Wen-Cui crispy
Hi, let's go to the park to see the monkeys
22 years old, isn't it very old? I felt as if I was still quite young, but my mother had already begun to urge. Collapse, I am still a young and beautiful, eyebrow clear-eyed, dignified and generous girl, ah, need a blind date to marry yourself? But the reality is that, whether I like it or not, I, with a soldier, am now sitting in some water bar. And, I'm racking my brains to think about topics.
For those who are soldiers, I really don't know how to find a topic. I don't know what soldiers do in peacetime, where they live, and which parts they are divided into. So, I asked, in a very idiotic way:
Are you an instructor?
Well.
What do instructors do?
Well, equivalent to the class teacher.
Oh, so what do you usually do?
Training, learning, assessment, a lot, hehe, or relatively busy.
Speechless, I didn't know what to say when I said this. He said suddenly, well, let's go around the park. I said, ok.
Later, I learned that he consulted a lot of comrades-in-arms in order to date me, and everyone unanimously suggested that the most time-consuming and most economical way was to lead the newly acquainted girls to Zhongshan Park to see monkeys, Khan! We really went to see the monkeys, and Zhongshan Park in Yinchuan was still very boring at that time, and we could only watch the monkeys. The weather in April, a bit hot, don't know if the monkeys are looking at us or if we are watching the monkeys. I looked at his military uniform and thought it was really boring to date a soldier.
He was a soldier in Yinchuan, a thin, monkey-like man. The second time they met, he wore a camouflage suit. I said, you wear green all year round as a soldier, don't you bother? He laughed and said, "It's okay, it's not annoying." I shook my head and commented, not very good-looking, really. Talk about dinosaurs, you're a little small. Camouflage clothes on so many patterns, well, yes, said frog is more appropriate ah, haha. After that, call you frog!
He was pulled into the thief's boat by this soldier
How I liked him, even I wondered. The skinny, short, black jacket, like a little old man," smiled at me in the sun. He completely ignored the disappointment I tried to hide and happily dragged me shopping. I was amazed to find that this unassuming soldier knew a lot, literature, collecting, calligraphy... The first time, at a comrade-in-arms wedding with him, he introduced himself to someone and said, "This is my girlfriend." My heart pounded, and his thick hand held my hand tightly and smiled back at me.
In my opinion, the life of the army is extremely boring, but in addition to work, he always happily goes to the cooking class to help cook, stir-fry, and in his spare time, he also likes to practice calligraphy and write articles. He always did well what I couldn't do well. He has the delicacy of a southerner and the atmosphere of a northerner, which is the kind I like. People also told me in a righteous and solemn manner, "Whoa, tell your mother, I am her long-lost son-in-law!"
Once, he came to my house. My house was far from his troops, so I had to stay at night. By coincidence, there was a power outage. I guiltily told him that if I decided not to be with him, don't hate me, there are some practical problems that can't be ignored, I'm just a mediocre girl. He nodded. The moonlight was quietly leaking through the window, the house was extremely quiet, and both Dad and Mom had gone to a friend's house. I thought a little sadly, presumably it was the last time I saw him. After a while, he poured a basin of water and took off my socks lightly, so that he had to wash my feet. My foot had been injured before, and he rubbed it gently, smiled slightly at me, and said, I respect whatever decisions you make. That fragment, I think, can never be forgotten in my lifetime, a man who can wash my feet must be a good husband. From that moment on, I made up my mind to become this military sister-in-law.
Watching you sleep is also a kind of happiness
When I was in Xi'an, he was in Yinchuan. It's been a long time since we met. In order to save money, he took the train every time, and he was a servant. After getting off the bus, buy me a big bouquet of flowers, and then take the bus to where I live. And every time I said I was going to pick him up, but every time I had a hard time resting, I always slept until he knocked on the door and got up. I'm busy at work and usually don't have the energy to clean up the house. Every time he went, he always carefully washed my jeans that I couldn't wash, cleaned up the house, and every time before returning to Yinchuan, he always had to buy me a bunch of delicious food, fry two dishes in the refrigerator, and wash the fruit for me and put it on the table.
At that time, I was working outside alone, and in order to save money in the winter, I bought vegetables and cooked every day. Once, the left hand green onion and the right hand cabbage almost slipped out of the market and the vendor bargained. After work, a person carried a lunch box one foot deep and one foot shallow in the snow and walked hard. Back to the place where I lived, I wanted to call people to complain about pain and spoil, but I didn't expect that people were too busy to work hard. By the time he had time, I had lost the desire to talk. I was injured, complained, quarreled, and shed tears, but when I saw him sitting on a hard seat from Yinchuan to Xi'an to watch me, washing my jeans on the balcony in the winter, I had no complaints. What more could he say, who made him a soldier?
I used to think, he was so good to me, such a simple happy time, such a good man, what else would I hesitate about. However, he could not go to Xi'an, and to be with him, I could only go to Yinchuan. Actually, my unit is pretty good. But love and family are more important. So, I chose to give up. When I came to Yinchuan, I still couldn't be with him every day. He was busy every day, many times, in a bad mood and wanted to chat with him. But he could only take the time to call, and as soon as he said a word or two, someone called. Often it's a drop of the word, baby, you're all right, I'm going to be busy. Eat well, drink well, don't let me worry.
Many times, when he came back, he was too tired after eating and fell asleep when he went to bed. I, on the other hand, tossed and turned. I smiled bitterly, holding my husband so excited that I couldn't sleep, I guess it was only the military sister-in-law. Because I don't believe it's true, I don't believe he's by my side. Even watching him sleep is a happy thing.
Married, as a military sister-in-law
My husband's military status dooms us not to choose the wedding dress as slowly as others, and try to think of the best in every detail. So many wedding dress shops, he took my hand every time and trotted from one store to another, just to seize the time to ask the price, and my task is to grasp the samples, see if I like the style. It's the same with buying wedding supplies, shopping like crazy, from morning to night, and finally, I'm so tired that I really want to sit down on the street, and I really want not to get married.
Thankfully, our love is always the same, as sweet as ever. After getting married, we have been separated.
I found myself frantically envious of couples who commute together every day, fantasizing about one day being able to call him at the end of the day and ask what to eat at night, let's go to the supermarket together. I often threatened him to ask him to come out of the wall when I felt that I could not support it. He always laughed and said, what then? Well, wait for me to change careers in the future, accompany you every day, accompany you until you annoy me!
He was a very strong man, and when he was training the year before, he had a tumor on his head that needed to be operated. But he didn't notify anyone, a man on the operating table. I bought instant noodles and ate them before the operation. By the time I knew, he had finished the surgery and was smiling and calling me in bed. At that time, my tears came down, and I asked the unit for leave and went to Yinchuan to see him. Seeing him lying alone in a hospital bed, I thought: No, to be with him, nothing, nothing.
He asked, I look so ugly, how can you like me! I replied, I like ugly, peace of mind, rest assured, comfortable, huh! Handsome guy, not interested. It's so ugly that you haven't heard that? Frog you just belong to the very ugly level, huh! I thought he would be very impressed, but I didn't expect people to answer, oh, you are really perverted, you only like ugly! I kicked him, dammit, if this girl hadn't had a crush on ugliness, she wouldn't have liked you!
Alas, I have been with the people in the army for a long time, and I even exploded my foul mouth!
Lonely to cry, but also sweet to death
♥ Dear Battalion Commander,
I wonder if you have time to go home in person this week? If you're in the way, little girl
The Son will be overwhelmed with fear, but will bathe and change his clothes, and burn incense and wait! The specific arrival time is also expected to be instructed by the battalion commander comrade,
The little girl is also ready for reception in advance!
Best regards
Your wife:**
This is a request I wrote for him, and he was very angry after reading it, and the consequences were very serious. Send me a text message: three days without calling, you go to the house to uncover the tiles, small sample, see how I come back to clean you up!
This trick did not make the family express the intention of going home to see me, and I couldn't help but be a little disappointed.
In the evening, he called.
Have you eaten?
Ate it and cooked some noodles.
Eat well and don't give up. I'll come back and buy you a pair of sandals.
No, I just bought a new pair last year, and I can wear it this year.
There was a moment of silence on the other end of the phone.
He said, it doesn't matter if you buy another pair to wear. In the future, as long as you like it, I will not say anything more, women's youth is limited... I was also silent. Q, don't you think I'm extravagant? Oh, I don't have much money, I don't look good, I'm short, and you've suffered a lot with me. I used to be frugal and always made you angry. In the future, as long as you are happy, you can do whatever you want. All I can do is give you happiness within my power. Eat whatever you want and wear whatever you want.
The voice on the other end of the phone was a little muffled, and for a moment, I was crying and suddenly felt that the days of eating alone, sleeping alone, and waiting alone were actually very valuable.
If I don't come back, if I don't come back, if I don't come back, I'll start looking for a lover. I still don't believe it, at least I am also a gentle and kind, beautiful and generous woman, waiting for ah, I one three five, two four six, every day to change people, Sunday this girl I rest, ahem! More often, I always say the above things when I don't see him for N days.
After saying that, the last time the guy had time to come back on Saturday, but I didn't know, people later said it was to surprise me. When I was still asleep, I heard someone open the door with the key, nervous me, quickly got dressed and got up, the cat was behind the door, and I saw that it was him!
The door was locked, I quickly opened it, the people took a straight step and walked in, I went to the door like a Korean woman, and said politely, you are back! Ya snorted from her nostrils, Hmm! Then, like an old eunuch, he screamed, "Who else is in the room?" As soon as I listened, I didn't get angry: Pig Head, and I came out with you to see if I wasn't mad at you. I smiled and said, report chief, there is a little lover! Well? He gritted his teeth and said, Where is that now? I laughed again, looked down and reported that 2 minutes ago in the slave's bed, and now I guess I have escaped from the small lanai! He took a breath of cold air, rushed into the bedroom, and then went to the veranda to look at it again. Viciously said, well, small sample, give you some sunshine and you are really brilliant, ah! Suddenly picked me up upside down and scratched the heart of my feet while asking, saying, can you find a lover? I wow wow, asshole, put me down, tickle, put it down. People still continue to scratch me, saying, "Are you looking for a lover?" Don't look for it, don't look for it! Well, that says, who do you love the most? Love you the most, love you for a lifetime! Well? Oh, love you for the rest of your life! Hmmm, say it again? I have been tortured to the point of unbearable, and I quickly said very fleshily, I love you all my life, only you alone, dear! This is the end of the Eleventh Massacre of the Manchu Qing Dynasty. Since then, I have never dared to mention looking for a little lover again.
Military sisters-in-law are like this, can be sweet to death, can also be lonely to cry.
It was the tears of a soldier
Every year when the veteran retired from the army, he would go to send it, and when he came back, his eyes were red. The troops sang songs everywhere, such as "Send Comrades-in-Arms" and "My Old Squad Leader," and the officers and men often cried with their headaches, and the uniforms that took off their epaulettes and collar flowers suddenly lost a lot of color. His hands trembled as he brought safflowers to the veterans, tears swirling and turning in his eyes. It was the first time I'd seen a man cry, and it was so many strong men in their daily lives. At that moment, I also burst into tears.
Because of my husband, I slowly got to know the people who were soldiers, and I also experienced the tenacity and delicacy behind their strength. In the army, he was a soldier; at home, he was my husband!
My husband would cook for me every time he came back, but the kitchen where he cooked was generally full of oil stains for hundreds of miles, and for his diligence, I usually cleaned it up again on the basis of his cleaning. And he was always muttering, disgusting me, thinking I was dirty, ahem, no more cooking for you. I laughed, took an ice cream from the refrigerator and gave it to him, saying, ah, my husband is a good child, eat ice cream, watch TV! I'll come and accompany you as soon as I get it right.
One winter, he was still on duty on Valentine's Day, and I had to go see him. I was born to be a cold-scared person, and I was still shivering in the house wrapped in his thick army coat, and he bought me roses and made hot pot for me. The heating of the troops, hand on it, can faintly feel a little heat. I drank hot water and ate hot pot, and he looked at me quietly from the side, half-ringing, and said, Baby, you have been wronged by following me! For no reason, my tears fell into the bowl, and I said, can you not be so sensational, classmate, let me eat hot pot is not good! He laughed and hurried to give me a pick. Although there were snowflakes outside and the house was cold, looking back now, there was only a strong warmth left on that Valentine's Day.
But when the support could not continue, I sent a nerve like 2 minutes to give him a call, send him a very desperate text message, say very desperate words. I said, how can I be so miserable, marrying a soldier is like marrying a shadow. You don't have money, you don't look, you don't have a head, you don't have a background, I can bear everything, but are you really so busy that you don't have time to talk to me? I'm not too demanding, I just want you to listen, hear your breathing, know that it's you, that's really you listening to me... He always said helplessly, Baby, I'm sorry, maybe only the next life can compensate you. Then, it went busy again.
I was helpless, I cried. However, after crying, I still look forward to his return. I knew the troops were important to him, like fish and water. All I can do is support him or wait for him.
He also once said, what should I do with you, I am reluctant to fight, I am reluctant to scold, even if you don't want me in the future, I still love you. When you say this, it should be the softest and softest time for men. At that time, they were also the most adorable, their eyes were shining, their feelings were revealed, and sometimes they would let themselves trance into the scenes on TV. This is the soldier, the tenderness behind the strong is so charming!
My husband and I are both jokers.
I look a little better than him. When I first met their leaders and sisters-in-law, a sister-in-law made fun of him very kindly: Oh, how did you chase this beautiful girl to your hands, look at you, so ugly, how can people look at you? I hurriedly said, sister-in-law, you don't know, then, he went to our school for military training, fake public welfare and private elders to write me a note, desperately chasing me, I was accidentally abducted by him. Everyone just laughed, his face flushed, and hurriedly explained, who said, no, not at all. When I went to school for military training, I was very serious and honest.
However, under my deliberate confession, no one believed his words. Until now, the leaders of the unit thought that I was chased when he went to give military training to the students.
Every time he returned to the army, he would tell him not to think about the red apricot out of the wall, otherwise, ahem, my bullets would be fast! After several times, I hummed and asked, do you think that this dignified and generous, virtuous, virtuous woman in front of you can't give you a sense of security? Am I spending? Seeing that I was huffing and puffing, he smiled and squinted and said, Baby, I admire you, the idiom is used perfectly! Haematemesis! I said angrily and funnyly, please pay attention to the other party's friends, now is the time to quarrel, quarrel? Get it? He smiled, brought me water, and said, first moisten your throat, don't worry. Hey, look at you, why are you standing? How tired that is! Sit, sit.
With that, he pressed me down onto the couch. Wife, shall I give you a massage? Oh no! Ah, then I'll tickle you, right? Ah, not itchy! Look at you, what a courtesy! Well, eat an apple, it's good for the skin, come and go...
A serious quarrel was thus broken up by him.
Please let me love you until the end of my life
Maybe sick people are vulnerable, and I want to vomit when I smell the taste of Chinese medicine these days. When I came back from eating today, I wanted to sleep, but I didn't take the medicine yet, so I had to squint on the couch for a while. My husband boiled the dregs of the last pair of medicines and soaked my feet, and the remaining residue was put in a bag for me to put on my stomach, which is said to cure cold hands and feet. Confused, I lay down on the couch, and my husband tried the temperature and gently put my feet into the potion, which was very hot and comfortable. I put the warm residue on my stomach again, and after a while I put it on my waist, and I lay half on the couch and fell asleep comfortably on the cushion. In the blindfold, the husband muttered while watching TV, well, there are still 9 minutes to soak the medicine. After a while he said, Oh, I'm going to boil it over a small fire.
By the time I woke up, the medicine was already boiled. My husband dried boiling water for me, washed the fruit, and watched him busy for half a day, so I had to endure the pain and drink the medicine.
Husband, I am lazy and loose, can't do housework or stir-fry. There are worm teeth, and rhinitis, the tonsils are not very good, the foot has also had an operation, you married me is actually not good at all, I feel that I am a useless person. Fool, my husband gently hugged me and said, The first time I saw you, I planned to marry you as my daughter-in-law no matter what, and I wanted you for the rest of my life. Be good to you, love you, spoil you, hurt you, make you happy, do my best to take care of you, let you live a better life. Usually you are sick, and I can't take care of you. This time you are sick, it just so happens that I am at home and can take care of you, I am especially happy, really! There was something wet in my eyes, and I quickly got up and ran to the washroom and said loudly, Oh, there is an eyelashes that have fallen into my eyes, and I am tearful.
There were tears and laughter in the ordinary happy times, and my husband and I had fun with each other as soon as we had a topic.
One day, it wasn't until it was almost 10 o'clock in the evening that someone called me. Just after talking for a little while, I heard a laughing voice say, Battalion commander, who to call, there is a woman at the door looking for you! I fainted and said angrily: Who is looking for you at night, want to die, you are not right in these two days! My husband quickly laughed, oh, our little driver's voice, I have been to the house several times and you still can't hear it. Well, my husband seems to be very popular, huh? Oh, hehe, that's ah, chasing your husband at least has a reinforcement company! That's the way it is. That husband is so busy, I always have to screen for my husband, such as face, figure, and finally have to see how the teeth are! The husband laughed wildly, oh, this, it is rare for a wife to be so worried, it is really virtuous! A woman marries a husband, this is the right thing to do! (Khan, even to be angry with him, how to feel that the small flame in the heart of the heart is rising up) This, can have a child must choose a big ass, good health, when the time to give birth to a row of dolls at home to take, but also the whole family's chores are done! Well, then to a pure, petite, gorgeous, feminine, tall, husband like which to hook the little finger. As long as the husband is in a good mood, he is bitter and tired for his wife, and he is willing!
For a minute, there was silence on the other end of the phone, and I heard the frog gasping for breath. (Hum, fight with me, angry at you) I then said, Oh, the husband will not be dissatisfied with the idea of the concubine, if you are not satisfied, you will say well, what can you do if you are angry and damaged your body!
The husband hummed angrily and said, I have seen it, sooner or later I will have a way to die, and I will be mentally tortured to death by you! Hmm, you. Originally you were angry with me, I just cooperated with the plot and then went down, and dared to hit a rake! I see you are wishing I had a little situation now, and then you are out of the wall! I was pleasantly surprised to say, haha, husband, you are really understanding, since you all understand, I will not say more, huh huh! You dream! (Ha, you can imagine my husband's small eyes narrowing round, and the ear of the wind must have been slapped by me) Tell you, in this life, you are my wife alone. Don't want to leave me, I want you to be my wife for the rest of my life!
Listening to this domineering and affectionate remark, I was very touched and gently said to my husband, Silly frog, if I don't want to follow you wholeheartedly, how can I throw my job to Yinchuan? If I had wanted to go out of the wall, I would have come out a long time ago, and I would have dumped you when you took 1500 yuan in a shabby way. I'm not stupid, you're good to me, how can I not cherish it! My husband paused a little and said, Well, go to bed early, wait for me to go back to see you, ah!
Before going to bed, I received a text message from my husband. Dear baby, if there is an afterlife, I would like to spend childhood with you, spend all the years together, and then grow old. In this life, please let me love you until the end of my life.
No way, I was such an indisputable woman, shedding tears for his affectionate text messages in the silent night. Husband, I am a person who knows how to cherish, and I am willing to stay with you until I am old!
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