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My friend asked me if my boyfriend loved her, saying that sometimes she felt that her boyfriend didn't love her and thought about breaking up, but sometimes she felt that her boyfriend loved her, and she was a little reluctant.
In fact, this problem will be encountered by many women, because this man behaves very strangely, saying that he doesn't love, it seems to be love, saying love, and always disappointing you.
At such a time, love is like chicken ribs, let it go, feel unwilling, don't let go, and you really can't love.
For such a question, I can't give you a direct answer, persuade you to break up or persevere, I can only tell you that if a man has such seven performances, it means that he is pretending to love you, that is, he neither loves you nor lets you go, so he consumes you and takes advantage of you.
Take a good look at yourself, think about it, your road still has to rely on yourself, I hope you can wake up quickly, don't fall deeper and deeper.
Don't explain, whatever you think
If a man doesn't love you anymore, then he doesn't care what you think at all, even if it makes you very angry and sad, he won't explain it to you.
Think about it, with such a man, will you be happy? He doesn't have you in his heart at all, so he will be unscrupulous to hurt you.
But why are you still unsure whether he loves you or not? It's because he doesn't explain, but he doesn't argue with you or anything, and sometimes it even makes you feel like he's accommodating you.
This is actually an illusion, the person who really loves you will not do this, he is afraid that you will think too much, afraid that the contradictions between you will not be explained clearly, so he will be in a hurry to explain to you.
If you don't explain, you don't care, you just don't love, you think about it.
If you don't ask for forgiveness, you will be angry when you are angry
I especially hate one kind of man, the kind of man who likes cold violence.
They will never ask for forgiveness when you are angry, and they will even hide away when they see you angry, waiting for you to digest your emotions before appearing.
Such a man may say that he doesn't want to quarrel with you and exacerbate the conflict, but in fact, it is because he doesn't love you enough.
Think about it, will he not know that you are angry? Will you not know that you are upset? Do you not know that if this continues, there will be problems in your relationship?
But he still did it, which shows that he doesn't care about your feelings at all, and insists on it if he thinks he can, and if he can't, forget it. So, what to do, you decide.
I don't understand, and I always feel that I work harder
If a man always feels that he is working harder, never empathizes and understands your hard work, then don't hesitate, this man just doesn't love you.
Remember, he's really not just selfish, he just doesn't have you in his heart, so he takes everything you do for granted.
When we are with a person, we do not expect that person to understand themselves completely, but at least learn to be considerate of each other.
So, if the man always feels that he is working harder and feels that you should do everything, then let him go where he wants.
Don't grieve yourself, you really won't get any respect for that.
Don't admit your mistakes, even if you are really wrong
There is a kind of man who will not admit his mistake even if he is really wrong, and always wants you to apologize and compromise, such a man just doesn't love you.
Just like a friend, she said that her boyfriend is very macho and will not admit that she is wrong no matter what happens.
Actually, this is not machismo at all, this is a sign of unlove.
The person who really loves you will be eager to apologize to you because he wants you to be happy and because he wants the conflict between you to be resolved quickly.
We don't want to make each other apologize every time, but at least we can't always wronged and wronged ourselves, which is really important.
I don't pay attention to you, I feel that everyone is more important than you
When my friend tells me about her boyfriend, I always feel very wronged, because in my boyfriend's heart, everyone is more important than her, relatives, friends, work, and even games are more important than her.
Her boyfriend always asks her to do everything by herself, which makes her more independent, but my friend really doesn't understand what she needs her boyfriend to do if she can be so independent.
You see, in fact, women understand that if men don't pay attention to themselves like this, they don't love themselves, but they just can't let go decisively.
I don't want you to be so indecisive, because that's hurting yourself, and I want you to live a little more sensibly and stay away from men like that.
Since he thinks everyone is more important than you, let him do what he should do.
Not tolerant and always wants you to change
I admit that two people are together to change for each other, but honey, you have to remember that this change is mutual, it is common, not for one person to change.
If a man never tolerates you and always wants you to change, then this man just doesn't love you, or he fakes to love you.
We really don't need to lose ourselves for anyone, we need to be with someone who knows how to tolerate us.
Of course, I don't want you to force people to change all the time, that would be really tiring.
If you meet the right person, then run in with the other person and find the most suitable way to communicate with you, so that you will be the happiest.
Don't take responsibility, you have to face everything by yourself
A man who pretends to love you may care about you and may say a lot of sweet words to you, but this man must not be responsible, and let you face everything by yourself, making you feel very tired.
Although we don't want to rely on each other for everything when we are with someone, if the other person not only won't let you have a moment of respite, but also always makes you a steel woman, then this person doesn't love you.
Believe me, people who love you will feel sorry for you, and people who love you will always feel that they haven't given you enough and want to take a little more for you.
With a man like that, you're going to be stronger, because you know there's someone working for you.
So, leave the man who pretends to love you, he really doesn't deserve anything from you.
Whether a man loves you or not, you must be able to feel, but sometimes his fake love makes you less sure.
So, to give you seven pieces of advice, I hope you can think about it, don't wronged yourself, and don't hurt yourself.
Sober up early, don't fall deeper and deeper, the right love doesn't have to work so you. Come on.
I'm Xiyan, a columnist, an older girl who is neither old nor old, likes to write warm words, do emotional programs, and has published "The Rest of Your Life, Related to Me", if you have a story, remember to come to me.