In everyone's life, there will be a lot of things that go wrong, if this matter is beyond their control, then they can only resign themselves to fate.
If this matter can be controlled, then you can only adjust your mentality by yourself.
But sometimes, no matter how hard you try, you can't handle everything well, because there are many things that you can't control.
When you don't know what you want to do, you can choose to do what you like first, so that you don't feel so helpless.
Therefore, if you really love someone, don't always think about letting the other person follow you.
- In a relationship, if you really love someone, you will want to be close
When everyone faces the person they like, they will have a desire to get closer, and this desire is very strong.
Because if a person really likes you, he will not refuse to be with you, but will want to be close to you.
The relationship between two people needs to be constantly maintained, and if there is no communication and exchange between two people, then the two people will be more and more distant.
Therefore, if a person has no feelings for you in a relationship, then it is impossible to get close to you, and even if you do, it is useless.
And for someone who truly loves you, he will want to have a good relationship with you, and he will be very willing to spend time with you.
Even if you are far apart, he will do his best to get close to you.
Because if you really love someone, he wants to give the best to each other, which is the fundamental reason why two people can get along for a long time.
- In a relationship, it is possible to understand and tolerate each other
If two people are together, if they want to go on for a long time, they definitely need to understand and tolerate each other.
In this world, no one will be perfect, will have their own shortcomings and advantages, if you always want to change someone, then you will never be able to meet the expectations of the other person's heart.
Therefore, in the relationship, we must learn to tolerate and understand. You know, love is a mutual.
When you are always thinking about changing someone, then this kind of love is problematic.
Moreover, many times you can't see the shortcomings in a person, how can you possibly accept a person?
Therefore, if a person truly loves you, he will definitely tolerate your shortcomings.
If two people are often arguing together, then there must be no feelings between you.
The most important thing in a relationship is mutual understanding and tolerance, because only by understanding and tolerating each other can you go on together for a long time.
If a person always likes to change a person, then this person definitely doesn't love you. Only mutual understanding and tolerance can be together for a long time.
- Love is never a one-person thing
For love, everyone has their own ideas and their own character, but when things happen, there will always be two people to bear together, not one.
Feelings are never a one-person affair, nor can they be handled by one person.
If there is no love between two people, then there is no need to come together because that will only make each other suffer more.
If two people really love each other, they should do something for each other.
When you are in trouble, and another person can face it with you, then this is a sign of true love for you.
So, if there is telepathy between two people, don't push each other away.
In fact, as long as you can always be good to him, after all, it's all for the good of the other party.
You must know that love is not a matter of one person, but a rainbow after two people experience the wind and rain together, if you can't even stick to this little thing, then there is no need to continue.