Who said that a wealthy lady can enjoy the glory of life? 33-year-old He Chaoying used her personal experience to give us a vivid lesson about "wealth disease". The eldest daughter of the gambling king's fourth room should have been a winner in life in the eyes of everyone, but because of a "social phobia", she disappeared from the public eye for 5 years.
Recently, Pansy Ho appeared at a charity dinner in Hong Kong, wearing a red dress that should be dazzling, but it caused an uproar because of her thin face. The once glorious gambling king's daughter, now her cheeks are sunken, and her eyes reveal uneasiness and nervousness. Such a contrast can't help but make people sigh: it turns out that money really can't buy happiness.
He Chaoying's road to "social fear" began during her pregnancy. The criticism caused by the soaring weight at that time was like a sharp knife, deeply piercing the fragile heart of this young lady. Since then, she has chosen to close herself off from the public eye. This hiding is 5 years.
However, just when everyone thought that He Chaoying would retire, her second sister He Chaoqiong reached out to help. At this charity dinner, we saw not only He Chaoying's "return", but also the warmth between the wealthy sisters. The 29-year-old age gap has not hindered understanding and support between them. He Chaoqiong told us with actions: above the interests of the family, family affection is the most precious wealth.
Pansy Ho's honesty on social media is even more respectful. She did not hide her discomfort and admitted that this was the first time she had participated in a public event in five years. This kind of authenticity is precisely the most scarce thing in social media at the moment.
"Social terror" is not the preserve of the wealthy, it can happen to anyone. But Pansy Ho's experience reminds us that no matter what class we are, mental health cannot be ignored. The life of a wealthy family seems glamorous, but it also has its unknown pressures. How to maintain the true self in the eyes of the public, how to keep the original intention in the glory and wealth, these are all questions worthy of our deep thought.
Pansy Ho's story may make us re-examine our own lives. Have we ever been held back by the perception of the outside world? Have you ever had a moment when you wanted to escape socializing? In the face of adversity, do we choose to escape, or like Pansy Ho, bravely take the first step with the support of our loved ones?
In this era of information explosion, we are often confused by all kinds of glossy appearances. But Pansy Ho's experience tells us that everyone has their own problems to overcome in life. Instead of envying the aura of others, cherish the people around you who are willing to pull you when you fall.
The road to recovery is long and arduous, but if you take the first step bravely, you are already half the battle. I hope that He Chaoying can continue to maintain his courage and regain his former glory as soon as possible. At the same time, I also hope that everyone who is going through difficulties can find their own "He Chaoqiong" and shine again in love and support.
Have you ever been through a similar dilemma? How do you regulate your mindset in the face of social pressure? Feel free to share your stories and insights in the comment section, and let's discuss how to find your own way of survival in this complex world.