I've seen a sentence like this:
No one is easier than anyone in adult life.
That's true, but you know what? Those predicaments that seem to be insurmountable are actually hidden in the turn of life.
Therefore, in the face of setbacks and difficulties, adults should be more mature, learn to hold an umbrella for themselves, and go through every low period in life.
Here, I would like to say to everyone: when no one holds an umbrella, you must learn to shelter from the rain.
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Better do it than wish it done
As the old saying goes, "the mountains will fall, and everyone will run", although this is rough, it is not rough. Because, in this world, the most reliable is always yourself.
I remember Zhang Ailing once said: "In this world, except for yourself, no one can really help you." It sounds a little cold, but it's the true meaning of life.
There is a girl named Xiao Li, who joined a large company after graduation, thinking that she could show her strength, but because of the adjustment of the department, she went to a business department that she was not familiar with.
At first, she was unfamiliar with the business and wanted to ask her colleagues for help and learn more from them, but she found that people in the workplace were complicated, and few people were really willing to lend a hand.
In desperation, Xiao Li decided to save herself, she began to teach herself new skills, used her spare time to do projects, and eventually not only gained recognition within the company, but also later jumped to a better company, and her annual salary doubled.
Xiao Li's story tells us that instead of hoping for the help of others, it is better to be the one who can shelter from the wind and rain.
So, friends, when you are in trouble, don't forget that it is better to ask for others than for yourself. Investing in yourself and improving yourself is more reliable than anything else.
02
Bitterness is life
Life is like a cup of tea, it will not be bitter for a lifetime, but it will always be bitter for a while.
I believe that many people have heard this sentence and have a deep understanding. Life is always full of ups and downs, but it is these twists and turns that make our lives more colorful.
Do you still remember the "brick moving Xiaowei" who became popular on the Internet? He is an ordinary migrant worker, because he loves singing, he uses his mobile phone to record his singing voice after work and upload it to the Internet.
At first, not many people paid attention, but he didn't give up and kept going. A few years later, his singing voice was finally heard, gained the love of millions of fans, and even gave him the opportunity to stand on a bigger stage.
Xiaowei's story is the best interpretation of "bitterness comes sweetly".
Each of us is experiencing our own "suffering", but remember that these sufferings are the only way to sweetness.
Get through it, and you will find that those nights that once made you cry bitterly, those days that once made you rain, have finally become the brightest stars in your life.
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Try to get through every sad day
Life is not easy, and everyone has one or several particularly difficult times. It could be the anxiety of losing a job, it could be the pain of falling out of love, or it could be the torture of illness.
But whatever it is, please remember that these difficult days are temporary, and as long as you don't give up, you will see the light of day one day.
Tell me about my own experience. When I first started writing articles for self-media, I was really confused, and I didn't know how to write good articles and how to attract fans.
During that time, I stared at the computer screen every day, my hair fell to the ground, and I was also very anxious.
However, I didn't give up, I started to study other people's articles, learn other people's writing skills, and slowly, my articles began to be read, my fans rose little by little, and the articles I wrote began to make money.
Looking back now, although those days were hard, they were also the time when I grew the fastest.
So, friends, when you feel that life is particularly difficult, don't give up, hold on a little longer. As the saying goes, "Get through the night, and you are the brightest star." ”
Because, every day that makes you sad is a tempering for you, and those days that have been drenched in rain have made you more resilient and mature.
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When life is difficult, everyone will think that someone can help them, and only after suffering can they understand:
In the end, it was the self who gritted his teeth silently and persevered.
As the United Kingdom writer Martin once said:
"Every strong person has gritted his teeth and spent a period of time when no one helped, no one supported, and no one asked for warmth."
No matter how hard and difficult the days are, you must be strong and brave.
Adults must learn to hold an umbrella for themselves, build a raft in the sea of suffering, and be their own down-to-earth ferryman.
All in all, on the road of life, there are ups and downs, and when no one holds an umbrella, you have to learn to shelter from the rain.
Remember, no matter how much wind and rain life throws at you, keep a sunny heart, because only you can decide whether your sky is clear or rainy.
Come on, everyone who runs in the wind and rain!