Husband and wife should be the closest relationship in this world.
Formed a family, shared a bed, had a partnership, had common interests, and were inseparable.
But, sometimes, it is often the people closest to us who hurt us the most.
Even relatives who are related by blood may not care about blood siblings. Not to mention men and women who are just famous for love.
There are too many news, as well as film and television dramas, all of which are telling us not to overestimate the relationship between husband and wife, and to keep an eye on the person next to the pillow.
If you are sincere to him, it is very likely that he is scheming on you.
The following behaviors may hide a man's calculating heart, be sober and rational discernment.
In the name of your goodness, I tied you to the house
Fang Xiewen in "The Story of Roses", from the very beginning, his love for roses was not pure.
Chasing her is nothing more than satisfying his machismo and inferiority complex.
Before getting married, he was courteous to roses, but after he got married, he changed his face.
Don't let her show her face, under the pretext of being pregnant, don't let her go to work, and keep her in captivity at home.
is just for his own selfishness, belittling her, suppressing her, and making her willingly obey him.
Men don't let you go to work and let you stay at home in the name of your good, it's not really for your good.
I just want to occupy a high position in front of you, and suppress you financially and in my family status.
The so-called "good to you" is just a means to manipulate you.
Listen to him, and your hard days will come in the future, and he can seriously insult you.
Keep asking you for money, encouraging you and your family to borrow money
After her cousin Qianqian got married, she completely saw her husband's true face.
The husband owed a lot of foreign debts outside and hid it from her, and it was not until after marriage that he asked her for money in various names and told the truth.
It was only then that Qianqian knew that this marriage was full of calculations from the beginning.
Qianqian's family conditions are good, and her husband is with her, just eyeing her family's money.
wanted to exhaust Qianqian's savings, so he instigated her and her mother's family to ask for money.
After marriage, men keep asking you for money, most of them are hiding something.
Either fill his hole with your money, or you do it for your own personal gain.
Don't believe that he is for the good of your family, but he just wants to lie on you and suck blood and squeeze your value out.
The man who really loves you will take the initiative to hand over the money to you, and will not make you spit out the money all the time.
Pretend to be nice to you in front of outsiders, and show off everywhere that you have found a good husband
What is it like to have a drama husband?
I watched a video where my husband is very good at pretending in front of outsiders, caring for his wife, and very pampered.
In front of relatives and friends, he made himself a "favorite wife" and showed off how good he was to his wife everywhere.
In fact, when he returned home, everything had changed, and he ignored his wife and was extremely indifferent.
This kind of man cares a lot about his face and what others say about him.
You are just a means for him to create a character and maintain face, and everyone envies your family's happiness, but in fact you are miserable.
Whether the marriage is good or not depends on what others think, life is for oneself, and oneself is comfortable when oneself is good.
Although the husband and wife are both prosperous and the other is lost, the wife must maintain the man's external face.
But since the man is ruthless to you, you don't need to cooperate to protect his false face.
Women, don't trust the pillow person too much.
Remember the movie "She Who Disappeared"? Remember the Thailand murder and insurance fraud case?
Countless cases tell us how sinister human nature is.
Keep an eye on the person next to you, not a betrayal of your marriage, but to protect yourself.