Have you noticed that there are always some people in life who always seem to be wearing masks and not so sincere, but the strange thing is that such people are always surrounded by a bunch of friends. On the contrary, those who are kind-hearted and sincere to others sometimes seem lonely, as if sincerity is no longer popular in this circle.
This matter is quite incomprehensible, let's talk about the reasons behind this today and see what deep insights netizens have on this phenomenon.
Kind people are not good because they can't say it, but they don't want to be hypocritical, and most of them will be very opinionated
Such people have a very high emotional intelligence, because they will not tear their faces with others at will
Yes, people with good character are not willing to make friends with others because they are willing to make friends with others
Indeed, to the point
If you are no longer in their hands, they will hit you
Isolate yourself, do your own thing, go your own way, eat your own food, and live how you are happy
Things gather by like, people by groups, what kind of people will make what kind of friends
It is an ability to read words and emotions and take into account the feelings of others in every word you say, which is not possessed by everyone
People are honest and won't come to trouble, which has something to do with the personality of the mouth
The villain is only relative, he has his own advantages, and there are some aspects that no one can match
Hypocritical people, they are like "chameleons" in the social arena, especially good at looking at eyes. No matter who they deal with, they can quickly find common ground and have a lively conversation. Moreover, they are also very good at praising people, and a few words can make people happy, who doesn't like to listen to good words? In this way, they naturally have more friends around them.
In contrast, sincere people, although they are good-hearted and sincere, may not be very good at social skills. They speak straight and don't use rhetoric to please others. Sometimes, their truth-telling can be uncomfortable or even offensive. They also don't deliberately pander to the preferences of others, but stick to their own principles and values. In social situations, they may appear silent or unsociable.
Although hypocritical people may seem to be very popular in the short term, the real value is sincere friendship. We should maintain our sincerity, and at the same time learn to express ourselves better in social interactions, so that sincerity can bloom more brilliantly in this world.