The author | Junko
Source| Paula (ID:pao-liang)
Please pay attention to the public number: Pao Liang
Back from Yancheng, I went to the store.
There are more than 20 pieces of my courier in the store...
Why so much?
It may have something to do with my birthday, so take it apart and see what treasures there are.
There was a bike, lightning's, kept. There was a razor, Philips' one, kept.
There was a watch, sent by the little tail swallow, and kept.
There was a kitchen knife, double standing, sent by the German sister, kept.
The rest is some specialties, let them divide, either eat, or take home, these things I don't want, is not a little picky?
Spoiled.
Usually, when people give me gifts, I basically don't thank them, because receiving gifts is a subconscious habit, and I feel that others should give me gifts.
I know it's wrong to think that way, but that's what I think.
Heavy gifts do not send nobles, this is really a science.
There was a box with flowers written on it, and I thought to myself, it must have been sent by Wen Jian, he sold this thing, and I gave it to the little girl in the store...
The little girl took it apart and looked at it: "Wow, it's a shadow puppet, made of petals, it's beautiful!" ”
I leaned over and looked, "I know who sent it, I can't send you this." ”
Who sent it?
Zhu Ying!
Except for her, no one has this craft, it should be said that except for her, no one has this heart, there is too much information in it.
I went on QQ and sent a message to Zhu Ying: Thank you, it's beautiful.
She was online and replied: Just like it.
Zhu Ying and I are partners, we do the flower export trade together, from the end of 2013 to cooperate, I accounted for 30% of the shares, for two years, the two of us have never quarreled.
No quarrel is nothing.
What's even more interesting is that the two of us have never met.
So close, why not meet?
And listen to me from the beginning!
I have a QQ for learning, the screen name is shadow puppet, it is used to make study notes, almost no one knows this QQ.
In the winter of 2009, it was cold anyway, and I remember it snowing that day.
Can't sleep, it's more than 2 a.m., there's a woman who adds me.
I live in the countryside, lonely and cold, although the water can not quench the near thirst, over the mouth addiction is always OK?
There are beautiful women plus me, not to mention the shadow puppets of the plus, no one knows who I am, how about some arrogance?
I looked at the information, Jinan's, from the photos, the long very Peugeot, intuition told me that she was an artist, either engaged in music, or engaged in art, she has that fan.
She came up and asked, "Is your birthday on May 20?" ”
I thought to myself, I didn't write my birthday on QQ, how did she know? Wouldn't it be the writing teacher who deliberately teased me? My QQ is only known to the writing teacher, and she has a previous crime, once played a girl to flirt with me, and also sent the chat records to the group, causing me to be ridiculed by them for half a year.
I'm a little cautious.
I asked, "Why do you ask this?" ”
She asked, "Is your birthday on May 20, or is it not?" ”
I said, "Yes." ”
She asked, "Why are you called a shadow puppet?" ”
I said, "Because I'm ugly, I can only hide behind the scenes, giving people a vague feeling." ”
She said: "There is such a coincidence in the world." ”
I said, "What?" ”
She asked, "Are you 83 years old?" ”
She said: "It's incredible. ”
I thought to myself, why did you meet a neurosis? A bit like a writing teacher, and a little different, if she flirts with me, she won't go around so many corners, she knows me too well, a tick is accurate.
She asked, "What's your name?" ”
I said, "Don't tell you. ”
She asked, "Do you have a front in your name?" ”
I said, "No. ”
She said, "There must be. ”
I said, "There's a peak. ”
She asked, "Why did you leave me alone?" Why did you leave me alone? Why? Why? ”
Oops, startled me, which ex-girlfriend is this? Haven't I always been abandoned? It seems that I have never dumped others like my grandfathers? Do I remember when there are fragments? When you're drunk? Just like the eldest brother said, once the classmate party was drunk, and a month later, the female classmate called him: This month, I did not come. The eldest brother is in a trance, you didn't come before you came, tell me what are these things for? The eldest brother suddenly understood that he must have been dishonest that night.
However, I was a little different from my eldest brother, I drank very honestly, like a dead pig, and slept violently.
I hurriedly blacked her out, thinking, I met a ghost in the middle of the night.
In order to prevent her from adding me again, I set QQ to refuse anyone to add as a friend, so that you can tease me again, this matter must be related to the writing teacher, only she knows my QQ and my personal information.
The next day, early in the morning, I called my writing teacher.
When I went up, I asked, "Is it you?" ”
She was confused: "What? ”
I knew, it wasn't her, it wasn't like pretending.
I said, "I had my sister tease me last night, and I thought it was you." ”
She said: "The beauty of thinking. ”
I said: "She knows my birthday, knows my name, and takes the initiative to add my QQ, I thought you told someone else." ”
She asked, "Have you ever sent a friend message or anything like that?" ”
I said, "Do I still use sending friend information?" Never sent it. ”
She said, "Then I don't know." ”
I said, "I seem to be a resentful woman, complaining that I broke up with her or something, in my impression, there should be no such a girlfriend." ”
She asked, "Do you want to take the roster out and cover it?" What swallow, red? Flowers? ”
I said: "Less ridicule of me, make me suspicious, mainly because I just got married, I am afraid that she will come to make trouble, to nip the contradiction in the bud." ”
She said: "It's okay, you think too much, I want to go to you, I've already found you." ”
I said, "That's right, too!" ”
About a week later, I received a QQ email, written by Zhu Ying, I saw clearly, it was not my affair debt, it was her first love's online name shadow puppet, there was a feng in the name, born on May 20, 1983, betrayed her, gone, never came back.
That night, she drank too much, looked up the screen name "Shadow" in QQ, and it happened that I was online, and she mistakenly thought I was him, so she asked a series of questions.
I didn't expect such a coincidence!
As soon as I thought that she looked good, I thought about it, what if I comforted her? Wouldn't it be possible for the dove to occupy the magpie's nest and let her love for her boyfriend be transferred to me?
It's exciting to think about...
So, I took the initiative to add her as a QQ friend.
I think qq progress is too slow, or the phone is relatively fast, so I asked her for a phone, as soon as it was connected, I said: Hello.
She, wow, just cried.
Hang up the phone.
I hurriedly went to QQ and asked, what happened?
After a long time, she replied: It's incredible, the sound is too similar.
Hi, there is a door!
The more we talk about the more speculative, even from morning to night, slowly, I know more and more about her, she is a teacher in the art college, teaching oil painting, the first love is a college classmate, the class leader, very excellent, belongs to a very talented type, after graduation the two people work in a unit.
Why break up?
In fact, it was not him who abandoned her, but she left him.
That day, she took the students to the mountains of southern Jinan to sketch, vomited halfway, she knew she was pregnant, she then took a taxi back, wanted to surprise her boyfriend, when they were already engaged.
When I got home, I pushed open the door and took a look. Shocked.
The boyfriend is in bed with a woman who is none other than her girlfriend, college classmate, and now a colleague...
She couldn't take it, but she only cried and didn't make a fuss.
Girlfriend defense, is the first time.
She no longer believed their words, no matter how she explained, she no longer accepted, resolutely broke up, and miscarried.
The boyfriend lives with female colleagues.
The story is such a story.
Some of the stories are too coincidental, such as pushing the door to meet, this is a small probability event, I have some doubts, is this true? Why is it so much like a writer's creation? I began to wonder about the writing teacher again, was she deliberately arranging for someone to try me? The plot is all designed by her, she uses this story to create novels, just like the movie "HER", deliberately pulling me into the water, she knows that I am very emotional, I can't talk about seeing a love one, at least every time I am invested in true emotions, just like my friends evaluate me: XX This person is very specific about each relationship, but the number of paragraphs is a little more.
I need to check first, whether it is true or not.
So, I ask some key questions, such as when you bump into each other, did you go crazy? Did the boyfriend ask for forgiveness later? What is the attitude at home?
Combining all this, I came to the conclusion that it is true!
I was a little sad for her, it was really wronged her, and I was a little into the drama, as if all this was done by me, I began to talk to her with pity, I was not reading psychology at the time, there was a family system arrangement, that is, to create an atmosphere, let the people around her play different roles, so as to hypnotize the parties, let her say the most heartfelt words.
I hypnotized her once, and it was I who played her ex-boyfriend.
She cried for a long time, she was really in the play.
She already has absolute trust in me, I asked her to tell me the QQ photo album password, I want to see her life photos, if it is a big dinosaur, why am I wasting so much energy? Right?!
She gave me the password. When I entered, she was indeed a beautiful woman, but why did she seem to have a child?
I asked, "That child, is that child?" ”
She said: "No, I'm married. ”
I asked, "Is it a coping marriage?" ”
She said: "Almost, others introduced, I agreed, is also a colleague, teaching computers, especially honest, never fired a fire at me, Bai Yi Bai Shun, at that time I did not think about him, nor did I think about marriage or the like, it was my birthday, he had to invite me to dinner, I went, the waiter sent a bouquet of flowers, he proposed to me, I was very touched, agreed." ”
I asked, "Are you happy now?" ”
She asked, "What is happiness?" According to the standards of ordinary people, very happy, good life, basically no quarrels, life is very stable. ”
Just chatted like this for almost 1 year, has reached the point of saying nothing, even I said let her send me tens of thousands of dollars, she will not ask anything more, the original deception of women so simple ah?
Later, she asked about my profession or something. I also told her the truth, she also added my usual QQ number, what do I think?
Now she just thinks of me as someone else, and if I turn her into my reader, then our relationship will immediately be unequal, and she will be more obedient.
However, it backfires.
At that time, I wrote a lot of articles about cheating, and I swore that what man didn't steal?
She blacked me out!
Because, she is a love person, firmly believes in the beauty of love, firmly believes that a love is a lifetime, she can not accept the betrayal of men, whether physical or mental, can not.
I have tens of thousands of readers every day, and she blacked me out, and I didn't feel it at all, and I couldn't try at all. After a long time, she added me again, I found her among strangers, I learned that she had blocked me, I asked why I was blocked, she said that she could not accept the topic of men cheating, although it was the norm.
Sure enough, she became my reader.
Feelings are also getting deeper and deeper.
I propose, meet?
I was in Jinan and I sent her the room number.
She said, "Okay. ”
After two or three hours, I didn't come.
I thought to myself, I've been pigeon-freed.
I called her.
She cried very sadly: "I want to go, but I can't go, I will hurt you." ”
I said, "It's okay, you think too much, it's nothing, my daughter-in-law is in her hometown, even if there is something, you just put the responsibility on me." ”
She said, "Let me tell you the truth, he is no longer in the human world, I am afraid that I will see you and bring you bad luck, I am afraid, you know?" I'm afraid, I'm afraid of losing! ”
, I have a chill in my heart, huh? Is it a painting skin?
Hung up the phone. She told me all about it on QQ.
The boyfriend's betrayal has caused her to have a twisted psychology, especially when she sees the two of them in pairs, she knows that the two of them are definitely not together for a day or two, hate!
There was a leader who liked her and was chasing her all the time, and when colleagues gathered, everyone drank a lot of wine, and the leader wanted to take her away, so she followed.
Take off, the leader is a bit like me, drinking wine, like a dead pig.
She lay down, took a picture with the leader, and sent it to her ex-boyfriend...
Tragedy happened that night, the ex-boyfriend was drunk and driving and died.
I asked her, "Is the photo in front, or is the accident in front?" ”
She said: "I don't know, I don't know if I killed him. ”
She said this, I am really afraid, don't say she does not dare to see me, I do not dare to see her, although we do not believe in fate, but this thing is so evil, do you not believe that it can be done?
Don't dare to challenge the probability!
Later, she told me: "That day, I was really going to go to the hotel to find you, but I just came out of the neighborhood and saw him standing in the middle of the road, it was real, not a hallucination, I hit the road teeth." ”
I said, "Don't scare me, you do, he'll come to me." ”
She said, "I didn't lie to you. ”
One day, I went to climb Hero Mountain and gave a talk.
She contacted me: "The first time it felt so close. I asked, "Where are you?" ”
She said: "There is a flower shop at the foot of Hero Mountain, which I opened, but I am not over there." ”
I asked, "How's the business?" She said: "So-so, purely to regulate the mood, after all, every day is to deal with the united states." ”
One day, I went to the office and found two large boxes at the door, which read: XX Collection. I thought to myself, I've met a ghost.
Open a look, inside are two pots of flowers, particularly beautiful, and really the same, is a simulation of the flower, it is said that now very popular this thing, not to mention far to see like the real, is close to the real, touch also like the real.
I know, she sent it.
Mom, I began to become trance-like, maybe the ghost story was too much, I was wondering, is she not there? If it exists, why have I never seen it?
My days in Jinan were basically about eating, drinking and having fun every day.
Everywhere you go, you have to talk about it.
One day, she said to me, "Wherever you've been, I've been next to each other, and the fried chicken restaurant you recommended, I've also gone, that's the table where you're eating, and I'm wondering, are you sitting on this stool?" ”
The more I thought about it, the more suspenseful it became.
Zhu Ying likes flowers, QQ space has N more than her own design of the flower art, there are flowers, there are simulated flowers, her art skills show out, but I think too advanced, the average person can not appreciate, the people still like flowers bloom ...
I asked, "Why don't you put these flowers in the store?" ”
She said: "Nobody likes it. ”
I said, "Someone can appreciate it, so why don't you open an online shop?" ”
She said, "I don't understand. ”
I said, "I can introduce you to a friend, Kunming, named Li Li, who is very good at making flowers online, should have nearly a million profits a year, my readers, and have a good relationship." ”
She asked, "Can I go?" ”
I said, "Of course. ”
I also have selfish intentions, I just want to know if she is a real person, don't stage a realistic version of "Liaozhai" on the line...
I arranged for Li Li to be in charge of the reception.
When I arrived in Kunming, Li Li picked her up and secretly sent me a QQ message: Your new girlfriend is so beautiful.
I thought to myself, I don't want to be her boyfriend. Li Li took her to inspect the flower market, 90% of China's flowers come from Yunnan, I remember when I was in Yunnan, 99 roses were only 13 yuan, then we used 99 roses to pick up, used, and threw them away.
She looked dazzled.
She has not seen so many flowers, in Li Li's company, she inserted N models of flowers, Li Li also sent to the QQ space for half a day, really beautiful.
This is Zhu Ying's core competitiveness: knowing what beauty is, and being able to show it.
Zhu Ying wanted to do the flower trade, that is, to transport to Jinan.
I don't recommend her to do it, because this is a trader's business, and flowers, like fruits, are already very mature channels, and there are many special backgrounds, and ordinary people can't enter this market.
Li Li suggested that she make flowers.
I also suggested she do it, why?
Keeping flowers can avoid head-on competition.
Li Li appreciates the beauty of Zhu Ying, and Li Li's suggestion is to let Zhu Ying design the shape, including flowers and flower pots, and then sell them online, taking the high-end route.
Has anyone done a good job of keeping flowers online?
Wen Jian, is also Li Li suggested him to do, he has always been ranked first, don't look at this classification is small, but after all, he is a big family, he looks forward to Valentine's Day every day, now there is February 14, there is May 20, there is Tanabata, he still feels that the festival is too few, a February 14 can sell 1 million goods, the profit is half.
I asked Zhu Ying to go to Wen Jian to learn...
Zhu Ying especially listened to my words, basically baiyi baishun, I arranged her things, she should be the holy will to implement, Yang Wenjian's advice is also to go high price, sell styling, sell is unique, and must be high-end, high-end to what level?
Can be put in the villa as decorations.
Zhu Ying has this artistic height.
Bao flowers and imitation flowers are not the same, bao flowers are also flowers, is the real flower, so more artistic, our refrigerator, air conditioning, table have Zhu Ying design flowers, there is a little very cattle B, she takes the flowers as an embellishment.
This is a master of art.
Now whoever gives me a painting, it's full of peonies, I'm embarrassed to hang it up, it's too vulgar.
Zhu Ying really likes these things, sitting in the flower shop by herself, tossing and turning for a day, she is not too tired, usually not very busy in class, relatively free... After the Taobao store opened, there was basically no business.
Because, this thing is not an urgent consumption, no one will deliberately search, unless it is?
It's met, a look, wow, this thing is really good, a look and not expensive, bought.
If you want to do this, you must have two prerequisites:
First, let others know about you.
Second, let others appreciate you.
I asked, "Are you interested in making money?" ”
She said, "Yes! ”
I said, "I feel like you're the second generation of the rich." ”
She said: "The money in the family is not mine. ”
Why can I feel it?
Her salary is not proportional to her consumption, and she has a talent for business that she can understand as soon as she says it.
I said, "I suggest you visit two people in Qingdao, one is Yu Jie of Hongyan Flower Art, she has won all the awards in the floral art industry, you say me, she knows." One is Sister Ah Jun, she will tell you how to cut into the flower market, the two of them are very good friends, you find one, you find the other. ”
She went.
The advice given by Ah Junjie is: use three years to go to the world's 30 most beautiful flower seas, take photos of the theme of flower fairies, and add ten more in China.
And then what?
Published books,
Position yourself as a flower fairy, clothing, styling to match...
Planning flower fairies is actually to detonate popularity, in China, it is impossible to become famous step by step, and it must rely on events to become famous.
As soon as she listened, she understood.
Since July 2012, she has visited: Provence, Hokkaido, the Netherlands, Bulgaria, India, Daxi, Taiwan, Amsterdam, Carlsbahn in the United States, and Bedley, Worcestershire, United Kingdom.
Last night, I met A Junjie on WeChat, and also mentioned this matter, A Junjie expressed admiration for Zhu Ying's execution, in fact, this plan was originally for Yu Jie of Hongyan Flower Art, but A Junjie felt a little late, if it was a few years earlier, it was OK, and now, Yu Jie is suitable for being a flower sister-in-law.
And Zhu Ying, regardless of age or stature, especially temperament, is just right.
So beautiful.
At that time, what was the advice given by Yu Jie?
First, we must produce professional books (related to floral art) to ensure that we have a place in the industry.
Second, do training and pass on your talents to others.
Third, you can try to do foreign trade to ensure flowers.
Among them, the second one she does not accept, because she herself is a teacher, not interested in teaching people, earning training fees, she is not interested, she is purely interested.
Third, she also did not accept it, because she did not understand what foreign trade was.
She travels while writing travelogues, the theme is the flower fairy, very hot in the end of the world, more and more people like her works, in 2013 Taobao profit reached more than 300,000, she had to give me 200,000, I did not want, she said that she just enjoyed the feeling of fullness, and did not need money.
In 2015, I was always reported on QQ, prompting me that I could not reply, but I wanted to reply to other people's messages, what to do?
I took the shadow puppet number out and used it.
Many people know that this number is mine.
On May 20th, I replied to my journal with a shadow puppet and wrote: Happy Birthday.
As a result, N people add shadow puppets.
A female reader added me.
She came up and asked, "Your name is Shadow Puppet?"
Are you born on May 20th? ”
I asked, "What' the matter?" ”
She said: "It's also too coincidental. ”
I said, "I'm XX." ”
She said, "I know. Why did you use the name shadow puppet? ”
I said, "There's no why, like." ”
She said: "Too coincidental, too coincidental. ”
I asked, "Where are you?" ”
She said, "Jinan's." ”
I asked, "Shandong Academy of Arts?" ”
She asked, "How do you know?" ”
I thought to myself, this is also too TMD coincidence...