As a housekeeper aunt, what you have to do is not only to ensure the safety of personnel and buildings, but also to serve the daily life of students. In fact, we must also pay attention to the mental health and status of students at any time, and when students are abnormal, they must also play a role in accompanying and enlightening.
Recently, Xiaoxiang Morning News reporter learned from Hunan Business Vocational and Technical College (hereinafter referred to as "Commercial Vocational College") that at the moment when the campus mental health problems are of great concern, every faculty member of the Commercial Vocational College has participated in the team of psychological education, and formed its own "brand", and the radiation range has also extended to the outside of the school.
Dormitory manager: Pay close attention to the psychological status of students, and some people have also taken the counseling certificate
"Students leave their homes, it is inevitable that they will encounter physical or psychological difficulties, I must help them at the first time, only by growing up quickly and observing the student dynamics in the daily details can I better help the students." Zhou Haibo, a resident manager at the Commercial Vocational College, said he has been exploring how to establish good relationships with students and further understand their situation.
What impressed her most was that one night in October 2020, Xiao Wang, a student in the building, suddenly came to the duty room and said that she had a stomachache.
Zhou Haibo did not say a word, put on his clothes and immediately sent Xiao Wang to the infirmary, after Xiao Wang's physical condition was stable, Zhou Haibo did not leave immediately, but immediately contacted Yang Hongyan, the housekeeper aunt of the same building, asked her to accompany her, and repeatedly told him to "be sure to send Xiao Wang back to the bedroom." The next morning, Zhou Haibo ran to Xiao Wang's bedroom to inquire about the condition and sent him millet porridge that he personally boiled.
She said, "This classmate has not been very good with her roommate, and she suffers from mild depression, she was sick and unused, and I was worried about her safety." ”
Zhou Haibo said that once students are abnormal, they will go to understand and help students in time, and now Zhou Haibo has long positioned himself as the "guardian" of the dormitory.
Luo Lanying, who has been working in the dormitory management post for 12 years, in order to appease the isolated students, will stand at the door of the dormitory every day to accompany the students to chat, and also find inspirational words and joke posts on the Internet to encourage everyone; Wu Jinxiong, the housekeeper aunt of Building 5, has her own "martial arts cheatbook", which records the basic situation of the students, the handling of common problems and the work review record in detail... Chen Hui, deputy director of the Logistics Management Department, introduced that in this team, some people have self-taught to obtain the "psychological counselor (senior)" vocational skills certificate.
Each dormitory management duty room has set up a warm and tidy "talking corner", and every week will organize the housekeeper aunts to conduct training in emotional management, psychological knowledge, crisis response, daily office, etc., and share work experiences by means of scenario drills and case analysis, so that the housekeeper aunts can guide the spiritual growth of students.
"Milan Flower" became the "station" of the healing system
In order to solve the problem of students' mental health education, the Commercial Vocational College upgraded the "Milan Flower" mental health education brand on the basis of the original mental health education center, and built it into a "heart-warming station" for students to heal their hearts.
"I don't know why, there is a classmate in our dormitory who knows that I like to be quiet, but he wants to use the stereo to play music loudly..." At the psychological salon, student Xiao Zhou told his troubles. After he finished speaking, the psychology teacher on the side sent him a number of "tips" to guide him to solve problems and adjust his mentality.
Earlier, through the WeChat public account of the school's "Milan Flower" Mental Health Education Center, Zhou enrolled in the psychological salon with the theme of "Harmony and Difference, Sameness and Discord". Through this form of activity, professional emotional stress reduction and psychological counseling are provided to many students.
With a bitter heart, Xiao Zhou came to admire it. "Initially, my good friend signed up for the psychology salon and felt very rewarding, so I also wanted to come and experience it." There are only 15 places in a salon, but the number of applicants is often hundreds, "I was really lucky to be selected." ”
Gao Ming, director of the "Milan Flower" Mental Health Education Center, introduced that most of the students' psychological problems are caused by less life experience, narrow cognition, and lack of communication, giving them a safe base to speak freely, exchange ideas, and change perspectives to think about problems, which is conducive to emotional channeling.
Similarly, the boundaries of psychological education have never been limited to the school gate wall, in addition to serving the students of the school, the college also relies on the professional teaching team of the "Milan Flower" Mental Health Education Center to radiate around the school and serve the majority of primary and secondary school students.
Xiaoxiang Morning Post reporter Luo Yige correspondent Yang Luping