In this fast-paced era, many people are heartbroken for their children's growth, and want them to excel in learning and socializing, who doesn't want to? But the children seem to be more distressed by the heavy homework and can't play, which makes our parents full of sorrow, but don't worry, maybe you have ever thought that the opportunity for children to serve as class cadres will be a small step or even a big step in the long march!
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As a former teacher, I always found that there are always some children, after they become class cadres, it is like playing chicken blood, learning, communication, organizational skills, everything is growing rapidly, don't believe you, those once timid and introverted little guys, after having the experience of serving as class cadres, can talk eloquently at the class meeting, and drive everyone up, all of this, it is really surprising, the potential of children is simply not to be underestimated
Let's talk about the benefits of being a class cadre, it is really not just a name, serving as a class cadre allows the children to take on some big responsibilities in a small class, think about it, the teacher turns around to do something else, the class cadre becomes the "class leader", the children have to listen to him, they not only have to manage class affairs, but also do a good job in the service of the students, which not only exercises their leadership, but also allows them to gradually understand what responsibility is
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Then, the class cadres also have to communicate with classmates and teachers, think about that scene, it is like a small workplace experience, the child who was embarrassed to speak before, but now he can take the initiative to make suggestions, and even speak in front of the class, this process, cultivate their communication skills, let them understand how to express their thoughts and feelings, which is an ability that they must have in their future studies and life
I remember a child, in the grade became an excellent class leader, he not only actively participated in class activities, but also effectively led the classmates, in his words, at first because of the love of face, and then found that he could help others, it was really happy, and the grades also improved rapidly, the most gratifying thing is that the interpersonal relationship has also changed qualitatively, everyone is willing to cooperate with him, learn together
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Knowing the benefits of being a cadre on duty, how can parents support their children? As parents, we want to encourage our children to take the initiative to participate in the class, although they are a little scared at first, don't rush to discourage them, don't rush to set goals and requirements for them, leave them some room to play freely, encourage them to try different roles, you may be amazed, their creativity can burst out incredibly
Don't forget, full trust is also an important way to support your child, every child has a different personality, if your child prefers to be quiet, don't force them to be the "focus" of the class, but encourage them to play in the field that suits them and find their own stage
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There are many forms of family support, such as chatting with children, discussing the problems they encounter in the class, discovering and helping them solve problems in time, and the encouragement of parents can help children meet various challenges without worries and distractions in the process of serving as class leaders
As a personal example, one of the children I used to teach, Dazhi, joined the student union when he first entered the university, and he told me that although he was really busy at the beginning, he learned how to deal with interpersonal relationships, how to control time, and how to deal with emergencies, which was simply impressive, and this experience added a lot of color to his university life and laid a solid foundation for his future employment
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Speaking of the experience of class cadres, I would like to emphasize this point, what I have learned from the class affairs since childhood, can have a long-term impact on the child's future work and life, an honest and trustworthy, know how to cooperate with the class cadre, when you grow up, you can naturally be respected, in the workplace, many people would rather nominate candidates, but also hope to find those who are good at communication and willing to cooperate with talents
Dear parents, it's time to revisit this opportunity as a duty leader! The abilities and qualities that children acquire in this process can pave the way for their future, and if you don't want to miss such an opportunity to grow, hurry up and cheer for your children! Whether it's giving them enthusiastic support or paying attention behind the scenes, this can be a booster for their growth!
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