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Dong Lu
Dong Lu, a famous TV presenter, is one of the most influential celebrities in the sports world. Dong Lu is versatile, an online writer and drama actor. Dong Lu's wife, Hu Yan, is a young actress who is born as a beauty pageant champion and is a well-known young actor in the mainland. Dong Lu is 15 years older than Hu Yan, and they are married and soon have children. Because of her youth, Hu Yan was once unable to enter the role of wife and mother, and it was Dong Lu who used love and wisdom to guide Hu Yan to grow and mature...
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="49" > want to say that it is not easy to love you, and the 15-year-old gap makes love stranded</h1>
On the evening of September 14, 2005, Dong Lu, director Lu Chuan and other friends went to the KTV song hall near Chongwenmen to sing songs. Everyone sang, danced, drank beer, and frantically exuded the passion of youth. Because he had just finished recording a program "My University" on China Education Television, Dong Lu was a little tired and sat on the sofa in the corner and smoked.
In the smoke, Dong Lu saw a model-like girl sitting on the other end of the sofa, she wore a simple ponytail, her eyes were as bright as stars, and a goose-yellow T-shirt with blue jeans made her look like a perfume lily, light and fresh.
Having seen too many women with heavy makeup, the girl in front of her was quiet, pure and beautiful, like a soft goose feather, gently stroking Dong Lu's heart. At this time, Dong Lu was 35 years old, and although he had two love affairs that ended without illness, no girl had ever made him so moved.
Dong Lu and Hu Yan
Dong Lu quietly sent a text message to a friend, and found out that the girl's name was Hu Yan, a native of Xiangtan, Hunan Province, who had just turned 20 and was a student in the acting department of the Beijing Film Academy. Seeing that Hu Yan was sunny and healthy, feminine and with a bit of heroism, Dong Lu took the initiative to talk to Hu Yan: "If I am not mistaken, you must have practiced sports." Hu Yan smiled brightly, revealing a row of white teeth: "I have indeed practiced track and field." Dong Lu is a sports celebrity, the topic is related to sports, and the two have a good chat.
After the party back home, it is 12 o'clock at night, Dong Lu can't wait to search the Internet for Hu Yan's information, this girl is very young, at the age of 19, she won the hunan Xiangtan Miss Finals champion, and won the best hair, best form award; also played an important role in the movie "Thousand Chance Change" and "Crystal". Knowing this, Dong Lu had a little more appreciation for Hu Yan's good feelings. A strange feeling suddenly surged in his heart, and Dong Lu knew that this was love.
The next morning, Dong Lu sent a text message to Hu Yan: I want to invite you to dinner at noon, can I? For Dong Lu, Hu Yan has a certain understanding, this man is talented, not only an influential celebrity in the Chinese sports industry, but also an online writer, a pioneer drama actor, blog hits of more than 10 million, and this man is handsome and masculine, the language is witty and humorous, and there is a bit of cuteness. Thinking like this, Hu Yan agreed to meet dong lu at noon.
At 11:30 a.m., Dong Lu drove 40 minutes ahead of schedule to the downstairs of the Beijing Film Academy dormitory, where Hu Yan was located. Because his mind was full of Hu Yan's shadow, when parking, the front wheel fell into the open manhole, and Dong Lu trembled in his heart: Does this mean that he will fall into a trap? With the help of three young men selling fruit on the side of the road, Dong Lucai poured out the car.
Half an hour later, Hu Yan came downstairs. Looking at her again during the day, Hu Yan looked more radiant than last night, her white and tender face could be broken, and a pair of watery eyes were full of brilliance. At that moment, in Dong Lu's heart, Hu Yan was a beautiful poison, becoming his irresistible and fatal temptation.
Dong Lu took Hu Yan to a Hunan restaurant and ordered several classic Hunan dishes such as minced pepper fish head and white pepper chicken gizzard. Hu Yan ate heartily, and Dong Lu, because he was a northerner, could not eat spicy, so he had to put a cup of water in front of him and eat the Hunan vegetables in the water for a while, even so, Dong Lu was also spicy and sweaty. All this made Hu Yan's heart rise a burst of warmth, which was a delicate and understanding man.
The two of them were eating and chatting, and Dong Lu told Hu Yan about his car being trapped in the manhole just now, and then stared into Hu Yan's eyes and said implicitly: "My car is trapped, and I am about to be trapped by you." When he understood the meaning of Dong Lu's words, Hu Yan's face blushed and he quickly diverted the topic.
A week later, Hu Yan went to Qingdao to shoot the film "Autumn Dance", and Dong Lu's heart suddenly fell like an autumn wilderness. He understood that No one could replace Hu Yan's place in his heart. In order to pour out the pain of lovesickness, Dong Lu and Hu Yan cooked telephone porridge all day long, and in just over ten days, they spent more than 3,000 yuan on telephone bills. But what makes Dong Lu sad is that whenever he introduces the topic to love, Hu Yan is concerned about it.
On October 14, Dong Lu could no longer endure the torment of longing, did not greet Hu Yan in advance, and took the afternoon flight to Qingdao. Hu Yan stayed with the crew on the third floor of the Ocean Hotel in Qingdao, and Dong Lu opened a room on the second floor. At 7 p.m., Dong Lu dialed Hu Yan's phone: "I can see you now, do you believe it?" Hu Yan thought he was joking: "How is this possible?" "I'm in Room 207 on the second floor right now."
A few minutes later, when Hu Yan appeared in front of Dong Lu, Dong Lu opened his arms and wanted to have a warm hug with Hu Yan like a lover. However, to his disappointment, Hu Yan behaved very calmly, without the slightest surprise and excitement he imagined, and slipped away from him like a mermaid. In the face of Hu Yan, who was as calm as water, Dong Lu had typed the sweet words of the abdominal draft countless times in advance, and he could not say it for a while. Dong Lu wanted to express his love to Hu Yan, but when he saw her indifferent, he swallowed back the words that poured into his mouth. The two were very worried, and after chatting for 10 minutes, Hu Yan returned to the upper floor.
Because he had to rush back to Beijing to record the program, the next morning, Dong Lu packed his bags and left Qingdao. Before leaving, he called Hu Yan and hoped that she would send him. Ke Donglu waited in the hotel lobby for more than 10 minutes, and he did not see Hu Yan's figure. He walked out of the hotel in a daze and prepared to rush to the airport. On the corner of the hotel, he saw Hu Yan standing under the eaves, looking at him lonely. The sky was drenched with light rain, and the cold wind was caught in the drizzle, which blew Hu Yan's hair. She didn't say anything, just waved at Dong Lu, then turned and ran into the hotel. Dong Lu's heart was as cold and cold as this late autumn rain...
Dong Lu knew that Hu Yan was deliberately avoiding himself, and perhaps they were not suitable in the first place. Hu Yan's escape made Dong Lu wake up from the frenzy, he was 15 years older than Hu Yan, and there were too many impossibilities between them. Understanding this, Dong Lu decided to withdraw from Hu Yan's emotional quagmire and completely forget her.
Dong Lu forced himself not to mention anything related to Hu Yan again, because he was worried about evoking a sad past, and he temporarily stayed away from his mutual friend with Hu Yan. Once, he inadvertently pulled out a photo of Hu Yan from his mobile phone, and in an instant, he burst into tears. He wanted to delete the picture, to delete this unforgettable memory, but he found himself unable to do so. It made his heart wet...
Dong Lu's heart was in deep and fiery heat, and Hu Yan was not struggling in the mud of emotion? Through this period of contact, she is full of love for this talented, kind and frank man. It's just that he is 15 years older than himself, and he may have had complicated emotional experiences; and he is only 4 years younger than his father, even if he can accept him, his parents will not be able to pass! Want to love but dare not love, Hu Yan, a simple and kind beautiful girl, has unspeakable hearts and troubles...
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="67" > simple promise to eliminate concerns and flash love and flash marriage</h1>
Dong Lu and Hu Yan do a program on the TV station
Dong Lu is a strong and resolute man, no matter how big the difficulties encountered in his work, he can bravely overcome them; and now, the love boat has not yet sailed away, it has been stranded, which not only did not make Dong Lu retreat, but also aroused his fighting spirit. As a man, you must dare to love and dare to hate, and you must be brave on the road of love.
Crossing this hurdle in his heart, the courage of love surged in Dong Lu's heart. On October 20, Dong Lu came to the Beijing Film Academy again and solemnly confessed his admiration to Hu Yan: "Once, I did not believe in love at first sight; but from the first moment I saw you, I knew that my fate would be closely linked to you!" Hu Yan stared into Dong Lu's eyes and said word by word: "You are still single at the age of 35, you must have been divorced!" "I know your concerns, you misunderstood me." This time Dong Lu came prepared, he took out his ID card, household registration book and real estate certificate from his bag, asked Hu Yan to review it together, and said seriously: "I have talked about love twice, and indeed I have not been married." There has never been a girl who has made me feel the urge to get married like you. ”
In Hu Yan's view, this relationship seems to be far away, and it is suddenly approaching, and she cannot accept it for a while. Looking at the urgency in Dong Lu's eyes, Hu Yan said in the expected Ai Ai: "Please give me time, I want to think about this problem carefully." ”
Although Hu Yan did not promise herself, her words contained hope, and every cell in Dong Lu's body was in a state of excitement, and he stepped up the pace of pursuing Hu Yan. At the beginning of November, the late autumn chill in Beijing was getting thicker, and Dong Lu wanted to take Hu Yan to buy clothes for the new season. Hu Yan was preparing for the thesis defense and had no time to go out. Dong Lu had a clever move, drove to the Lufthansa Mall, like a commercial spy, used his mobile phone to photograph several beautiful trench coats, and then transmitted them to Hu Yan's mobile phone in the form of MMS. The reserved Hu Yan was moved by Dong Lu's obsession and picked a beige trench coat. After Dong Lu bought it and gave it to her, Hu Yanyi wore it very well, and the touch and joy intertwined in her heart...
At this time, Hu Yan had just turned 21 years old, and she had not been deeply involved in the world, and she had heard some sisters say that girls in the acting department often fell into the gentle traps carefully designed by some old men in society. Worried that she would be deceived, she was determined to test Dong Lu. Two days later, when Dong Lu came to her again, Hu Yan deliberately pretended to be sad and said to him: "My parents want to buy a house in Changsha, and there is not enough money around them, can you lend me 200,000 yuan?" Before the relationship was confirmed, he borrowed a huge amount of money from the other party, and Hu Yan thought that his actions would scare Dong Lu away. Who knew that Dong Lu not only did not resent, but said seriously: "I don't have so much money around me, you give me some time, I will mortgage the house." After saying that, Dong Lu hurriedly dialed the bank's credit number.
It turns out that this man is really obsessed with himself! His sincerity and persistence infected Hu Yan, and since he also loved him, what else would he hesitate? Hu Yan laughed and said that he had a "conspiracy and trickery" to test him. Dong Lu grabbed Hu Yan's hand and held her tightly in his arms: "You little elf actually learned to deceive people, see how I can fix you!" "Happy laughter wafts through the air...
After all, love is a lifelong event, and Hu Yan told her parents about her love affair with Dong Lu. The Hu family's parents are both employees of the Xiangtan Iron and Steel Factory, and although they are engaged in ordinary work, the couple is very enlightened. Hu Yan's father had watched the program hosted by Dong Lu and thought that the young man was talented and responsive, and had a good impression of him. The couple logged on to Dong Lu's blog on the Internet, and the evaluation of him by tens of millions of netizens made him more and more favorable to this upright, kind, and bold young man.
Mother Hu seriously asked her daughter, "Child, do you really love Dong Lu?" Hu Yan nodded. That being the case, age is not an issue, he is so much older than you and knows how to take care of you better, and I and your dad support you. Once, Hu Yan was also worried about the age gap between herself and Dong Lu, and her parents would not accept it, but now that she has the blessing of her parents, she also loves more persistently.
In 2006, Dong Lu was 36 years old, lonely for so many years, and he was particularly eager to have a warm home. Before, I didn't find a suitable marriage partner, and now that I have a close girlfriend, what do I hesitate about? On New Year's Day, Dong Lu invited Hu Yan to his home and personally made dumplings for her. He stirred the water and flour together and said meaningfully to her, "I am this flour, you are the water, and the water and the flour can no longer be separated after they are mixed together." There is water in the flour, there is flour in the water, that is, you have me, I have you. Let's get married! ”
Hu Yan hesitated: "I am only 21 years old, did I get married so early?" Dong Lu couldn't care less about the flour in his hand, pulled Hu Yan to the sofa and sat down, and seriously said to her: "Xiao Yan, I know how capable I am, I can't make a big money in this life, I can't buy you a villa and a Mercedes-Benz." But rest assured, I have the ability to give you a warm home, your parents, my parents, and our children, and there will be no problem in life later. The simple promise defeated Hu Yan's hesitation and hesitation, and she agreed to Dong Lu's marriage proposal. On January 16, Dong Lu and Hu Yan went through the marriage registration procedures at the Chaoyang District Civil Affairs Bureau.
Because Dong Lu was very busy at work, it was not until April 8, 2006, that he and Hu Yan held a wedding ceremony at the Yuyang Hotel in Chaoyang District. Dong Lu's friends Liu Jianhong, Duan Xuan, Lu Chuan and others came to congratulate them, and everyone expressed their blessings for their brave flash love and flash marriage. As soon as the wedding in Beijing ended, the couple rushed back to Xiangtan to set up a banquet at Hu Yan's mother's house and feast on relatives and friends. Hu Yan's parents took Dong Lu's hand: "Xiao Yan will be handed over to you, and we hope that you will live happily." Dong Lu solemnly promised his parents-in-law: "You can rest assured, I will not let Xiao Yan suffer any grievances." ”
At this time, Hu Yan was already pregnant for more than 2 months, and the arrival of the child made Hu Yan both surprised and nervous: the child was the crystallization of her and Dong Lu's love, an angel given to them by heaven, but thinking of her young age and being a mother so early, she did not know whether to leave this child behind.
Dong Lu could understand Hu Yan's complicated feelings, and emotionally said to her: "I am 36 years old, I have long been eager to be a father, many people of the same age as me, children are running all over the place, you will fulfill my wish!" Since you love your husband, you must respect his choice and fulfill his simple desire to be a father; besides, every throbbing of the child in the stomach arouses Hu Yan's infinite maternal tenderness. What reason is there not to keep this child?
Hu Yan's choice made Dong Lu ecstatic: "In the future, you will be our family's panda, and I will focus on protecting you." Dong Lu did what he said, in the past, he often stayed up late to write blogs, drink and party with friends until late at night; now he stays at home with Hu Yan in addition to work, in order to let Hu Yan rest well, he no longer stays up late at night, and his work and rest time are synchronized with Hu Yan.
Hu Yan's appetite in pregnancy is not good, Dong Lu tries to increase nutrition for her, and sometimes Hu Yan vomits badly and does not want to eat a bite. Dong Lu enlightened her: "For the health of our baby, you need to eat more." He made improved Hunan dishes for Hu Yan, boiled chicken soup, squeezed apples and pears into juice, and coaxed her to drink them. Like a daughter, Hu Yan sweetly enjoyed the care of Dong Lu, the "father".
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="83" > guides the wife into the role, we are happy "three generations of the family"</h1>
October 6, 2006 is the traditional Mid-Autumn Festival, on this day, Hu Yan successfully gave birth to a healthy and lovely baby girl at Beijing Maternity Hospital. When her first loud cry broke through the stagnant air, looking at the child's rosy little face, Dong Lu shed tears of happiness and excitement. He knew that henceforth his fate would turn a new page, and more responsibilities and obligations would fall on his shoulders. Dong Lu gently kissed his daughter's small face: "My little princess, thank you for making me a father." Because their daughter was born on the Mid-Autumn Festival when the Wanjia family reunited, Dong Lu and Hu Yan named their daughter Yuanyuan.
Four days later, Dong Lu took his wife and daughter home. During his wife's confinement, Dong Lu pushed away all the work at hand and stayed at home single-mindedly to take care of his wife and daughter. Considering that his wife is a professional actor, in order to keep her in shape, Dong Lu suggested that the child drink milk. Hu Yan firmly disagreed, she knew that the nutrition of milk was definitely not as good as breast milk, and breastfeeding children were healthier, and she insisted on breastfeeding herself. Dong Lu's bravery and dedication touched Dong Lu, and he sincerely lamented the greatness of maternal love.
Because Hu Yan's parents have to go to work, Dong Lu's parents are also very busy and can't come over to take care of Yuanyuan. In this way, the burden of taking care of the children all fell on Dong Lu and Hu Yan. This is undoubtedly a hard and honest project. Yuanyuan slept soundly after eating milk during the day, and at night he opened a pair of big black eyes and looked east and west, and did not sleep all night. Dong Lu and Hu Yan had to take turns taking care of Yuanyuan, and could only sleep for three or four hours a night. Because of lack of sleep, the couple's eyes were surrounded by black and blue halos, and their faces were full of exhaustion.
One day in February 2007, when Hu Yan was breastfeeding her child, she fell asleep on the couch in exhaustion, and the milk wet the clothes on her chest. The child cried loudly, and she did not respond until her daughter grabbed her face with her small hand, and Hu Yan woke up. This scene, Dong Lu, who came home from the supermarket to buy vegetables, was in full view, and a trace of pain wandered in his heart, and his wife was not easy! Since then, Dong Lu has insisted on taking his daughter to sleep in the study every night so that his wife can sleep peacefully.
When Yuansheng was half a year old, several classmates of Hu Yan's Beijing Film Academy came to see her daughter at home. See their faces are rosy, slim, carrying backpacks, a youthful look; look at themselves, since giving birth to a child, the waist is also thick, the face has pregnancy spots, the clothes are stained with milk, there is no half of the star style. Hu Yan suddenly felt painfully that he and them were simply people of two worlds. Thinking that she was not yet 23 years old, she surrounded the family and her daughter all day, and there was a little girl who called her mother, hu Yan suddenly felt like a dream.
In the evening, several classmates said goodbye to Hu Yan after eating, some said they wanted to meet the director, some said they wanted to rush back to the crew, and some said they were going to go clubbing, and warmly invited Hu Yan to go with them. At that time, Hu Yan was busy in the kitchen wearing an apron, she wiped her wet hand on the apron, and pointed to her daughter in the cradle: "How do you see me like this?" Suddenly, an indescribable sadness reached Hu Yan's heart. When I have children, not only can I not go to filming, but even my personal living space is occupied. The grievances, frustrations and depressions that had accumulated for a long time poured into Hu Yan's heart, and she leaned on the bed and cried loudly...
Dong Lu carried his daughter into the room and asked Hu Yan with concern: "What's wrong with you?" Hu Yan cried bitterly: "I blame you, let me get married and be a mother so early, do you see what day I am living now?" Dong Lu persuaded for a while, and Hu Yan calmed down.
Dong Lu family portrait
Because of the imbalance of mentality, Hu Yan did not have a good face all day, talking to Dong Luyi was like eating gun medicine, the tone was very impulsive, sometimes her daughter cried in her arms, and she also vented her anger on Dong Lu. At first, Dong Lu was still able to tolerate it, and gradually, his good mood was increasingly lost, and he quarreled with Hu Yan.
One day in November, Yuanyuan pulled the pee onto her pants, and the clothes and pants she had just changed into were wet again, Hu Yan angrily patted her ass, and the child cried. The daughter is Dong Lu's heart and liver baby, every cry tears his heart, he did not angrily yell at Hu Yan: "The child is so small, what do you do when you hit the child?" "If she doesn't obey, I'm going to fight!" The couple quarreled with you and I.
The quarrel made this once warm little family dull, Dong Lu did not understand, once he and Hu Yan were so affectionate, how to get married less than two years ago, they were full of contradictions? One day in March 2008, Dong Lu asked Hu Yan to accompany him to a class reunion. Like a little girl, Hu Yan gambled and said, "If I don't go, I just won't go!" After saying that, he hid in the room with the child in his arms and closed the door to death.
This scene made Dong Lu suddenly wake up, he patted his head: Oh, Hu Yan is still a child, so much younger than himself, there is no psychological preparation for being a wife and a mother, it is normal to have fluctuations in his heart, how can he not tolerate her and give her a buffer period?
The knots in his heart were unraveled, and Dong Lu seriously reviewed his own mistakes to Hu Yan: "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have bothered with you, I shouldn't have argued with you." In fact, it is not easy for you to take care of children. A heartfelt remark made Hu Yan burst into tears, and she slapped Dong Lu's back with her pink fist: "You are older than me, you should let me and spoil me!" ”
Since then, Dong Lu has used the wisdom of writers and hosts to guide Hu Yan into the role of wife and mother, and tolerated her immaturity with a broad heart like an ocean. Whenever Hu Yan complained irritably, he would pour a cup of warm boiled water into her hand and say mischievously: "Madam, first drink the saliva to extinguish the fire." His humor made Hu Yan no longer have a good seizure. At this time, Dong Lu patiently enlightened her, and now you play the dual role of wife and mother, and your joys and sorrows are the barometer of our family. Whether our family can be happy or not depends on you! ”
Dong Lu was much more mature than Hu Yan, and he often instructed her on how to treat people and things and how to get along with people. Catching up with Dong Lu on a business trip, he put beef, dumplings, and wontons in the refrigerator, and then wrote them on a piece of paper to explain how to make them.
Under the guidance of Dong Lu and the innate maturity of the role of mother, Hu Yan no longer complained and gradually entered the role of wife and mother with a peaceful attitude. As the children grow up day by day, Hu Yan's mentality becomes more and more mature. She began to advise Dong Lu with the tenderness of a virtuous wife: smoke less, try not to drink, and don't stay up late at night; Dong Lu will pack his bags for him when he travels on business; when the child catches a cold and encounters Dong Lu recording a program, she will not call to interfere with him, but take the child to the hospital alone.
The transformation of his wife made Dong Lu overjoyed, he often held his wife in one hand, held his daughter in the other, and said happily: "Xiao Yan, you are my daughter, Yuanyuan is your daughter, we are happy 'three generations of a family'." Watching you grow up together, I feel like I'm the happiest man under the heavens! ”
The harmony of the family has nourished Dong Lu's career, and the "My University" he hosted has become a famous brand column, and the ratings have risen steadily. On April 22, 2009, in a play based on Wang Xiaobo's famous book "The Golden Age" at the People's Liberation Army Art Theater in Beijing, Dong Lu played the male protagonist Luo Xiaosi, who vividly expressed the rigidity, hardness and stubbornness of this character. The show was a great success. Under Hu Yan's arrangement, Yuanyuan, who is more than 2 years old, holding flowers in his hand, walked onto the stage generously and offered fiery red roses to his father on his toes. Dong Lu looked at his wife, and the couple had infinite sweetness flowing in their hearts.
On the morning of July 22, Dong Lu held Hu Yan's hand in Beijing to watch a once-in-five-hundred-year eclipse. Watching the sun turn into a beautiful arc of light, Dong Lu whispered in Hu Yan's ear: "Do you regret being a wife and mother so early, and you can't be an actor for the time being?" "I've never regretted it because I met the right person at the right time!" Their hands clasped together!
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