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When it comes to the Qing Dynasty literary scholar Pu Songling, the first thing that comes to mind is his masterpiece "Liaozhai Zhiyi".
In fact, in addition to this work, Pu Songling has many widely circulated novels, of which "Sisters Are Easy to Marry" is quite representative.
"Sisters Easy to Marry" tells such a story:
The eldest daughter of the Zhang family has been related to the shepherd boy Mao Ji since she was a child, but when she became an adult, she was reluctant to marry because she hated Mao Ji's poverty. After being forced by helpless parents to let her sister marry instead of her sister, who knew that soon after the marriage, Mao Ji was crowned and the first, the future was bright, and the eldest daughter of the Zhang family regretted it endlessly.
Art comes from life and is higher than life.
Although the story of the sisters who are easy to marry is only a fictional novel, it has to be said that in reality, such a story does really happen.
Some people say that throughout the ages, all love stories have been similar, except that each story has changed its protagonist.
Looking at the long river of history, hundreds of years are just a flick of the finger.
More than three hundred years later, the story of the sister's easy marriage is still playing out, but the eldest daughter and the younger daughter have become the later so-and-so.
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Received a private message from a fan Aunt Wang, who told her story of her love-hate relationship with her sister for most of her life.
Aunt Wang said that on the surface, she seemed to be no different from other old ladies in their sixties, ordinary, but in fact, her life experience was really extraordinary.
Aunt Wang is now a city native, with both children and daughters, she and her wife and children are in good health, and now they are living their old age together in peace and stability.
Such a good day was something she had never dared to expect before.
Aunt Wang was born in the countryside, and when she was a child, her family was poor, her parents were very honest, she had no sons in her life, and she was looked down upon by the villagers.
Aunt Wang also has a sister who is two years older than her, the two look very different, the sister is more like a mother, thick eyebrows, big eyes, born beauty embryo; and Aunt Wang followed her father, single eyelids, collapsed nose, is really not pretty.
From childhood to adulthood, the sister has always lived in the shadow of the sister, the sister is beautiful, and the person is also proud; and she looks ordinary, and there is a little inferiority, from childhood to adulthood, just like the sister's little girl, called by the sister. The clothes were also always worn by the sister to wear the rest. In short, only what the sister is not rare and unwanted can be her turn.
When the sister grew to be twenty years old, the threshold of the family was about to be broken by the matchmaker, and all the scramblers came to tell the sister about the matchmaker, after all, the sister looked beautiful. Aunt Wang, who is two years younger, is not cared about.
At that time, the village chief gave his sister a matchmaker, it is said that the man is a distant relative of his, the young man has a little physical problem, but the person is very good.
The sister was very angry when she heard it, she looked like a flower, and the village chief actually introduced her to a man with a problem! She couldn't take it! But the parents were honest and honest, afraid of offending the village chief, so they forced the eldest daughter to meet her.
My sister didn't want to go alone, she had selfish intentions, she had to pull her sister along, and joked that if her sister couldn't look at the man, she would give it to you directly.
At that time, Aunt Wang was eighteen years old, watching so many people give her sister a kiss, she was envious in her heart, and she was never asked, the little girl's mind was sentimental, she was really afraid that one day she would not be able to marry, so she was very happy to agree to accompany her sister to go on a blind date.
On that day, the two found that the original blind date man was a lame, and the sister couldn't look at it at all, chatted a few words, and then found an excuse to leave. Aunt Wang waited for her sister to not come, so she was kind enough to comfort the blind date man, and the two gradually chatted.
After the conversation, Aunt Wang felt that although this man was lame, he was very assertive and thoughtful, and seemed to have a good temperament and was very satisfied with him. It can be seen that the blind date man also has a good impression of her.
When Aunt Wang returned home, she found her sister angry with her parents, complaining that they should not let her kiss a lame man. The mother wiped her tears and said that the village chief's face could not be refuted, and she did not know what to do.
Aunt Wang boldly said her thoughts, saying that the lame man was also very good, and the sister broke into laughter, and you liked that you married him!
In this way, Aunt Wang "picked up" a husband. A year later, Aunt Wang married a lame man, and her sister has not found the object of her choice because she is always picking and choosing.
Unexpectedly, it turned out that the lame man was an abandoned baby when he was a child, abandoned by his parents in the city, and later adopted by his adoptive parents in the village.
Coincidentally, after two years of marriage, the lame man's biological parents came to look for relatives again, found him, and in order to atone for his sins, gave the crippled man a large amount of money, and said that he would inherit all the family property in the future.
In this way, Aunt Wang's two sons suddenly became rich city people, and they soon went to live in the city and took over their adoptive parents.
At this time, Aunt Wang's sister's intestines were all remorseful, and this remorse slowly turned into hatred, hating that her sister had robbed her of her man in the first place.
This hatred did not disappear until the sister later married, but although the sister went through thousands of choices, the final marriage was not good.
Now that the old sisters talk about this past, the sister is still full of remorse.
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For marriage, the different choices of the two sisters have achieved different lives.
The sister picked the fat and thin, and finally picked a meatless one; and the sister had no intention of planting willows and willows, and finally harvested endless happiness.
In the big matter of picking people and choosing marriage, everyone has their own vision and so-called standards, some women want to be good, and some women want people to be more money.
Nowadays, at the moment, every woman seems to have become sober in the world, and when she marries, she must not only see whether she is good or not, but also see whether the other party has money.
Others say that women who once only wanted love now regret it. Because, just to be nice to him, in case one day he is not good to you, women will become nothing; and those women who are trying to make money, when one day he is not good to you, women can at least hold the money and cry.
There is no absolute right or wrong for this assertion, but only for individuals.
Many women who only want people and only love may not have a bad life. On the contrary, in the end, they all kept the clouds open and saw the moon.
Bao Bell and his wife Bao Wenjing are notoriously loving couples in the entertainment industry. At that time, before Bao Bell became famous, there was a bitter day, he and Bao Wenjing rented a very simple house, and it was not easy to live by eating instant noodles.
But Bao Wenjing did not abandon her, but accompanied Bao Bell's side and did not abandon, and eventually a lover eventually became a family, and now Bao Bell has become famous, giving Bao Wenjing a rich life.
In an issue of "Wife's Romantic Trip", Bao Bell also specially prepared a special memory for his wife, and the two returned to the rental house of that year together, remembering bitterly and sweetly, causing Bao Wenjing to tears.
Marriage is not a choice that can determine the fate of a lifetime. Whether the marriage is good or bad, the choice is very important, and the intention is equally important.
Choosing a good hand of cards may not necessarily be a winner in adult life; choosing a bad hand, all kinds of coincidences, may also have the possibility of counterattack.
In short, life is full of variables, always kind, always maintain the original intention, should not be too bad.
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Do you think the choice of marriage matters? Or is it more important to operate?