In this fast-paced modern society, we can always see those lively scenes about "extramarital affairs" in film and television dramas, the story of extramarital affairs is simply like a high-sounding ancient palace fighting drama, coupled with just the right amount of emotional entanglement, so that the audience can watch it excited, we can talk about the history of love and helplessness behind the ancient feudal marriage law by the way
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Ancient marriage, and now is very different, not a free love thing at all, parents have the final say, matchmakers arrange everything, think about the year, how many girls have not had time to fall in love with a person, may be arranged by the elders of the family to marry someone else, this system, like a locked iron cage, no matter how beautiful the scenery outside, after all, you have to succumb to that piece of marriage contract, just imagine, a woman who originally loved freedom, may be under the weight of marriage, become unable to choose
As a woman at that time, it was difficult to break free from the cage of marriage, and if you want to chase love, it is often not something that one person can decide, do you think she can counterattack with enthusiasm? Aunt Qiong Yao's TV series is beautiful, life is not so simple, those dogmas of three obedience and four virtues, plus seven out of four out, it is like a bondage, you can't escape, others won't let you escape, someone will point to your back and say: "This woman is really unknowing"
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"Iron marriage law, flowing extramarital affairs", when love encounters the cage of the system, it opens a different journey, people in the undercurrent surge, feel that through the inheritance of their children's love and marriage concept, may be able to support generation after generation of helplessness, and behind these extramarital affairs, there are often not only two victims, but the whole family, the whole society and even the entire spiritual world of tribulation
But friends, is the feudal marriage law really useless? In some aspects, it also maintains a certain stability of society, such as: inheritance, family reproduction, even if it is for the family property left by mistake, these are all taken for granted at the time, this system seems to have its reasonable existence, especially in that era, every family wants to inherit, but when the ancient ideas collide with the concepts of the new era, the marriage law is incompatible
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Speaking of bizarre, many provisions in the feudal marriage law make modern people incredible, and it makes people laugh to the side: "concubine room, divorced wife, pawn wife" This kind of fantasy-sounding thing can simply cross into the Daming Palace without saying a word, the ancient people are really good at playing, concubine is not only a kind of family glory, but can even make you feel glorious in front of your friends, you see, if there is a big man in the family can do "concubine room like a cloud", it is definitely a legend
In this context, looking at the modern marriage law, it is indeed towards a more equal party, we have gradually realized that the establishment of a relationship should rely on mutual trust, understanding and respect, not just some form of contract, to make up for many regrets and inconveniences, in today's broad social background, marriage is no longer a kind of cage as in ancient times, but has more possibilities
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When we think about the ancient marriage law and the various problems it causes, in fact, it is more important than the past constraints and reflection today, after all, entering marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also the responsibility of a family and even a society, for every marriageable young person, standing at this turning point, we should look at feelings more rationally, and strive to find a more diverse and humane path
No matter how complicated the historical origin is, marriage is a choice and contract between people after all, perhaps, we can now extract wisdom from the experience of the ancients, and find the key to the other side in the sky of equality and love, what do you think? Is your family concept also because the spread of feudal ideas is still imperceptibly influencing your life choices?
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To end in one sentence, marriage is like a shoe, only you know whether it fits or not, let us cherish each other, and in this complex and changeable world, we can find a path of happiness that belongs to us