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Author: The Healing Girl
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When we think of Audrey Hepburn, we always think of one word: perfection.
Indeed, amazing beauty, extraordinary talent, temperament, kindness, dazzling, like an angel.
The appearance of Audrey Hepburn has spawned a group of advocates, and many women are eager to become her.
Recently, I looked back on audrey Hepburn's life and found that Audrey Hepburn was not perfect at all.
Behind the exquisite appearance, there is a scarred heart and a devastated love road.
For Audrey Hepburn, she longed for a happy family more than the halo on her head. On the road to happiness, she suffered no less than anyone else.
Hepburn's first husband, Meir, was a third- and fourth-line actor, had three marriages, had several children, and was 15 years older than Hepburn.
Everyone is not optimistic about their love affair, after all, Meir is famous, and Hepburn became popular with "Roman Holiday" at that time.
According to Hepburn's conditions, it is possible to find a man who is the same age as herself and has a better reputation, but she is obsessed with Meir.
After the two married, Hepburn was immersed in the illusion of happiness, and she thought she had found a harbor to stay. As everyone knows, behind Meir's dignity, there is a twisted heart.
He had a strong desire to control Hepburn, from food, clothing, shelter and transportation to work. Hepburn could not bear such control, but the fight was useless, and Meir paid no attention to Hepburn's feelings.
In those days, Hepburn was so thin that he was out of phase. What made her even more unbearable was that Meir cut her script and spoke in place of Hepburn at the event. For a time, Hepburn was not Meir's wife, but his puppet.
Not only that, Hepburn's career is in the ascendant, making Meir's heart unbalanced, and he tries to belittle Hepburn to fill the inner gap.
Hepburn cherished the marriage too much, and in order to make Meir feel comfortable, she gave up her career to return to the family, eager to have children.
It is true that Hepburn loves children, but she has conceived 4 children for Meir and 3 have miscarried. When she was pregnant with her fourth child, she was already an elderly mother, and the process was difficult and painful.
However, Meir did not feel sorry for Hepburn at all, and at this time there was an extramarital affair.
After Hepburn gave birth to a child, she finally woke up, and she understood that there was no possibility of happiness in this marriage.
Divorce, go away.
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Hepburn met Dotty with scars on her face and began her second marriage. Dotty was a psychiatrist who brought a lot of enlightenment and comfort to Hepburn after the divorce.
Doti is 9 years younger than Hepburn, is a fan of Hepburn, and when he was very young, he vowed to marry Hepburn, and finally his dream came true, which is a dream story.
Dotty understood women's hearts very well, and it took only 15 days for Hepburn to agree to his marriage proposal.
It was romantic, and Dotty was a perfect lover who made Hepburn lose his mind.
Soon after the marriage, Dotty gradually revealed her true face.
He circled around different women, peach-colored news flew all over the place, and Hepburn was pushed to the forefront again and again.
Over time, Hepburn could no longer stand Dotty's mercy. She proposed a divorce, but Dotty refused and tried to get it back, and Hepburn was soft-hearted and promised to give him another chance.
He thought Dotty would repent, but soon after, he returned to his old life. Even more egregiously, Dotty actually took her mistress home. Hepburn was heartbroken and ended the painful marriage.
Hepburn is the goddess in everyone's mind, but her desire for family is the same as that of ordinary women, wanting a thoughtful husband and a few lovely children.
If she could, she was willing to give up her career and focus on her family, but even such a simple wish could not be realized.
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Hepburn's love road is bumpy and painful, and countless people ask, why? This starts with Hepburn's original family. Hepburn is a descendant of the nobility and has Shikoku ancestry.
Enviable origin, but not stable for a few years.
At the age of 6, his father was gone and the family was broken. That's why Hepburn fell in love with Meir, who was 15 years older than himself. Lack of paternal love, want to make up for it from the lover, but it is a nightmare after all.
When Hepburn was 10 years old, he was framed, resulting in the murder of her uncle and the fate of her two brothers.
At the age of 19, the ballet dancer's dream was shattered. Hepburn's youth was turbulent and displaced, and she lost it again and again, leaving her extremely insecure and confident inside.
It all unfolded in her marriage.
In both marriages, they have met scumbags, and the other party's fame and fortune are not as good as their own. Obviously, Hepburn lacked self-confidence in his heart, did not dare to look upwards, and seemed to be easier to control than his own.
When things go wrong in marriage, she will always be the one who bows her head and saves her head. Meir and Dotty make mistakes again and again, and Both Hepburn tries to forgive because she is too afraid of the taste of loss.
After divorcing Meir, she once reflected on herself, believing that she had spent too much time and energy on work, which led to the breakdown of the marriage. You see, even if the other person is wrong, she still blames all the fault on herself.
With Dotty, in order to make him stop getting involved, Hepburn even gave up his career for a while. However, Hepburn's low posture and low humility were only exchanged for harm.
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Everyone says that Hepburn is perfect, but in fact, perfection is just an illusion given to her by the public. There is no such thing as absolute perfection in this world, and behind all perfection are scars that you can't see.
Hepburn left many classics and stories to the world, but her life was bumpy. Two marriages, several times cheated on, where did she lose?
Perhaps from the moment she was born, she lost, the harm caused by those original families, then the shackles brought by the times, have left countless scars on her soul.
Even if she relied on her own strength to create her own position in the show business circle, she could not make up for her inner trauma.
There's really no need to envy Hepburn, the real Hepburn isn't always exquisite and elegant, and she's had moments of embarrassment.
To put it another way, Hepburn doesn't need to be perfect at all, every woman doesn't need to be perfect, and truth is more precious than perfection.
Don't say that Hepburn's perfect human setting collapsed, let alone ask the country but suffered the pain of marriage, what did she do wrong?
Maybe Hepburn did nothing wrong, just love and be loved is a lesson for each of us to learn.
The scary thing is not falling in love, the terrible thing is that you can't get up again.
In his later years, Hepburn found true love and insisted on doing charity, and finally completed his life.
Although Hepburn was not perfect, he lived the most real and wonderful life.
May you and I still feel worthy of the world after a thousand sails.
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