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Three suites VS two suites: family game after demolition, who is the "house" slave?
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When the word "demolition" collides with "real estate", this square inch of land often evolves into a battlefield without gunsmoke, and the 80-year-old Li Dingheng never thought that the demolition of his hometown was a happy event, but it made the originally harmonious family fall into a whirlpool of real estate competition
Li Dingheng and his wife have a son and two daughters, in the concept of most rural elderly, the traditional idea of "raising children to prevent old age" is deep-rooted, so when five sets of demolition houses are placed in front of them, Li Dingheng and his wife without thinking about giving three of the larger houses to their son Li Qingguo, and the remaining two sets are divided into two daughters
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In the eyes of the two old men, such a division is reasonable, not only taking care of their son's responsibilities as the only son in the family, but also reflecting the love for their daughter
Li Qingguo did not buy the parents' distribution plan, he stubbornly believed that all five properties should belong to him, and in his opinion, his daughter marrying was like water spilled, and she was not qualified to share the family property
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Li Qingguo's attitude was tough, and his words were full of dissatisfaction with his parents' distribution plan and contempt for his sisters; he frequently came to the door to "beg" for explanations, and every time he made a fuss at home, and even did not hesitate to speak ill of his elderly parents, adding fists and kicks
"I worked hard all my life, but in the end I was beaten by my own son, and there is no reason for heaven!" The old man Li Dingheng covered his swollen forehead, and he couldn't understand how the son who he loved since he was a child would be so cruel to them for the sake of the house
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Li Qingguo's atrocities completely broke the hearts of the old couple, and what made them even more chilling was that in the face of their brother's arrogance and unreasonableness, the two daughters did not show weakness, and stood up for their parents
"Brother, how can you talk to your parents like this! The house belongs to my parents, they can divide it however they want, why should you dictate! ”
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"That is, what have you contributed to this family over the years? It's so lazy to do it, and I reach out to ask my parents for money all day long, but now it's good, and I want to swallow all the houses alone! ”
The sisters, you and I shook out Li Qingguo's "bad deeds" over the years one by one, and the words were full of anger and disappointment
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Li Qingguo's wife also joined the melee, she sided with her husband, accused the two sisters-in-law of sowing discord, playing right and wrong, and even pointed the finger at the two old men, believing that their partiality led to this family dispute
"Mom and Dad, ask yourself, what have you done to us all these years? Qingguo is your biological son, but you favor your two daughters everywhere, which makes us feel embarrassed! ”
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The originally peaceful family became fragmented because of five sets of demolition houses, and Li Dingheng and his wife were sandwiched between their son and daughter, in a dilemma, they didn't understand, why the originally close family became so strange because of the conflict of interests?
In this real estate battle, who is right and who is wrong? Is Li Qingguo really a victim of his parents' partiality, as he said? Or is he blinded by greed and lost in the direction of family affection? How should this farce after the demolition end?
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Faced with the mutual accusations of their son and daughter, Li Dingheng and his wife were exhausted, and they knew that if they continued like this, they would only break up the family
In order to find out the truth of the matter and to save the family relationship that was on the verge of breakdown, Li Dingheng and his wife decided to gather all their children together and talk openly and honestly
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"You are all my children, the palms and backs of your hands are full of meat, how can I be partial?" The old man Li Dingheng trembled his voice and handed a yellowed notebook to the children, "Over the years, I have recorded every money that Qingguo has spent for this family, you can see for yourself."
On the notebook, every item and every expense that Li Qingguo has purchased for his family over the years are densely recorded, from a few yuan of soy sauce and vinegar to hundreds of yuan of household appliance maintenance, and even the bride price given by Li Qingguo's parents when he got married
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"Over the years, Qingguo has indeed paid a lot for this family, but the two of you are also just as filial, often buying us clothes, food, and often calling to care about us, I remember all of this"
The old man Li Dingheng looked at the notebook, and his tone was full of relief and emotion, "You are all good children, I don't want to hurt each other's feelings because of the house"
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"Dad, I know it's wrong, I shouldn't have yelled at you and my mother for the sake of the house, and I shouldn't have beaten you" Li Qingguo looked at the detailed records in his notebook and lowered his head in shame
Only then did he realize that for so many years, his parents had been silently caring about him, but he had hurt the people closest to him because of his greed
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"Brother, we all know that you are filial, and we also know that it has not been easy for you over the years, but your parents are old, and we, as children, should be more considerate of them, rather than making the family restless for the sake of the house."
Sister Li Zhen also stepped forward, held her brother's hand, and said earnestly, "We are a family, what can't we discuss well?" ”
Under the patient persuasion of Li Dingheng and his wife, and with the frank communication of the three brothers and sisters, the family conflict caused by the demolition of the house was finally resolved
Lee Kyung-kook realized his mistake, sincerely apologized to his parents, and offered to transfer one of the houses to his sister as a thank you for taking care of her parents over the years
In the end, Li Dingheng and his wife left two houses for their own retirement, and Li Qingguo and his two younger sisters each got one for the remaining three houses
After this turmoil, the Li family returned to its former peace and warmth, and Li Qingguo also understood that family affection is priceless, far more important than money and houses
This seemingly ordinary family dispute reflects the social transition period, people's loss and struggle in the face of material interests, when the horn of demolition sounds, when the huge wealth is in front of them, how many people can keep their hearts and not forget their original intentions?
The story of Li Dingheng's family may give us some enlightenment: home is a place to talk about love, not a battlefield for competing interests, and the house can be divided, but family affection cannot be measured by money
In today's increasingly rich material life, we should cherish family affection, manage the family with heart, and make home a harbor for our souls, rather than a cold "house slave"
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