Speaking of the person I was thinking about, I don't know who the first person in everyone's mind was. Dad, Mom, Wife, Kids........
People may be at different stages, and that person will become different. But what I'm sure is that this person must be the person closest to me.
When I was a child, the people closest to me were not my father, but my mother. Probably because I was a boy, I grew up with very little dialogue with my father. This may be the bad words between men; when I was a child, my father rarely came home, he went out to work, only when he was busy at home and came back at the New Year, usually he was out all year round, or it may be because he did not see each other. So when I was a child, whenever there was something wrong, I would call my mother for the first time, or cry to find my mother.
When I started to live in school, I said that I was homesick, but in fact I missed my mother, I wanted my mother to cook the meals, I wanted my mother to buy new clothes and shoes, and I wanted my mother to take my relatives with me. At that time, the person who had to say that I was worried about it was my mother.
A little older, I understood that dad is the source of income for the family, he is outside the lord, and the mother is inside the lord; so I also understand the hardships of my father, and I will miss my father from time to time; whenever I watch the weather forecast on TV, I will pay special attention to the weather in the city where my father is located. At this time, my father and mother were the people I cared about.
Waiting for college, leaving home, starting to have a girl I liked, trying my best to chat with her every day, thinking about how to get close to her, how to see her every day. Sometimes when you don't contact each other for a day, your heart is empty. This may be the time of first love. At this time, the person who is worried about it is the first love.
People will always grow up, grow up, and get married and start a family. I also started the outside working life, and I saw my parents even less, so I always thought about my parents, often opened a video, made a phone call, said a few words, and felt comfortable in my heart.
The person I miss the most after marriage is definitely his wife. I don't know how everyone's married life is, but I am very satisfied with my married life. After getting married, the two of us didn't quarrel, and we thought of each other's parents as much as ourselves. My wife and my mother have not given the problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and I am very pleased. Due to the frequent short business trips required for work, I would occasionally stay outside for one night, but no matter how late I was outside, as long as I finished things on the day, I would rush home. One is that I don't want her to worry, but I worry about her. It's not that my daughter-in-law doesn't reassure me like a child, but she takes good care of me when we're together, and I'm very touched. Anyway, when I can see her every day, my heart is solid.
At this time, the person I was thinking about was my wife, and both of us would be thinking about the second elder on both sides.
Now we don't have children, and the person who is most worried about the child should be the child.
Although we are at different stages and that person is different, I personally feel that the person we often think about in our hearts will become the people we often think about in our hearts. Who are those people? Parents, wives, children........
Here, I wish you all the people who are worried about your hearts forever healthy and happy!!!
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