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A man's heart is like a fog, in a puzzle, difficult to see.
At this time, don't be in a hurry to try, the more anxious you are, the easier it is to not see the road ahead.
Stop, slow down, and take your time. See if he's willing to slow down with you and wait patiently for the fog to clear.
Three moments to help you thoroughly see through a man's heart.
When not responding, look at his patience
In "Half-Mature Men and Women", when Gao Peng chased Han Su, Han Su always adopted the attitude of "not responding and not refusing", dragging Gao Peng.
She was sure she didn't like him, but because Gao Peng was the first big customer in her career, she was afraid of missing him, so she "used" him.
Gao Peng knew all this, but he never urged, never showed the slightest impatience, but chased Han Su with enough patience.
As long as you are by her side, you will be happy, even in the name of work.
"When you don't respond" is the best way to test a man's patience.
Some men, chasing you for a while, and you don't respond, will immediately turn around and run to chase others.
Someone will even scold you with nasty words and blame you for wasting his time.
A man who is sincere to you, he will not blame you and resent you, and is willing to give you time to accept him, find his goodness, and fall in love with him.
When chasing you, a man who has no patience for you doesn't love you at all.
After refusal, look at his attitude towards you
After Gao Peng was rejected by Han Su, he was not annoyed and angry, but relieved.
He didn't completely break with Han Su, but said, "Then will I still be your high-quality customer in the future?" ”
A man who can be so "generous" and "decent" after refusing is enough to see how good his character is, and it can also be seen that his love for you is sincere.
A hypocritical man is not sincere when he chases you, and he will be annoyed and angry when he refuses.
This kind of man has a very inferior character.
If you don't get it, you will blame, resent, resent, or even ruin, and this kind of person will encounter a disaster.
I remembered a news I once saw, a rich second-generation chased a woman unsuccessfully, so he burned it and disfigured it, a man with this mentality is selfish and terrible.
Being rejected, people's mentality will be unbalanced, and in this state, they can best see whether a man is a human or a ghost.
If you need help, see if he is willing to help
A boy was chasing his cousin recently, and it happened that something happened to his cousin's family, and his uncle was injured and hospitalized.
The man was very attentive when he ran before and after, and he was not idle when he arrived at the hospital, fetching water and food, and helping his uncle to walk on the ground.
When I was discharged from the hospital and settled the bill, I paid the money without saying a word.
After this incident, he was unanimously recognized by the family, and his aunt and uncle were very satisfied with him.
When encountering trouble, he can best see through a man.
The man who loves you will love the house and the house, and take the people around you very seriously.
When your family and friends encounter something, they will not shirk and will do their best to help.
He won't be troublesome, he won't worry about money, as long as he can help you solve things and make you feel at ease, he is willing to help.
He will take your business as his own and do his best to help.
If you want to see a person clearly, you have to figure out the specific things.
It's too general to help you understand a person.
Only by concretizing things, especially those things that are "negative", "easily annoying", and "easy to arouse human nature", can he be allowed to show his true colors.