<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > preface:</h1>
Why would a woman choose an affair with someone she is only willing to be with a familiar man? And not willing to choose unfamiliar strangers? Three women tell the truth.
Ms. Yang:
I am forty-one years old and have been with my extramarital lover for seven years. Before this lover, I had been with several lovers outside of marriage, all of whom were strangers who had never met before.
In the past, I was always reluctant to choose acquaintances as extramarital lovers, thinking that "rabbits don't eat nest grass." "So I searched for extramarital lovers online, and I also met several men who claimed to be superior, but they invariably disappointed me."
The information on the Internet is really true and false, many men hang information on the Internet will be mixed with a lot of moisture, I have been in contact with the men, they are either too young to report their age, or their income is inflated, giving people the illusion that he is a high-quality man.
One of the men, he said that his annual salary is more than half a million, but after I contacted him several times, I found that he took me to eat a very cheap food stall every time, and I couldn't see that he was very rich.
There was also a man who reported his age more than ten years younger, and the photos registered online were still photos of him more than ten years ago, and as a result, as soon as we met, we saw the light and died, and what appeared in front of me looked like a bald old man, and the photos on the Internet were like two people. Frightened, I turned my head and ran, vowing never to look for a lover on the Internet again.
Later I accepted the pursuit of the man who had always had a good feeling for me, who was my neighbor in the same neighborhood. Ever since I promised to be his lover, he was ecstatic and regarded me as a treasure.
Although we met often, we were never noticed by our spouses. He was a thoughtful man who hid our lover relationship very well, and never affected our family because of our feelings.
He said that although we could not be married, our hearts were always closely linked. He and I both found solace outside of marriage because of a lack of family warmth.
His wife has a strong personality, always shouting at home, without the gentleness of women. My husband was grumpy, and he threw things at home and lost his temper, leaving me with no love for him.
We both did not choose divorce for the same reason, because we were afraid that divorce would affect the mental health of our children and the marriage after adulthood. So we all choose to endure in marriage and enjoy the beauty of the soul in the feelings outside of marriage.
If one day we choose to separate for various reasons, I will bury this unknown relationship deep in my heart and let it become an eternal secret between the two of us.
Ms. Wang:
I am fifty years old this year, and I have maintained an extramarital relationship with my old Li for eight years. The reason why I have an affair is because my husband has been in trouble for many years, and even if I stop it, he never repents.
In order to get revenge on my husband, I began to look for an extramarital lover. My first extramarital lover's surname was Zhang, and he and I met on a group trip. At that time, he and I were single and alone with the group, and in order to take care of each other, we both played together.
Before I met Lao Zhang, I would often travel alone with a group, and every time I went out on a trip, my husband never accompanied me, and he spent all his spare time on the married woman, ignoring the harm I had suffered.
In order to be able to get rid of my depressed emotions, I always keep walking on the road, because only when I go out can I sweep away the haze, can I temporarily forget my troubles, and focus all my attention on the beautiful scenery.
As long as I have a holiday, I will never stay at home, I will arrange my travel itinerary, pack my bags, leave the home that suffocates me, and go out outdoors to travel.
My husband raised his hands in support of my outing, because when I was gone, he could meet with his lover more arbitrarily. Whenever I said I was going on a trip, he would reward me with an extra sum of money and encourage me to play a few more days before coming back.
My husband's income is not cheap, this little money is a dime for him, with my husband's strong support, I like to travel more and more. At the same time, I also hope to have a sexual encounter on the way to travel, and to find the extramarital lover who is on the same frequency as me and can communicate with my heart.
I spent a total of half a year with my lover Lao Zhang, and later I found out that he was a man who was not dedicated, so I immediately broke up with him.
Ever since I found out that Lao Zhang had deceived me, I found that the biggest drawback of choosing a stranger as a lover was that I couldn't learn his true character, so I was in a passive situation.
While Lao Zhang was in contact with me, he had many lovers, and even his wife could only choose to ignore his misdeeds, because his wife was a housewife, and she had no ability to live independently, and she could only tolerate Lao Zhang's betrayal.
Lao Zhang did not have a pillow to control, he became more and more crazy, he used every opportunity to meet different women, and I was just one of his many lovers.
What I hate most is that men are not dedicated, my husband's betrayal has brought me great harm, and I can't let go of my life, so I can't continue with the old Zhang who is not dedicated, and breaking up is our best ending.
Shortly after breaking up with Lao Zhang, a chance class reunion brought me and Lao Li together. Lao Li and I once had a youthful relationship when we were students, but our early love was strongly prevented by the parents of both sides, resulting in our relationship ending quickly.
At that class reunion, I found that Old Li was still my favorite type, although he was old, but the shadow of that year was still there, which made me deeply attracted to him. Old Li and I feel the same way, he said that although after many years, my figure is still in the deepest part of his heart and can never be forgotten.
We felt sorry for each other and became best friends. Although we were lovers, I positioned him as a blue face who could confide in each other. Whenever I was wronged by my husband, I would pour bitter water on Old Li, and Old Li would always gently touch me, take me to eat delicious things, and divert my attention.
Ever since I got along with Old Lee, I never wanted to make friends with unfamiliar men as extramarital lovers. I think familiar men are more trustworthy and more trustworthy.
Ms. Chen:
I am Chinese New Year's Eve years old this year, I have several lovers, all of whom are my acquaintances without exception, and with familiar men, I can unload all my inner defenses and let me feel safe and bold to associate with them.
I am a woman who pursues to let go of herself, advocating timely pleasure. Although I have a husband and children, this has not prevented me from making countless lovers.
I think women should be kind to themselves, never be bound by marriage, women must enrich their spare time life, because only a woman who has a wide range of friends will she be more vivid and interesting.
I never want my lover's money, nor do I expect them to provide me with materials, I just need them to be able to grow with me, to be able to provide me with different insights, to be able to open my mind, to take me into a different world.
My lovers are elites from all walks of life, and their thinking is naturally different from ordinary people. I learned a lot of useful knowledge from them, which broadened my horizons.
Since I had these lovers, I feel that my knowledge has suddenly become much richer. Let me talk to others with more topics, whenever I hear me talking, my husband will give me a thumbs up, praise me for being a smart woman, and see the problem very deeply.
All of this is due to the useful knowledge I have learned from my lovers, which has guided me in the right direction of life.
Because my relatives have unique business channels, I can always follow them to make a small profit. I think the biggest benefit of being a lover with acquaintances is to understand each other, because everyone will have some common acquaintances, and these acquaintances will form a moral code for us, so that we can maintain a good relationship and never turn against each other.
If I choose an unfamiliar stranger as a lover, even if they provide me with business information, because I don't know him as a person, I won't have a sense of trust in him, and even if he provides an opportunity to make money, I don't dare to try it easily.
Such lovers are of no benefit to me, they will only waste my time and consume my mental strength, and they are even likely to pit me with ulterior motives, deliberately laying commercial traps to make me suffer losses and fool me, so that he can sit on the benefits of the fisherman.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > concluding remarks:</h1>
The reason why women choose acquaintances to be their extramarital lovers is, on the one hand, because acquaintances are easy to have long-term love; on the other hand, they know the roots of acquaintances and do not have to worry about being extorted and blackmailed by their lovers, resulting in reputation and property damage.
However, even if the extramarital affair is well hidden, it will eventually be revealed, which will be a huge price that no woman can afford.
Therefore, in the face of extramarital affairs, women's timely cliff pulling is the best choice.
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