Pay attention to my words and warm your heart.
Every married couple will not think at the wedding that the two people may go their separate ways in the future, like strangers. But the truth is that from a loving couple to the most familiar stranger, this marriage phenomenon is not uncommon.
"Closest relatives to estranged couples", I deeply believe this sentence. In reality, there are many couples who make up for their children and don't want to divorce, but they are like strangers.
Why couples under the same roof suddenly become familiar strangers, many people say that it is difficult to understand, but it is only because they are not in it. Why couples will become more and more strange is often the most deeply experienced by women.
You know, for women, marriage is the destination. Therefore, once married, they tend to put all their expectations on their husbands, and they will give all their energy and enthusiasm for this marriage.
As the saying goes, "The greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment." When men can't shield women in marriage and can't make women happy, women are also the most likely to die.
Mourning is greater than heart death, some middle-aged women, why would they treat their husbands as strangers? Mostly because of the following points.
<h1>Husbands betray marriages, and women don't divorce for the sake of their children. </h1>
Why do some middle-aged women treat their husbands as strangers? Mostly because of the betrayal of her husband. Because the pain of infidelity and betrayal is like a wound in the heart that can never be healed, and the pain is deep in the heart.
In the face of her husband's cheating, even if the woman chooses to forgive, it is also superficial, and the heart can no longer return to the original, but the face and heart are not in harmony with the life, and there is no warmth at all.
Although she later tried to repair the relationship, she did not really let go from her heart, just superficial forgiveness, and the estrangement in her heart has always been there.
Because she can't let go of the pain of her husband betraying herself, so the woman is the same as a stranger to him, saying that it is ugly, the husband is a roommate for her, and the relationship between husband and wife is also nominal. I don't love anymore, but I made it up for the sake of my children.
<h1>Hurt too deeply by the husband, the woman's heart died. </h1>
In the TV series "The Most Perfect Divorce", there is such a line:
"The worst outcome is not divorce, but becoming a mask couple, having no love for each other and no expectations, but living together, which is the greatest misfortune." 」
The relationship between husband and wife is becoming more and more strange, mostly caused by these small things, such as men's foolish filial piety in marriage, which is most likely to make women chill. A woman who treats a man as a stranger must be cold-hearted, desperate, and hurt.
A woman's heart is really soft and can't stand the hurt. After the woman has a cold heart, she will turn around and leave, no longer give you any chance, and she doesn't care whether you live well or badly in the future.
Those women who are heartbroken, although they are living a life for various reasons, they close the door of their hearts, and they are more and more indifferent and unfamiliar with their husbands, do not care, do not interfere, and regard their husbands as the most familiar strangers.
<h1> Mei Mei's message: Men love your wife well, don't let the marriage lose its temperature. </h1>
I don't know if you have found that there are many couples who were originally in love, but later the relationship is becoming more and more strange.
Within a few years of marriage, the husband and wife fell into zero communication, zero communication. Not even a few words for a week, typical of the most familiar strangers.
Any kind of feeling in the world needs to be maintained regularly, and no business means estrangement and misunderstanding, and the same is true for marriage.
Marriage is not easy, since two people love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together, they should cherish it. Do your best for the marriage. Especially men, be more considerate of your wife, don't let her live too wronged and insecure in marriage.
The saddest truth in marriage: they are obviously husband and wife, but they live like strangers. Especially women who are extremely disappointed in men, they have a cold heart, they will become silent and indifferent. So, men, please cherish it when you have it.
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