As the world often says, marrying a girl is like flowing water, once you go east, it is difficult to find the way back. Especially in the family of twin children, the daughter returns to Ning Pin, often inadvertently, she quietly weaves a web of misunderstanding, and even makes the relationship between brothers and sisters dusty and gives birth to suspicion.
In a quiet village in a corner of Anhui Province, there are women and husbands, full of carefully prepared gifts, full of laughter, and embark on the road home. After a long absence, she longs for this reunion dinner to warm the long-lost family affection. However, when she carried two heavy barrels of oil in her hand and pushed open the familiar door of her mother's house, she was greeted by cold words like a cold wind: "How did you come back again?" Home is not an inn, why bother? ”
The words of her brother were like the snow of winter, instantly freezing her enthusiasm and expectation. Incomprehension and confusion came like a tide, she never expected that the eldest brother who was warm and affectionate in the past would speak to each other like this. Every time she returns home, she never goes empty-handed, and this time she is carefully selected, just for the warmth of the reunion. This sudden indifference made her heart twist.
Seeing his wife's grievances, the husband silently put down his bags, clasped her hand, and resolutely turned away. On the way back, he was not in a hurry to comfort, only accompanied her silently, and when her tears were gone, Fang gently opened his lips: "Don't be sad, in the future, we will reduce Guining." The woman was stunned: "Why?" This is my family, how can I allow others to put their beaks? The husband's eyes were deep, and he slowly said the common sense of the world: after marriage, a woman frequently returns to her parents' home, or something is wrong. Although the gift is heavy, it is difficult to hide the position of the bride in the family, and it is necessary to distinguish between relatives and relatives and live in harmony.
The woman's heart is mixed, recalling the past and her brother to be together, deep affection, how did she expect that marriage has become a source of estrangement? The matter spread to the Internet, and public opinion was in an uproar. Some people sigh that the sister-in-law doesn't know how to measure, and some people say that it is natural to return home, and family affection should not be restricted.
As the old saying goes: "Marrying a girl is like splashing water", the traditional concept is deep-rooted, even if the times change, some prejudices still exist. In rural areas, there are still subtle boundaries between the roles of men and women, especially when the identity of a daughter is superimposed on the role of a sister-in-law, and the balance is even more important. The daughter was originally her mother's intimate padded jacket, but when she returned to Ning after marriage, she also needed to take into account her brother's family, respect her sister-in-law's position, and maintain that hard-won harmony with wisdom and warmth.
As a result, the frequency of women's return to peace after marriage has become a mirror, reflecting people's deep thinking about family relations in the midst of social changes. Between inheritance and innovation, finding the balance point that does not lose the warmth of family affection and can also take into account family harmony may be the topic that every daughter of Guining should explore.