Text: Su Jian talks about life
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Mr. Nan Huaijin said:
"People are noble, you can see it at a glance."
The sense of luxury, the temperament that exudes from the inside out, is the product of the top energy.
Although some people wear gold and silver on the outside, their complexion is not good.
Although some people are dressed plainly, they have a kind complexion, a strong and determined heart, and give people a comfortable and noble atmosphere.
Walking in this world, a person's greatest nobility is: kindness.
A kind person, the good fortune of life will naturally come to him.
People, the best blessing is kindness.
1. Kind-hearted face and harmonious family
The Tao Te Ching says:
"The face of Confucius, the only way is to follow."
A good face is not simply beautiful, but more a reflection of generosity, sincerity and kindness.
A wise and virtuous person is always smiling and kind-hearted.
Even if he encounters something unhappy, he can laugh it off, and under his leadership, the whole family is happy.
In ancient times, there was a husband and wife, and the wife asked the husband to go to the street to buy some meat and come back.
As a result, the husband did not buy the meat, but the money was lost, and the husband had to go home humming a song.
When passers-by saw it, they asked, "If you lose all your money, aren't you afraid of going back and being scolded by your wife?"
The husband replied, "She never quarrels with me, and my wife knows that she is a good person by looking at her face."
Sure enough, when the husband came home and explained the situation, the wife just smiled and didn't say anything more.
And this family is precisely because of the kindness of the wife, the filial piety of the children, and the harmony and beauty of the family.
The so-called "born from the heart", the good and evil of a person's face and the good and evil of his heart echo each other.
A person who is full of love and kindness in his heart will make people feel more comfortable and will naturally want to be close.
People with good intentions will have a steady and steady path in life, and their families will be harmonious.
2. Be kind and be kind, and eliminate troubles
In the Tao Te Ching, it is said:
"Be kind and benevolent, and be kind and faithful."
We need to be kind to others when we deal with them. When talking to people, be kind and friendly.
The way you speak determines your luck.
Good words are not only a manifestation of high emotional intelligence, but also a kind of kindness and upbringing engraved in the bones.
Once upon a time, there was a Zen master who took his apprentice down the mountain to run errands, and when he was halfway there, he met a beggar.
The beggar said that the Zen master had just stepped on his foot and demanded compensation.
After hearing this, the Zen master kindly said to the beggar, "This is ten cents, you can take it." After saying that, he gave the beggar ten pennies.
The apprentice asked the Zen master puzzled: "He is a liar, why do you still give him ten cents?"
The Zen master said, "Why debunk him when you know that he is a liar?" It is useless to say more. ”
In "Zengguang Xianwen", it is said: "Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June."
In interpersonal communication, we should be cautious in our words and deeds, say more good words, and pass on positive energy.
Good words can often solve problems, it can not only resolve conflicts, but also make families harmonious and warm.
Everything in this world has a projection, and if we plant a good cause, we will have a good result in response.
When people get along with others, we must know how to empathize, be more calm, and have less temper, so that we can gather popularity and bring good fortune.
3. Be kind-hearted and avoid all diseases
Zhang Peiren, a famous doctor of the Qing Dynasty, once said:
"When people are always happy, their hearts are full of energy and their internal organs are safe."
Life is like a mirror, the heart is full of kind and kind people, the life is beautiful, the mood is comfortable, and the body will be healthy.
A person with a kind heart and a generous bearing will also stay away from him through illness and live a long and healthy life.
Zhang Zhishun, a hundred-year-old Taoist, often saw doctors for the people around him when he was young.
When you meet a rich person to see a doctor, you will ask for a few herbal medicines, and when you meet a poor person to see a doctor, not only do you not charge anything, but you also often give relief to the poor.
Sometimes he is misunderstood by others, but he is not angry, does not justify, and has no complaints.
After turning 100 years old, he is racing against time to pass on his medical skills to more people without reservation.
He was asked, "What's the secret to a regimen?"
He said: "Having good intentions and being kind to others is the best way to maintain health." ”
It is precisely because of his big pattern and good attitude that he can live for more than a hundred years, and the disease and evil will take a detour.
A kind-hearted person, because he is emotionally stable, will not have big ups and downs, so his qi and blood will not stagnate.
When people reach middle age, they have experienced too much, and they have seen a lot, and they finally understand that only peace of mind is the best antidote, and only kindness is the blessing of life.
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There is sunshine in the heart, and ordinary days will shine.
The heart is full of kindness, and happiness will fill every corner of life.
Throughout the ages, those who are honest have been prosperous and profound.
Yan Qing in "Water Margin", as Lu Junyi's house slave, treats Lu Junyi very kindly.
It was precisely because of this kindness that he saw through that Liangshan was no longer the original Liangshan, so he resigned and went home, thus saving his life.
Only kindness can carry foreign things, and the wealth of a thousand gold must need a thousand gold bodies to carry it.
Only by putting kindness in the first place can we stay away from disasters and live a good life.
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