was completely disturbed...
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More than 20 days later, when Jiang Wen returned home after filming "The Great Undertaking of the Founding of the People's Republic", Gao Yang was surprised: "Xiao Jun (Jiang Wen Xiaoming), why are you black and thin, and all around your eyes are blue, is it sick?" Jiang Wen sighed a long time: "There is no harmony in the family, where else do I have the heart to shoot a drama?" He sadly told his mother that when he went to bed at night, he lost sleep all night at the thought of his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law falling out, and the next day he could not concentrate on filming. He played a small role in "The Great Undertaking of the Founding of the People's Republic", and in the past, he filmed all of them in one pass, but this time a shot often had to be filmed seven or eight times to pass.
Finally, Jiang Wen said to Gao Yang: "Mom, you gave birth to me, and I have loved you and appreciated you all my life." So you do anything, and I feel that there is a reason for you. I remember that although you had a strong personality when you were young, you got along with my grandparents more closely than a family, and I think you must have your magic weapon. I really hope that you can take out your experience and share it with Zhou Yun, Zhou Yun is too young, many times may not understand things, but she is my favorite wife after all, for our happiness, you will teach her by hand. You are so patient with your students, I guess you should not be stingy with your daughter-in-law, right? I wish the two women I loved the most were happy! ”
Gao Yang was silent for a while, and she said to Jiang Wen quietly, "Sometimes I just have a knot in my heart that I can't solve." Jiang Wen knew what his mother was referring to, and he said sincerely: "Mom, I admit that Sandrine is a very good and excellent woman, but your son does not have this blessing to stay with her for a lifetime." Zhou Yun and I have a common language, we really love each other, and I am very happy with her. Zhou Yun is very good, as an only child, she is also a pearl in the palm of her parents, but she has made great sacrifices for this family, sometimes she can only confide in her parents about the grievances in her stomach, but her parents often remind and blame her for not doing a good enough job to her in-laws. The son's words touched Gao Yang's heart a lot: "Why didn't you tell your mother about this earlier?" It seems that I have done a little too much. ”
The dialogue between her husband and her mother-in-law, Zhou Yun could hear clearly, which made her have a different taste in her heart. Facing off with his mother-in-law, in fact, the most painful and hurt is Jiang Wen. Home and Wanshixing, since they and Jiang Wen really love each other and want to grow old with a white head for a lifetime, then why can't they be more tolerant of their mother-in-law? People must be old, they will also be mother-in-law in the future, if in the future daughter-in-law will also confront themselves, what will be the taste in their hearts? Jiang Wen married himself into the family, hoping that he could be in the same boat with him and jointly support this family!
After rational reflection, Zhou Yun began to think from the perspective of her mother-in-law, and her confused and sleepy heart suddenly opened up, and some knots that could not be solved before could be calmly faced. Zhou Yun poured a cup of tea into her mother-in-law's bedroom: "Mom, you drink saliva, I have something to say to you." After saying that, she sat down next to her mother-in-law: "One thing I want to clarify to you is that I only fell in love with Jiang Wen after he divorced Sandrin 1 year later. Jiang Wen and I are truly in love with each other, and we value his talent and character, not his aura and fame. Mom, I've done a lot of things badly over the years that make you angry. In the future, let's get along well for the sake of Jiang Wen and for the sake of this family! The sincerity of the daughter-in-law made Gao Yang feel a little touched in her heart, and she nodded.
Zhou Yun really did what she said, and she began to respect her in-laws as if she had just entered the door. For matters large and small in the family, she must consult her in-laws and in-laws; she must give her in-laws a copy of what gifts to buy for her parents during the New Year's Festival. Zhou Yun is the only daughter in the family, at this time her parents are also over 60 years old, Jiang Wen several times proposed to take her father-in-law and mother-in-law to Beijing to live together, each time was rejected by Zhou Yun: "The family house is spacious, but 4 old people living together is easy to cause contradictions." Besides, if my parents come, I will unconsciously favor them emotionally, which is unfair to your parents. ”
Jiang Wen and his daughter
Zhou Yun's filial piety, Gao Yangquan looked in her eyes, she no longer treated her daughter-in-law with a critical eye, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was greatly eased. In October 2008, Zhou Yun and Jiang Wen's second son was born, during the confinement period, Gao Yang did not let Zhou Yun dip cold water, even his daughter-in-law wiped his hands, and the old man had to soak the towel in warm water. The child often cries at night, and the noise makes Zhou Yun unable to sleep. Fifteen days after the birth of his grandson, Gao Yang ignored his old age and infirmity and took his grandson to sleep on a small bed at night, so that Zhou Yun and Jiang Wen could sleep peacefully.
In February 2009, Jiang Wen adapted the famous writer Ma Zhitu's novel "Ten Tales of Night Tan" into a movie script "Let the Bullets Fly" and prepared to put it on the screen. Jiang Wen is a person who pursues perfection, he sincerely invites Zhou Runfa, Liu Jialing, Chen Kun and other big names to join him with high film remuneration; in order to pursue realistic effects, all the props used in filming are also specially tailored. As a result, there was a gap of 4 million yuan in the budget funds, and the start-up had to be postponed. Jiang Wen raised funds everywhere, but investors felt that the investment was too large and the risk factor was too high, and they were unwilling to continue to increase funds. Just when Jiang Wen was anxious, Zhou Yun told his parents that he was anxious, and the Parents of the Zhou family did not say a word, and quickly solved Jiang Wen's urgent need.
Zhou Yun's actions completely crushed the worries and estrangement in Gao Yang's heart, and it could be seen that she really thought about the Jiang family, and all her feelings and thoughts were placed on Jiang Wen and this family. If she didn't really love Jiang Wen, how could she willingly retire from the film world and willingly conceive two children for the Jiang family? Over the years, Zhou Yun's dedication to the Jiang family, scene after scene appeared in Gao Yang's mind, and her heart was full of mixed feelings.
Jiang Wen often can't go home for two or three months when filming outside, and as a person who has come over, Gao Yang knows that the separation of young couples is cruel and torturous to both sides. On March 2, when Jiang Wen was about to go to Guangdong, Gao Yang thoughtfully said to Zhou Yun: "You and Jiang Wen go together, it is not always the case for husband and wife to live apart." Rest assured, your dad and I will take care of our two children and family. "The mother-in-law's understanding has activated Zhou Yun's dream of returning to the film world, yes, she has worked hard to enter the Chinese drama, not to be a housewife, but to realize the dream of childhood, she has quit the film industry for more than 4 years, it is time to make a comeback!
In this way, Zhou Yun handed over her two children to her mother-in-law and went to Guangdong with her husband. In order to let his wife have something to do, Jiang Wen deliberately added a "flower sister" role in "Let the Bullets Fly" and let Zhou Yun play. In mid-July, "Let the Bullets Fly" was successfully completed, Zhou Yun and Jiang Wen returned to Beijing, walked into the house, and the scene in front of her made her tearful: the father-in-law and mother-in-law stood at the door holding a child to greet them, and the eldest son waved a bunting flag in his hand, and said with a milky voice in his mouth: "Welcome Mom and Dad home!" The younger son stared at Zhou Yun with a pair of black grape-like eyes, with a smile on his face. Both sons are white, fat, rosy-faced, and look very healthy. Looking at the home, it is clean and tidy, the window sill coffee table is spotless, and the dripping Guanyin and anchovy bamboo in the living room are lush and green, showing vigorous vitality. Zhou Yun could guess how much effort the in-laws had put into this family for their two grandchildren! They are all over 70 years old, and it is a great dedication to pull three children into adulthood, and now they are taking care of their grandchildren in spite of their old age!
Poster of Zhou Yun and Hu Jun's "Golden Wedding Storm"
Gao Yang and his wife built a solid rear for Zhou Yun, which made her shoot with all her heart. In September 2009, Zhou Yun walked into the crew of the 50-episode emotional drama "Golden Wedding Storm" and played the female number one "Schumann". In order to follow his wife, Jiang Wen played an old chief in this play. When filming in Huairou Film and Television City on the outskirts of Beijing, the mother-in-law and father-in-law took their two grandchildren to visit the class several times, so that Zhou Yun could enjoy warm family affection inside and outside the play. Some female colleagues of the crew saw Zhou Yun and her mother-in-law as mother and daughter, and they were very envious.
In "Golden Wedding Storm", Zhou Yun plays from her teenage to her 70s, experiencing roles such as daughter, daughter-in-law, mother, mother-in-law, and mother-in-law that a woman has to experience in her life. This gave her a more unforgettable understanding of life, marriage and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. On December 16, 2010, the Lunar New Year drama "Let the Bullets Fly" was grandly released in major theaters across the country, and the box office exceeded 70 million yuan in just three days. At the same time, "Golden Wedding Storm" was also popular in Beijing, Shanxi, Jiangsu and other national David TV, and Zhou Yun became the darling of the media.
In an interview, the author asked her: "Everyone knows that you and your mother-in-law have a good relationship, the same as mother and daughter, how do you handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?" Zhou Yun was silent for a moment and smiled: "In fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not as complicated as everyone thinks, I think whether it is a daughter-in-law or a mother-in-law, we must understand this, the two have become a family because they love a man together." That being the case, as long as both parties treat each other sincerely, think more about the family, think more about the people they love, have more tolerance and accommodation between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and less accusations and complaints, all mother-in-law and daughter-in-law under the sky can love mother and daughter! ”
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