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Less than sixty years old is not considered a long life. Sixty years old is an important dividing line in traditional Chinese culture, which is regarded as the beginning of later life, and only after the age of sixty can birthdays be regarded as longevity. It is not advisable to live a long life when your parents are alive. This is a reflection of respect and filial piety for parents, and in the traditional belief that the life of a child while the parents are alive is considered unlucky and may compromise the life expectancy of the parents. The physical function of the elderly is declining. For the elderly over 90 years old, their physical functions are weaker and may not be able to withstand the excitement and fatigue of the birthday celebration, so it is not recommended to celebrate longevity. In addition, the ages of seventy-three and eighty-four, because they coincide with the death of two great thinkers in ancient times, Confucius and Mencius, are also considered to be the age when they are not suitable for a large birthday banquet.
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If, I said what if, could it be that the old man knew something in advance, so he would make a lot of noise and have to do it for a while? After a lifetime of hard work, why would the old couple have no penny? It's not for this family. At this age, one foot is in the coffin, and the only idea is to be alive and lively. And this child does not understand and does not support. If you don't have this time, will you have the opportunity to see it with your own eyes?
Life is in the world, go with the flow, sometimes you have to have it in life, and you can't force it in life at all times. It's complicated, I don't understand, there are too many traditional rules of the Chinese, and if you want to keep pace with the times and be happy, you will live a long life.
Of the four people in my family who reached the age of 90, one had a birthday, and the other three did not, but all four of them died not long after 90. I think that 90 is close to the limit of human beings, and it will not be long before I can live long, and my organs are about to be scrapped due to serious aging. In fact, people who have a long life are already very old in the first place, and no matter whether they have a long life at such an age, there is usually not much time left.
It is well said, after 60 is "forgetting the year", after 70 "ancient and rare", 7384 is a big hurdle, and there are plenty of reasons. Not doing longevity is the best way to live. But it's best to leave it to your fate.
It was only later that I learned that older people should not make a big deal about their birthdays, otherwise they would be ordered in front of King Yama. What's more, my dad is not in good health, and uremia needs dialysis every week. Sometimes I regret that I didn't resolutely stop it in the first place, and sometimes I think, can my dad survive if I stop it? Wouldn't it be more regrettable if he died before he even had his birthday?
Many old people are afraid of falling, and they will disappear when they fall. My grandfather is very healthy, 83 years old, and he fell and died. That's not about birthdays. My mother's grandmother has been celebrating her birthday every year since she was in her 90s, because the grandchildren think that if the year is less, maybe it will be gone! And for the birthday, the other relatives have to give money and gifts. Then the birthday passed until he was 105 years old.
The explanation of metaphysics is: people, when the blessing is exhausted, is the end of life, and the old people who have passed the old age are usually idle, ignorant of cause and effect, so they are all consuming the good fortune saved when they were young. And living a big birthday is also a blessing.
After doing the big birthday people left, that is the old man himself is not good, I want to see everyone at a glance to make a birthday, the big birthday is happy, and I live for two more years. Dashou can basically be regarded as a casual meal, and you can eat a few meals depending on your ability. ……… It does seem to make sense.
The older you get, the more you celebrate your birthday, you are sucking the blessings of your juniors. A master once said that those who follow the Tao do not say longevity. You think, maybe you can live for a long time, but once the birthday is over, the psychological hint is that I am so old, and everyone else comes to celebrate my birthday, which may not be good. My grandfather and grandfather also passed their birthdays, and their bodies suddenly failed.
Whether it's true or not, it's actually good to be plain! After the birthday, there are many people and things, and the elderly are tired and can't bear it. Just take it as a normal day! Filial piety is a little bit of performance. It's time for Ninety-Nine to pass for a while, but one day I'll leave, leaving regrets in vain.
We have a good family custom, and the old people are very happy to have a birthday at the age of 50, and even the cemetery is bought in advance.
In fact, it is not, most people pursue the golden mean, do not want to be too high-profile, be prepared for danger in times of peace, and the truth of prosperity and decline is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, so whenever they are too happy, they instinctively feel uneasy.
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