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Asking what the world's situation is, the Orthodox people promise each other.
In the face of the woman he likes, I believe that every man wants to hug the beauty, and the two have lived next to each other since then.
However, beauty is never easy to obey, especially women who have been deeply educated and raised.
For her, marriage is no longer a tool to sustain her survival, but a bondage. Once you get married, you can no longer be yourself, so many roles, often exhausting women.
In the absence of the ability to survive, women can only suffer in silence. However, modern civilization has rescued women from this painful life, so when entering marriage, women are always hesitant.
In such a situation, it is somewhat difficult for men to achieve their goals.
In order to be able to get what they want, some men choose to use "please". For example, Wang Changshui in "Husband and Wife Those Things".
In order to be able to please Nayi, he could be said to have exerted enough effort, and it was really like a baby. Nayi said he was going east, but he definitely did not dare to say west.
Writer Zhang Ailing, when describing her love with Hu Lancheng, once said: When she saw him, she became very low and low, low to the dust. But her heart was joyful, and flowers blossomed from the dust.
Perhaps, this is the charm of love. Even if this person is full of economy and is an idol admired by many people, he will become humble in the face of love. This is true for women, and it is true for men.
Wang Changshui's love for Nayi touched the heavens, touched the earth, and touched the audience, but did not touch Nayi.
So despite her grief, she chose to leave him.
This made Wang Changshui very painful, and he didn't understand why his full dedication was such a result in the end.
In fact, not only Wang Changshui, but many men who have the same experience as him have such doubts. Do women prefer to be abused rather than treated like jewels?
The answer, of course, is no. If so, why did she choose to leave him?
Smart men will mostly smile at this problem, because he knows that in the relationship, if you want to hold a beautiful person, it is far from enough to rely on blind flattery, and you need to add a little "small routine".
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="19" > know how to ask for support from others </h1>
Women never exist in isolation. She has relatives, she has friends and so on. Many times, when a woman is unable to see the truth of the matter because she is in it, these assistants will give her scientific advice to help her make the right choice.
Therefore, when the woman she likes does not have a good feeling for herself, the smart man will not blindly pestering her, but knows how to start from the people around her.
For example, Jiang Defu in "Parental Love". Coming from a rural background, he is far from the Prince Charming imagined in Anjie's heart, so Anjie did not pay attention to Jiang Defu's pursuit.
I have to say that Anjie is very bold in dealing with feelings. Under that circumstance, with her conditions, she was far from worthy of Jiang Defu. But she did not have low self-esteem and tried to use love to seek his refuge, but chose to fight for the freedom of love.
Therefore, when her sister-in-law repeatedly said to her that Jiang Defu was a very good candidate, Angeli ignored it, and even got a little angry, thinking that her sister-in-law was taking her own happiness to pave the way for her future, so she was even more disgusted with Jiang Defu.
Jiang Defu did not understand the reason for the incident, but he really liked Anjie and hoped to live with her for the rest of his life. Therefore, in the face of Anjie's indifference, he is very painful, but he feels that it is impossible to do something.
So he began to get close to Anjie's big brother and sister-in-law. Anjie's eldest brother and sister-in-law already like him, especially the eldest sister-in-law, so they always like to say good things about Jiang Defu in front of Anjie.
In fact, Anjie refused, but in the face of the sister-in-law, she could not behave very rudely, so she listened. It is precisely because of so many preparations that when he learned that Jiang Defu did not want honor for himself, Anjie was doubly moved.
At the moment when she decided to marry Jiang Defu, Anjie felt that he was far from the man of her ideal, but this did not prevent her from liking him.
So in the face of the woman she likes, when she has no good feelings for herself, the smart man will set his eyes on the people around her, hoping that through the relatives and friends around her, let her perceive that his feelings for her are not playful, but serious, in order to change her attitude towards herself.
In the face of feelings, even a stronger woman is somewhat conformist, after all, she does not have much emotional experience, so just turn to the people around her. If during this period, everyone around her says that the man is good, then even if she does not like him in her heart, she will pay attention to him.
And this is the man's opportunity. If you can grasp it, then it will no longer be difficult to hold the beauty back.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="32" > know how to praise</h1>
Praise is to tell a woman that you pay attention to her every move; it is also to tell a woman that you are a person who is good at discovering the advantages of others.
With such a man, when doing something wrong, it is facing comfort, not accusation; when encountering grievances, facing embrace, not indifference; when chasing dreams, facing encouragement, not ridicule.
Getting along with such a man is easy, enjoyable, and desirable. In this case, even if there are such shortcomings in the man, most women are willing to get along with him.
What needs to be noted is the difference between praising and knowing how to praise. Some men, in their daily relationships, often praise women, but due to the lack of sincerity in the tone, women feel that his praise is more like ridicule, so they hate to get along with him even more.
Therefore, what men have to do is to know how to praise and know how to use euphemistic language to show their liking for their lovers.
In the face of the woman he likes, the stupid man only knows how to please, and as a result, his love becomes a rope that binds the woman, so she has to leave in a hurry.
And smart men know how to use routines. Start with the people around the woman, let them join their camp, and "fight" the woman together; and then in the process of getting along, know how to praise the woman, know how to say the words to the woman's heart, so they can often hug the beauty.
It should be noted that the so-called "routine" is a "routine" based on sincerity, if in the process of getting along between two people, there is a routine, and there is no sincerity, then it will not be liked by women.
Therefore, if you want to chase the woman you like, you really have it, you must have a routine, and you can combine two or two to harvest a sweet love.
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