In 2005, the brainwashing divine comedy "Husband Husband I Love You" came out, and once it was released, it became popular all over the Internet.
How hot is this song? It was not only selected as one of the top ten golden songs of 2005 by China Mobile, but also won the top ten golden songs of the year in the 2005 and 2006 "Wireless Music Chart".
On the street, mobile phone rings are everywhere this song, and even children will hum a few words.
I thought that the singer Xie Yuxin must love her husband very much, so that she could sing this song that made her husband listen to the blossoming of the flesh and hemp.
But the fact is the opposite of the style of the song, when the release of "Husband Husband I Love You", Xie Yuxin not only had no spouse, but also experienced two relationships, making herself scaly.
Married to a person who does not love, 19 years old to have a child; the second love encountered a fugitive, was deceived for many years, and was even popular by the fugitive, the second on the Spring Festival Gala; and finally suffered from depression in the peak period...
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" >, for the wish of a seriously ill mother, a marriage to someone who does not love, 19 years old to have a child</h1>
Xie Yuxin (formerly known as Liu Xiaomei) was born on March 8, 1974 in Hefei, Anhui Province.
Her father was the head of the power supply bureau, and her mother also had a formal job, and the family conditions were more solid than many others.
Xie Father usually likes to listen to Huangmei opera, Huangmei opera originated in Hubei Huangmei, developed and expanded in Anhui, Xie Yuxin although she is still young, but she also listened to it with relish, and also followed the humming and dancing.
Discovering that her daughter was gifted in singing and dancing, her parents found a special teacher for her to cultivate and develop her hobbies.
After graduating from middle school, Xie Yuxin successfully entered the Huangmei Opera School in Anhui to learn singing.
In 1993, Xie Yuxin was about to graduate from the Huangmei Opera School in Anhui Province, but before he could enjoy the joy of the graduates, his family suffered a major change.
Xie Mother is not in good health, suffered from diabetes in the early years, but her condition is still stable, relying on injections and medicines to control blood sugar is normal, xie girl will go home to take care of her mother as soon as she has time.
Unexpectedly, my mother's diabetes suddenly worsened, resulting in delayed treatment of uremia, resulting in a series of complications, the eyes can hardly see anything, the whole body is also puffy and swollen, into a critical state.
Hearing the news that her mother was critically ill, the filial Xie Yuxin packed her bags and left the school overnight and rushed to her home to accompany and take care of her mother.
Suffering from illness, Xie Mu was in pain, she knew that she would soon die, and the most reassuring person was her daughter Xie Yuxin.
Xie Yuxin's brother was already married and had children, and her mother's biggest wish at that time was to see her daughter start a family and find Ruyi Langjun.
In order to fulfill her mother's wish, Xie accepted the blind date arranged by the family, and through the family, she met and flashed marriage to the son of a local leader.
I have to say that Xie Yuxin is really filial piety, for her mother, she can give everything, even if she quit school, even if she bet on her life's happiness.
Unfortunately, only three months after marriage, Xie Yuxin died, and at this time, Xie Yuxin was already pregnant, and she did not have any joy of becoming a mother, but only endless sorrow.
There was no emotional basis in this way, and the marriage based on her mother's wishes was not what Xie Yuxin wanted, so after giving birth to a child, she divorced her husband.
This year, Xie Yuxin was only 19 years old, helplessly married, helplessly gave birth to a child, and finally braved herself once and divorced.
After the divorce, because Miss Xie had no job and income, she gave the child to her ex-husband to raise, after which she accepted the invitation of her classmates and left Anhui to go to Hainan to relax.
Going to a new city and a new environment, Xie Yuxin had a feeling of relief and a new life.
She liked the atmosphere of the environment here, and she had the idea of living here, and how to survive became a problem that Xie Yuxin had to solve.
It just so happened that her classmate's husband ran a tavern, and singing was Xie Yuxin's strong point, so she was invited to become a resident singer.
In the spring of 1996, Miss Xie had been a resident singer for a while, but because she was from Huangmei opera, she could not let go of the tradition, and her performance on stage was somewhat dull and unsatisfactory.
In order to ease Xie Yuxin's tension and allow her to slowly break through herself, the boss specially invited a guest from the stage to sing "Husband and Wife Return Home" with her.
What Xie Yuxin did not expect was that the guest who sang with her would later become her boyfriend, changing her fate in life.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > second, fell into the "love trap", was popular by fugitives, and was implicated in the "East Window Incident"</h1>
The guest, who called himself "Pan Shunbao", was a businessman with a big business and was a "billionaire" level figure.
Since singing with Xie Yuxin, he has developed a good feeling for this girl, often running to the scene, listening to her singing, and sending flowers and gifts, and the shot is very generous.
When someone is embarrassed by Xie Yuxin, Pan Shunbao will always stand up, but he never asks Xie Yuxin, and sometimes keeps a certain distance from her, slowly, Xie Yuxin is attracted to this mysterious man.
Xie Yuxin was only 22 years old at this time, and he also had beautiful fantasies about love, longing for someone to take care of him warmly, and finally could not resist Pan Shunbao's desire to indulge and tender means, and fell into his "love trap".
Because Pan Shunbao is very busy doing business, often needs to run around, disappears for a long time from time to time, and may not be able to see his girlfriend Xie Yuxin for a long time, so he has the idea of taking his girlfriend to Beijing.
In the autumn of 1996, Pan Shunbao said to Xie Yuxin:
"I'm going back to Beijing, I hope you can go with me, you stay here, it's almost like burying your talent, you have the ability to become a popular singer, and you can be praised as a popular singer." 」
In the face of the olive branch thrown by her boyfriend, Xie Yuxin did not immediately agree, she asked her boyfriend to go back first, and she needed to think about it.
After all, after adapting to the new environment in Hainan, and having to go to a new environment again, Xie Yuxin was afraid that he had more than enough and lacked strength.
Coupled with the fact that Beijing is a bustling metropolis, whether it can adapt to survive is also a problem, in case one day breaks up with her boyfriend, where should we go?
Making up her mind to go thousands of miles away for love is indeed not an easy task, with mixed feelings, Xie Yuxin returned to her hometown in Anhui, and she wanted to figure out whether to go to Beijing or not.
In just a few autumns of life, if everything has to be scrupulous, afraid of hands and feet, it is bound to miss a lot of things, after several thoughts, Yu Xie Yuxin backpacked and left home, plucked up enough courage to go to Beijing to find her boyfriend Pan Shunbao.
After going to Beijing, Xie Yuxin and Pan Shunbao began to live together, and Pan Fushang did not break his word, spending a lot of money to praise his girlfriend and help her out with new songs.
It was at this time that Liu Xiaomei (formerly known) changed her name to Xie Yuxin and parachuted into the Beijing music scene.
In the winter of 1996, Pan Shunbao paid for someone to record the song "Flower Street" for his girlfriend, and the following year, he also filmed a MV specifically for "Flower Street".
Xie Yuxin won the silver medal of the music and television competition that year with this song, becoming a rising star.
In 1998, Miss Xie released her first music album "Backgammon" under the operation of her boyfriend, which won the National Best Fresh Force Award of Yunnan Music Station's "Yunling Wind and Cloud List".
Subsequently, she also entered the show business circle, partnering with various big names, and successively starred in "Happy is Good", "Carry Love to the End", and also entered the host industry, singing and acting hosting three-pronged approach.
There is no doubt that one of the investors in "Carry Love to the End" is of course Zhao Yuxin's boyfriend Pan Shunbao.
In order to win his girlfriend, Pan Shunbao spent a lot of money to shoot the TV series "Carry Love to the End".
Zhao Yuxin, who walked the back door, not only easily played the role inside, but even the theme song and interlude in the play were handed over to her to sing, opening up the fame.
In 1999, only three years after his debut, the 25-year-old Xie Yuxin appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, singing the song "Spring Warm Blossoms" with Zhou Yanhong and Gan Ping, and since then his reputation has become famous and quickly become popular.
Two years later, Xie Yuxin once again took the spring festival evening stage, making her fame to a higher level and becoming a representative figure of the mainland 'Jade Girl' singers.
Since then, Xie Yuxin has climbed to the peak of his life, with continuous resources and extreme popularity.
Xie Yuxin knows that it is because of her boyfriend's strong support and sparing no effort to contribute money and efforts that she has today's achievements.
So she has always been very grateful to Pan Shunbao, and even had the idea of quitting the circle to marry him.
Between 2000 and 2002, her long-lived boyfriend, Pan Shunbao, broke up on the grounds that his business was not going well, and also took all his belongings with him and disappeared.
In the empty house, there was no trace of Pan Shunbao's temperature or trace, as if he had never appeared.
Xie Yuxin thought that Pan Shunbao was only temporarily away, and when things were handled, he would return to his side again.
At this moment, Xie Yuxin did not know that she had been completely abandoned.
In the play, she played Li Qiushui was deceived and abandoned by Wuyazi, and outside the play, she could not escape the fate of being deceived and abandoned by Pan Shunbao.
After Pan Shunbao's "disappearance", Xie Yuxin was sad and depressed for a long time, but never gave up looking for him.
But she asked all the friends around her, used a lot of relationships, and never found a boyfriend.
Perhaps, you will never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, and you will never find someone who wants to hide from you.
It's just that Xie Yuxin doesn't know what she did wrong, nor does she know what happened to her boyfriend, and she will leave her so cruelly.
In her opinion, although they were not married, they already regarded themselves as Pan Shunbao's wife in their hearts.
Slowly, Xie Yuxin finally accepted the fact of being "abandoned" and walked out of this love wound.
In May 2004, a man named Shen Junlin, who was arrested on suspicion of embezzlement and bribery, was none other than Zhao Yuxin's ex-boyfriend Pan Shunbao.
Until this time, Zhao Yuxin did not know the "true face" of Pan Shunbao.
It turned out that the real identity of "Pan Shunbao" was a fugitive, his real name was Shen Junlin, and during the escape, he assumed the pseudonym "Pan Shunbao".
Shen Junlin is an authentic Harbin native, shrewd and quite business-minded, but his business acumen is not used on the right path, but he has engaged in deceptive activities.
In 1985, Shen Junlin was detained by the local police on suspicion of fraud, and during the detention, he suffered from pleurisy and later absconded by taking advantage of hospitalization.
Unexpectedly, this escape, I fled for 20 years.
During the years of exile, Shen Junlin traveled to many places, worked as a fruit seller, and also sold television sets.
Later, he used his little cleverness to meet Peng Mou, the leader of the sales department, and was hired by him as a manager.
Through stock speculation and friendship with talented people in the industry, Shen Junlin's assets and value have made a qualitative leap.
After that, Shen Junlin expanded his business into the real estate industry and the film and television media industry, turning from a fugitive to a "billionaire".
It was in the process of escape that Shen Junlin met Xie Yuxin and praised her as a red, leaving Miss Xie was not a business failure, but he was afraid that his identity as a fugitive would be exposed.
More importantly, at that time, Shen Junlin had lost his enthusiasm for Xie Yuxin, and in addition to Xie Yuxin, there were many confidants with red faces, and Xie Yuxin was just one of his many confidants with red faces.
After escaping for 20 years before being arrested, and then sentenced to 20 years, for Shen Junlin, although the ending was tragic, it was a stone that fell to the ground.
In the past 20 years, he has been cautious everywhere, afraid of revealing any horse's feet, and the most painful and painful thing is that he wants to have his wife and children in Shenyang, and he can't go back home.
Now, he no longer had to worry about being afraid to hear the siren, and he no longer had to dream about who he was in the middle of the night.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > three, depression at the peak of the red dust to see through the circle of red dust, first destroyed and then reborn</h1>
With Shen Junlin's arrest, Xie Yuxin was also pushed to the cusp of the storm, and was scolded as a "fugitive lover" who had been wrapped up for many years and became the target of public criticism.
On April 20, 2006, reports on "Fugitives Earn 20 Billion Yuan to Win Popular Cohabitants" were overwhelming, and a reporter interviewed Xie Yuxin.
In the face of questions from the outside world and reporters' inquiries, Xie Yuxin generously admitted:
"I did have a relationship with Shen Junlin, and when I interacted, I didn't know his true identity, it was a normal relationship, there was no Y-Y relationship, and that was already a thing of the past, and there was nothing to explain."
Although Xie Yuxin was the cheated party and calmly faced everything, netizens still refused to let her go.
After suffering from a long period of Internet storms, Xie Yuxin suffered from severe depression and almost couldn't think of taking a life.
Fortunately, I finally figured it out and survived.
For a while, Xie Yuxin shaved her head, and the outside world speculated that she should see through the red dust and want to leave home?
In fact, for Xie Yuxin, shaving his head was partly because the box office earnings of the movies he shot at that time were not good, and his mood was a little boring, and part of it was because of Shen Junlin' reasons.
Perhaps, shaving off three thousand troublesome silks can also be regarded as a new one, letting go of everything that was once bad.
From 2004 to 2006, although Xie Yuxin's reputation was affected by Shen Junlin's involvement, she still had many opportunities to shoot and sing.
After all, she only released the divine comedy "Husband Husband I Love You" in 2005, which won the top ten annual gold songs of the "Wireless Music Chart" in 2005 and 2006, and the market prospects are not bad.
But just when everyone thought that Xie Yuxin could regroup and start again, she made a surprising choice - to withdraw from the circle at the peak.
This time, Xie Yuxin is no longer attached to foreign objects, nor is she attached to herself, but only wants to live her life in peace and tranquility, leave the entertainment circle of fish and dragons, and stay away from those right and wrong.
After the silence, Xie Yuxin rarely appeared in the public eye again, reducing her performance opportunities by 80%, and only occasionally made cameo appearances in film and television dramas and created some songs.
In 2014, it was revealed that "Xie Yuxin and Yuan Heping formed a family, and the two people with a difference of 31 years old were husband and wife."
Because it was false news, the two sides have not responded, and they thought that the rumors stopped at the wise, but they did not think that the more they spread, the more outrageous they became.
After two years of transmission, director Yuan Heping couldn't help but issue a statement clarifying, saying that "about Xie Yuxin and Yuan Heping's family in 2014, the difference between the two people who are 31 years old is husband and wife", which is purely a rumor.
Due to the bad influence, it has caused harm to director Yuan Heping and his wife, so it will reserve the right to pursue all relevant legal rights.
It is understood that after Xie Yuxin retired, he was indeed married.
Yuan Heping gave the nickname "Eight Masters" to people in the circle, and Xie Yuxin's husband outside the circle is also called "Eight Masters", but this Eight Masters are not the Eight Masters, perhaps because of the same title, they will be confused by everyone.
Although I don't know who Xie Yuxin's husband outside the circle "Eight Masters" is, but looking at the photos of her daughter before, her face is full of happiness and joy, and I think the family should be very happy.
Throughout the first half of Xie Yuxin's life, it was like riding a roller coaster, thrilling, ups and downs, and finally took a sharp turn and regained his life.
Shen Junlin is a noble person who praises Xie Yuxin, and it is also a disaster in her life, and in the darkness, it seems that there is a definite number.
Fortunately, she did not abandon herself and collapse because she met someone unladylike.
Letting go properly is sometimes a good thing.
In the midst of ups and downs, there must always be a sacrifice to get.
Destroying first and then being reborn is another kind of new life for Xie Yuxin.