On May 16, a woman named Wang Yuxin decided to die.
Because every day of the past two years, her every move has been accompanied by insults.
Casually share a life photo on Weibo, and there will be netizens leaving a message:
Is Ms. Wang going to change careers to become an actress? No matter how many beautiful photos you take, he will not be attracted to you.
Even if you delete Weibo and re-post it, it will be misinterpreted by yin and yang weirdness as "rubbing heat";
In the face of such a desperate insult, she was tired, and she didn't even have the strength to scold back.
The four-word reply to "go away and walk away" reveals how helpless and powerless she is.
Even when weibo with a suicide signal was sent at the last moment of life, it was also attacked and ridiculed by netizens;
"Three years, she hasn't died yet", followed by several laughing expressions.
Such a long period of verbal abuse caused her to suffer from insomnia and depression; so sleeping pills and antidepressants had long been a necessity for her life.
In the early morning of the 16th, she swallowed a whole bottle of nearly 400 sleeping pills and fell into a deep coma.
A moment before she decided to commit suicide, she tweeted: "Goodbye big boy who was once deeply in love with me." ”
And this big boy who made her unable to put down at the last moment of her life was her ex-husband, named Huang Jingyu.
Huang Jingyu, actor.
In 2016, he debuted through the web drama "Addiction", and then starred in "Red Sea Action", starring in the role of Lin Zhendong in "Flying Life" directed by Han Han;
The most well-known role in the past two years is li fei, a police officer of the anti-drug brigade, in the anti-drug TV series "Operation Icebreaker".
Wang Yuxin and Huang Jingyu have been in love since 2014, and in 2016, the two ripped off their marriage certificates.
However, due to Huang Jingyu's actor identity, the marriage between the two was hidden, and Huang Jingyu has been shaping a single person to the outside world.
But the marriage facts can not be changed, the two have a common home in "Pan Hai Rong County", even if they become a hidden wife, but because of love, Wang Yuxin is still full of hope for the future between the two.
The dash of hope begins with a photograph.
In 2017, some netizens broke the news that married actor Huang Jingyu cheated on the same crew actor Zhang Yishang when filming the TV series "Getting In Love, Chitose Adult".
Then, Wang Yuxin's trumpet liked a Weibo post on Zhang Yi and publicly said:
"When I wasn't home, I came to my house to play, and even sent a selfie, wanting to provoke?" Miss Zhang! ”
Personally confirmed that Zhang Yishang was the third party of his marriage.
It wasn't long before domestic violence came.
In February 2018, Wang Yuxin sent another photo of her arm covered with bruises, with the caption "Wake up."
On the same day, Huang Jingyu was also photographed at the airport as an anomaly, wearing a sunscreen jacket and covering a mask, wrapping herself tightly.
But from the high-definition photos, it can still be seen that Huang Jingyu's face has a lot of scratches.
Subsequently, it was people from all walks of life who came out to confirm:
Huang Jingyu's domestic violence is true,
It is true that the two are married,
It is even more true that Huang Jingyu and Zhang Yishang, who are still married, were caught in bed by their wives Wang Yuxin;
Divorce is still true.
Then it was Huang Jingyu's agency that came down, and huang fans began to insult Wang Yuxin endlessly for three years.
Until the time came to May 16, 2020, this night, Wang Yuxin explained the aftermath to the people around her in turn, and then decided to die.
Fortunately, Wang Yuxin's assistant first found out that something was wrong, sent her to the hospital in time, and after a whole night of gastric lavage, she finally saved her life.
To say how much Wang Yuxin loves Huang Jingyu, how reluctant is the marriage with him?
Except for the last Weibo before taking sleeping pills, she still couldn't let go of Huang Jingyu and called him "You are the big boy I love deeply";
The assistant said that when she was delirious, she was shouting Huang Jingyu's name;
Even Huang Jingyu's staff around him confirmed that during the New Year's Festival, Wang Yuxin personally prepared gifts for everyone and attached a card written by himself.
Love to cheat, she is also willing to forgive him;
Love to get sick from outside, she does not dislike him, but also accompanies him to the hospital;
Love to be abused by the family, but also willing to do not say a word for his career.
Because he loved too deeply, he was willing to be insulted by his fans for three years;
Because the love is too deep, even if the public opinion criticism almost destroys her life, she is willing to endure silently;
However, Wang Yuxin did not realize that the string collapsed too tightly, and sooner or later there would be a broken day;
Too much tolerance for their feelings, and eventually the feelings will drown themselves.
Fortunately, Wang Yuxin was rescued!
Another Taiwanese actress who had a similar experience with Wang Yuxin eventually lost her life in her relationship.
In Taiwan in 1991, Lin Chiling was not yet a goddess, just a small model, the real goddess was called Yu Jiahui, and her stage name was Huan Huan.
She is He Caohua in "The White-Haired Witch", and the actors who played her are Zhang Zhilin and Jiang Qinqin;
It is also Cheng Ying in "Princess Huaiyu", and Sun Yaowei is her partner.
Even members Wu Qilong and Su Youpeng once lamented: Without Sister Huanhuan, there would be no Little Tiger Team, and there would be no us today.
In 1991, just as Hong Huan Huan decided to stop the film in an all-round way, he and director Zhang Xiaozheng entered into marriage.
Unexpectedly, Zhang Xiaozheng began to cheat frequently three months after marriage, and even after having a son and a daughter, he still could not tie his heart.
And the object of her husband Zhang Xiaozheng's cheating is not someone else, it is Jiang Qinqin, who Huan Huan once regarded as a sister, and she once saw Jiang Qinqin sitting on the lap of her husband Zhang Xiaozheng.
The marriage lasted 10 years, during which Zhang Xiaozheng cheated on him 8 times.
At the time of divorce, Huan Huan was 31 years old, which is the most mature age for a woman.
Three years later, she met Jiang Guobin, who was also an actor, and Jiang Guobin also came out of a failed marriage, and a similar experience made them feel sorry for each other.
In 2004, Huan Huan married Jiang Guobin and became Mrs. Jiang.
But within three years, Jiang Guobin was also caught cheating on the bag, and the nightmare of the previous marriage struck again.
Huan Huan tried to forgive her husband, but this tolerance lasted only two years, and the five-year marriage between the two finally came to an abrupt end.
Huan Huan was 37 years old at this time.
Alone with three children.
In 2009, Taiwan's film and television market was no longer the boom of the 1990s.
Joy without drama to shoot can only be reduced to a variety show café, mixed in various variety shows as a guest, recording a show, but 3,000 or 4,000 Taiwan dollars (about 800-1000 yuan).
She once recalled her marriage to Zhang Xiaozheng in "Kangxi Lai", and there was hatred between words, but in my opinion, it was more of a nostalgia:
"I decided to marry him when I was 21 years old, and I had fantasized about giving birth to him at 20, so that when the child was 20, I was only 40."
She waited until she was 40, but not until her child was 20.
In 2014, at the age of 43, she burned charcoal to death at her home in Taipei.
After her death, Zhang Xiaozheng, who had been married to her for ten years, never went to the Lingtang to see her; and her second husband, Jiang Guobin, only said: "People have already left, so I won't say more." ”
The only one who handled her affairs the whole time was Huan Huan's first love, Zhang Kefan.
And just a few days before she committed suicide, she had said, "I just want to go home and sleep a night that will never wake up." ”
After her death, people found a card in her room that read, "This house has always told me to do this," in Huan Huan's handwriting.
There's an entry-level truth to economics: don't put your eggs in the same basket.
The same is true for marriage.
When giving for the family, husband and children, please think a little about yourself as well.
Wang Yuxin and Huan Huan are because they regard love as too lofty;
After marriage, Wang Yuxin's world has no other than Huang Jingyu; huan huan is the same, because she is willing to lose the career she has struggled for many years because she is willing to get married.
When love becomes the only faith in their lives, infidelity and domestic violence become the thorn that pierces the faith, followed by the complete collapse of the entire life.
Girl, why don't you be "selfish"?
"Selfish" love yourself more and others less;
In this way, when love is gone, there is still an excellent self left;
"Selfish" to think a little more about themselves, a little less for their husbands,
After all, they are all adults, and adult love has never relied on sacrificing themselves to achieve each other.
The only way to move the other person is to go hand in hand with him and become his "teammate".
After all, "selfishness" is the passport to the adult world;
"Selflessness" is the epitaph of all marriages.
Is it worth it for a scumbag who cheats on him?
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