Because the three emotional lines go hand in hand, for a long time, Xiaobian can't understand why Liu Ai and Yang Guang are the male and female protagonists of "You Against the Current", until recently Xiaobian understood that it was because their marriage concept was the most correct. Whether it is right or wrong, just from their attitude towards life, feelings, affection, and work, we will understand that "going against the current" is the most obvious in them.
Once, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the TV series was to take the daughter-in-law who was strong mother-in-law with a rebellious and obedient daughter-in-law, and finally encountered the path of the mother-in-law who was moved by the family change, which is related to the Chinese tradition of thousands of years, no filial piety has three no queens for a big "filial piety" wind once overwhelmed people, there is no room for resistance and there is no opportunity to argue about right and wrong, as long as the "filial piety" of the Shang Fang Sword daughter-in-law is irrefutable.
A few years ago, the style of painting suddenly changed, and a new type of good man appeared in the modern mother-in-law drama, who can switch freely between the mother and the daughter-in-law, and be the "lubricant" in life, although not rich and handsome, but an indispensable necessity man in life. For example, the aftertaste in "The Beautiful Age of the Daughter-in-Law", Jin Liang in "The Happy Life of Kintaro" and so on are representatives.
As the main audience of TV dramas, compared with the domineering president type TV series that build dreams, one of the important reasons why such TV series can get a lot of recognition is to satisfy the happy life dreams of ordinary girls. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an inevitable "compulsory course" for every married woman, if the husband is no longer the past hand-thrower or the intensifier of contradictions, but becomes a lubricant and regulator, then life will naturally become much better.
From this point of view, Yang Guang in "Against the Current" is qualified, although he has no money and is not necessarily more successful, but he is really good to his daughter-in-law. Laundry and cooking transfer to and from work, take care of housework have not been said, which saves a lot of heart for the strong woman daughter-in-law Liu Ai, at the critical moment he can rush up to fight for the daughter-in-law, such a man may not be the one who can get his hands on the classmates, but it must be the most practical and intimate husband in life, so to some extent Liu Ai lives a bit like the "princess" in the mouth of the mother-in-law.
Yang Guang's goodness is also reflected in his willingness to put himself in the shoes of his daughter-in-law, and when the daughter-in-law does not want the first child, after some struggle, he still says that he respects his daughter-in-law's idea of becoming a father. Also when the mother repeatedly came to the door to provoke the thorn, let the mother think for herself, for her own peace of mind to calm the mother-in-law war. When facing the mother-in-law, he knows how to give in and reassure the old man with his heart to heart, and Yang Guang is impeccable in these aspects.
Similarly, Liu Ai really didn't have to pick. Before pregnancy, all kinds of proofs were that she was a woman with enterprising careers and requirements for the quality of life, but after giving birth to a child, she gave up the confinement center, and she also went against her mother's wishes to go to a private hospital and did not hire a nanny, on the one hand, because of the overstretched financial situation, on the other hand, she was afraid that her mother-in-law would not accept it. Even in the care of the son, he greatly respected and obeyed the wishes of the mother-in-law.
Liu Ai and Yang Guang's life is not smooth sailing, but she is also willing to consider her husband to the greatest extent. Qi Nan's intervention, Liu Ai is not indifferent, but she chooses to believe that her husband reconciles with him. Postpartum depression is not without her, but she is also willing to reconcile with her husband after leaving, to communicate more to dissolve, these aspects can see the woman's atmosphere and demeanor.
Many people in the barrage complained about Yang Guang's mother, and also scolded Yang Guang's nest and called for the two to divorce as soon as possible. In fact, this is irrational, everyone may think that if the contradiction escalates and then divorce will become a cool drama, but did not expect that this is really incompatible with life. Everyone forgets that the most basic point is that in this marriage, Liu Ai and Yang Guang's emotional foundation is very strong, although they have experienced unemployment, miscarriage, pregnancy and a series of life frictions, but the feelings of these two people have never wavered, and they are always willing to consider from each other's point of view. And the friction between Liu Ai and her mother-in-law is not impossible, it is nothing more than the difference in the parenting concept of the two generations.
Most of the time this mother-in-law is still OK, giving up retirement life to take care of grandchildren, paying for vegetables and cooking, stewing all kinds of hot to nourish the daughter-in-law, when the son encounters an economic crisis, she also paid out the 200,000 for the elderly, her love for her son and daughter-in-law is sincere, but the living habits and consumption concepts of the two generations are different, and there is a conflict that is too normal. Why aren't we in our own lives like this? But isn't each of us also trying to live together? If divorce is often caused by this little problem, how many families can exist?
Or in other words, sometimes Xiaobian feels that everyone has a saint mentality when chasing dramas, hoping that the husband is omnipotent, hoping that the husband can earn money to support the family, but also hoping that the husband is considerate, and hoping that this man can stand in his own perspective to speak for himself, which is really a bit too much. If a man completely spoils his daughter-in-law in the relationship between his mother and daughter-in-law, he is afraid that he is not a person with a brain, right? Being a good regulator in life is the key, and it is also crucial that these two important women in his life can understand and tolerate each other. I also hope that everyone can abandon the misunderstanding of "the biggest wife" when chasing the drama and return to a rational perspective to look at the problem.
The small couple of Yang Guang and Liu Ai is probably the closest couple to the life of ordinary people in this drama, they have their own decent lives, but in order to change houses and want children to suddenly have a better quality of life. Being chased by mortgages is stressful, being overwhelmed by debt and afraid to have children, and dieting after having children, these life details are too vivid to be seen, and people can't help but have skin pain. And the way the two of them deal with it is also a template, not envious, not complaining, not giving up, not bowing their heads, just like this to help each other go down, very good. From this point of view, they should be the protagonists. Text/small flower grains