At the age of 3, it is still the age of eating and rolling, tying and shouting "ma ma", but some children have already taken on the "heavy responsibility" of family life.
A 2-year-old child in Japan, Nonoja, won the silver medal in the Japan Nursery Rhyme Contest with a nursery rhyme called "Puppy Police", becoming the youngest winner ever, affectionately known by fans as "Diaper Kaohime".
Not only did he sign a contract with Japan's largest CD music company, but he officially made his debut. It has even reached South Korea and China, harvesting a large number of fans.
However, with the popularity of Murakata Noka, her exposure on the TV screen has increased. When people pay attention to this little cute, they inadvertently discover the "truth" behind her fame...
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="5" >1, overnight popularity, what does it bring? </h1>
In October 2020, a cute little girl of two and a half years old began to break into the public eye.
At that time, Nai Naijia's child was participating in the Japanese nursery rhyme contest.
At that time, she was only 85 centimeters tall, and her head was not as tall as a piano leg. The little guy shook his head round and stood alone in the center of the stage, singing earnestly.
Despite his young age, he was not afraid of the stage at all. The sound is crisp and cute, the pitch and rhythm are online, and the cute look is cute to everyone.
Although she only won the silver medal after the game, with her very cute appearance, her various game videos became popular with YouTube, and the number of views quickly exceeded 20 million.
Overnight, Noriga spread throughout Japan and out of Asia.
Popular South Korean idols Kim Jae-jung and Kim Tae-yeon have publicly expressed their love for her on Twitter.
Taking advantage of the popularity, Nonaga soon debuted as an official artist and released her first album in May, becoming the youngest debut singer in Japan.
Not only that, but a number of business cooperations have come and gone. In just half a year, in addition to advertising endorsements and music albums, Nai Naijia has appeared on more than 50 programs!
In one of the variety shows, her itinerary was exposed, and the intensity of her work was called "996", which caused the host to exclaim.
Get up at 7:30, go to bed at 21:00, catch three programs a day, count the time on the road, pure work time up to 7 or 8 hours, equivalent to the workload of a mature adult.
Sometimes she also has to record a program at 7 p.m., and if the program is easy, she can arrive home at 8 or 9 o'clock; if there are special circumstances, it is also common to stay on the TV station until late at night.
For a child who is only 3 years old, it has long exceeded the load on the body.
This is a critical period for physical growth, and such hard work will not only make her lose her childhood freedom, but also affect the child's normal physical and psychological stress.
In addition to being overweight at work, netizens also criticized her parents for letting her learn some adult songs that did not fit her age in order to attract attention.
Although the parents repeatedly emphasize that it is her favorite, looking at these lyrics, it is really difficult to believe that the child herself wants to learn to sing the song.
Not only that, netizens found that perhaps because there are too many shows and too many shots, the little baby has appeared strabismus.
Compared with the innocence and cuteness of the first time on stage at the age of two and a half, the smile of Nai Naijia now always reveals a deep tiredness.
Ordinary netizens can still find the problem at a glance, but Naijia's parents do not know?
It's just that for them, the innocence and romance of children, the small happiness of simple freedom, are far less than the money and fame that can be obtained.
How absurd, and how pathetic!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="27" >2. Whose fault is it that overdeveloped childhood? </h1>
A 3-year-old little girl, who should have worn a princess dress, held a doll, and nestled in the arms of her parents.
However, Nai Nai Jia prematurely tasted the warmth and coldness of the world's human feelings, and lost the joy and freedom of childhood.
Adults can still resist the PUA and oppression in the workplace, and children who are attached to their parents, in addition to silently endure, how should they treat themselves?
Miyazaki said: "Childhood does not exist for the sake of growing up, it exists for childhood itself, for the experience of things that can only be experienced when you are a child." The experience of five minutes in childhood is even better than the experience of an adult for a whole year. ”
The child's world is supposed to be innocent, and letting minors prematurely come into contact with the world they should not be exposed to and experience the so-called human sophistication is an act of "overexploitation".
And such children, when they grow up, will be in great pain in the contradiction between losing themselves and not being able to save their childhood.
As a result, some children are forced to become the "cash cow" of their parents, manipulated like dolls and lose themselves; some children, prematurely infected by the fame and profit of society, have "maturity" beyond age in every word and deed.
In the face of money and profit, children have become the saddest consumables.
The famous child star Judy Garland is best known for playing Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.
In order to maintain the image of the little girl in the Wizard of Oz, she was asked by the company to take various diet pills to lose weight and restrict growth during the growth period.
At the same time, in order to give her energy to cope with the super intense workload, the company has been taking various drugs for her.
Overwhelmed by work stress and mental stress, she struggled with depression all her life, eventually dying at the age of 44 from taking too many sleeping pills.
Greedy and unsatisfied parents, and the squeezing of child stars' capital through their parents, are undoubtedly the biggest "murderers" of death.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="41" >3, girls, should have been "rich"</h1>
"Rich nourishment" does not mean that there are material needs to respond, but to the care and nurturing at the spiritual level, which is to give them the ability to grow independently and obtain a more complete self.
It is easy to scatter, beauty is difficult to stay, and what can really benefit for life is wisdom and mind, bravery and responsibility, self-confidence and fortitude.
The girl's true "richness" refers to the ability to give her independent growth, which is "independent personality", "polite demeanor", "elegant taste" and "rational mind".
Independence is brave and not afraid of the challenges on the road of life; knowing etiquette, it is moderate, treating people and things in a disciplined manner; elegant, it is not bad, embracing the world with a beautiful heart; reason, it is calm, calmly facing the choice of life.
Wealth is not preference, not coddling, but trying to satisfy the child's legitimate desires, so that she can enjoy what is real, derived from love, and the happiness given by parents.
This can enable children to correctly face their irrepressible desires when they grow up, and when they have enough ability to satisfy, they know how to restrain themselves and not over-consume.
The "rich" girl has an optimistic and cheerful personality, is full of empathy, and knows how to accept and understand others.
Don't let the interests blind your eyes, the child's innocence and kindness, should have been "a thousand gold does not change"!