In fact, most people always like to inadvertently show their hands to let people know that "my consumption is not ordinary".
But in the final analysis, this thing depends on the place and the occasion, if you really pretend to be wide regardless of the occasion, not only will you not have a long face, but it is easy to ask for trouble.
Especially sometimes, your little show-off can really send you into the pit.
01
Don't show off in front of your neighbors, it's safest to pretend to be poor.
In daily life, there will inevitably be intersections between our neighbors, after all, everyone lives close to each other, and we don't see each other when we look up.
But remember, when you interact with your neighbors, don't put everything out of the way, let alone expose your family's background, how much money you make, what kind of car you drive, how much your children earn, etc., these topics are best avoided and avoided.
Talking too much not only seems exaggerated, but may also cause yourself a bunch of unnecessary trouble.
Who knows what those neighbors around you are thinking? Will someone be jealous of you because of your words, or even think "how to get some oil out of you"?
Moreover, flaunting one's wealth indiscriminately does no good other than causing gossip from others.
In life, getting along with neighbors is not as good as chatting about interesting things and hobbies in life, which is both relaxed and safe.
Pretending to be poor is actually a smart move in front of your neighbors.
Everyone knows each other well and lives close to each other, so there's no need to let them know how many tickets you have in your pocket.
People and people's consumption concepts are inherently different, and it is easy to make comparisons if you talk too much, and this comparison is likely to become dissatisfaction in the hearts of others.
So, don't talk about money in front of your neighbors and save yourself from unnecessary trouble.
02
Don't show your wealth in front of old acquaintances, save some trouble.
In interpersonal communication, it is also common to encounter old acquaintances, such as old classmates, hair young, or friends who have not seen each other for many years.
But remember, in the face of these old acquaintances, there is no need to show your wealth, let alone be soft-hearted, pretending to be poor is the most effective way to protect yourself.
After all, time has proven that the two sides have not been in contact for many years, which means that the friendship has long been weakened.
I've seen a lot of examples of old acquaintances who haven't seen each other for many years, and who started borrowing money after just meeting and talking a few words, saying that they had encountered some difficulties.
In this case, if you don't pretend to be poor and don't hide your "muscles", you are likely to have to deal with these endless troubles again and again.
You can't always want to show off, sometimes, you have to pretend to be poor when you should be poor, this is not spineless, but the wisdom that makes life smoother.
In front of those old acquaintances who don't have much contact, keep a low profile and don't make yourself too conspicuous.
People live for a lifetime, and there are some occasions when you need to show your muscles, but more often, you need to bow your head to protect yourself.
Those old acquaintances, it doesn't hurt to be estranged, since the friendship is not there, why bother yourself?
To put it bluntly, a smart person knows when to show his hole cards and when to hide them, which is the real wisdom.
03
Pretend to be poor in front of relatives in a low-key manner.
In reality, most of us have a lot of relatives, but the quality is not guaranteed.
The character is uneven, some can help, and some will not help.
Especially those relatives who see that you are doing well and start to use their brains.
As soon as you get embarrassed in front of them, they immediately calculate the accounts for you, calculate your income and expenses clearly, and finally guess how much you have saved in your hands.
Isn't that a blatant calculation against you, you say?
I read a post before, a netizen went back to his hometown to visit the door, didn't think much about it, and chatted with his relatives about his recent situation, as a result, it didn't take long for those "people with a heart" to come to the door, borrowing money, asking for help, all came here, it really made people cry and laugh.
If you want to refuse when the time comes, you have to make up all kinds of excuses, so it's better to keep a low profile at the beginning and save trouble.
In reality, pretending to be poor is not a shame, but protecting yourself.
Especially in front of those unreliable relatives, there is no need to show off your wealth, but the more low-key the better.
If you are doing well, it does not mean that others will be happy for you, but it may make people blush, and even hit you with ideas.
Look at the family's money and connections, think about how to use it in vain, but when you can't use it, you complain that you are not interesting enough.
Such people abound.
Let my words come into your heart
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