Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
Life is like a road, and there will be countless forks in the road.
For women, marriage is the most important of all forks in the road.
When entering a marriage, it is not only the husband's character that is good or bad, but also what kind of character his family has.
The quality of the in-laws' family will also affect the happiness of the marriage.
Whether the mother-in-law is good or not, go to her house and see it.
02, the mother-in-law who cleaned up the house is diligent and diligent
Before my girlfriend got engaged, she deliberately visited her in-laws without telling her.
The mother-in-law opened the door for her and was very happy to see her.
When the girlfriend entered the house, she found that the room was clean and spotless. There was still soup boiling in the kitchen, and the smell of fresh fragrance spread.
The two of them chatted very happily, and the mother-in-law left her for dinner, and in less than an hour, she made four dishes.
After eating, her mother-in-law didn't let her help clean up, saying that this little work was done easily, and it should be exercised.
My best friend said that most of the mothers-in-law who are diligent and love to clean up the house love life. As long as you don't have a habit of cleanliness, you can get along well.
Rousseau said: "The most important thing in human life is the training of labor. There can be no normal human life without labor. ”
A diligent mother-in-law, she loves to be tidy and cares about things at home.
She loves everyone in her family and dotes on her husband and children. Such a mother-in-law will often prefer to work her own and work hard to run the family well.
With her, you will be taken care of by her and you can live more harmoniously with each other.
Mother-in-law takes good care of the home, very warm, usually a tidy person, no matter who gets along with, can maintain a good environment.
Before getting married, if you want to know if your mother-in-law gets along well, you can visit your mother-in-law and pay attention to whether her home is clean to know what her daily habits are.
03. The mother-in-law who has a good atmosphere at home is very easy to get along with
Liu Yuru in "Long Wind Crossing" was bullied in her mother's house and couldn't hold her head up. She married Gu Jiusi by mistake, but she didn't expect that he didn't seek advancement, and only knew how to eat, drink and have fun all day long.
She has lost confidence in her married life, and it was her mother-in-law who woke her up and gave her the confidence to live a good life.
The mother-in-law patiently comforted her and cared for her.
The mother-in-law saw that she was a good seedling for business, so she was relieved to hand over the family property to her to take care of.
Not only that, but also told the subordinates and entourage in the family that they should listen to the young grandmother, and she can make decisions about everything in the family.
is also because of such a good mother-in-law, Liu Yuru not only let Gu Jiusi know how to be motivated, but also accompanied the Gu family through many difficulties and dangers to live a better life again.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not natural enemies, and at certain moments, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should join hands to support the family together.
If the mother-in-law is generous, not careful, and has a high emotional intelligence, she will treat her daughter-in-law as a family member, and she will get along more comfortably with each other.
If you have more contact with your mother-in-law and chat, you will know if she understands how to care about people.
Women will affect the atmosphere of the whole family.
Jin Ying said: "People are so strong, I win them with softness; People use technology, I feel it with sincerity; People are angry, and I give in to reason. ”
If the atmosphere at home is good, then the mother-in-law is probably also a person who loves to laugh, is simple-minded, or is reasonable. Most of these mothers-in-law are very easy to get along with.
04. A mother-in-law who loves to eat at home, she is kind and soft-hearted
Whether the mother-in-law gets along well or not depends on whether she is kind and soft-hearted.
Victor Hugo said: "Kindness is the rare pearl of history, and the good man is almost superior to the great." ”
In life, most of the mothers-in-law who love to cook and cook are very easy to get along with.
Cooking is a delicate job, and some meals take a lot of time and effort from preparation to serving.
If your mother-in-law likes to buy fresh ingredients in the morning and spends a long time every day cooking delicious meals for her family, then she always has her family in her heart and knows how to express love.
She is very kind, has a sense of responsibility, and is responsible.
Even if something unpleasant happens between you and her, she won't always take it to heart.
You don't even need to admit your mistakes and please them. After eating a meal she cooked, she praised "delicious" from the bottom of her heart, and a big smile appeared on her face.
If your mother-in-law loves to cook at home, it will be easier for her to remember your preferences, prepare better food for you, and manage the relationship with each other better.
People who are willing to put their heart into cooking are very soft in their hearts, they care about everyone's feelings, and they hope to take care of everyone in the family.
05. Summary
Woman, before you get married, go and see your mother-in-law. Visit her home to see what her life is like.
With you, what kind of topics will she talk about, and whether she likes to do things or not.
If she loves to cook and always cooks for you, it means that she is a person who loves life and is easy to get along with.
A mother-in-law with good character and easy to get along with can always increase happiness in marriage.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.