For the elderly, happiness has many different meanings.
Some people feel that it is a kind of happiness to have no worries about food and clothing, some people feel that it is a happiness to have children and grandchildren around their knees and enjoy the joy of family, and some people feel that it is a kind of happiness to be healthy and free from disasters and diseases.
But the vast majority of the elderly believe that happiness means having a partner who accompanies him and takes care of him, physically they support and rely on each other, and spiritually they trust and comfort each other to go through the rest of their lives together. Those single elderly people are eager for romantic love and a happy marriage, and find a wife through blind dates in order to realize their ideals in life.
The 68-year-old uncle is a 63-year-old beautiful aunt, willing to give her a bride price of 50,000 yuan, and is also willing to provide her with superior living conditions. The uncle believes that life is short, and he should be happy in time, and the two of them work together to enjoy their old age, which is more important.
Uncle Wang's pension is more than 4,000 yuan, he has an 80-square-meter house, and six or seven hundred thousand deposits.
When he has nothing to do, Uncle Wang likes to exercise and dance, he planted a vegetable field, and arranged his time every day to be both wonderful and fulfilling, Uncle Wang is a high-quality man with good conditions in all aspects.
In terms of material, Uncle Wang is greatly satisfied, but in terms of spirit, he seems very empty, the reason is that Uncle Wang has been divorced for many years, he raised two children alone, and he will inevitably feel lonely and lonely in his old age. It's no wonder that no one talks to him, and no one does his laundry and cooking, that kind of helpless and helpless days are really difficult, and Uncle Wang has the idea of remarrying.
Uncle Wang has clear requirements for the other half, he wants to find a woman who is gentle and considerate, virtuous and wise, has spiritual communication with him, and is willing to accompany him until he is old. If she is beautiful and young, it is undoubtedly the icing on the cake.
Uncle Wang has been on a blind date more than ten times, and has never met a satisfactory wife, he either dislikes the other party's appearance, or dislikes the other party's greed for his money, Uncle Wang holds a blind date with an attitude of rather lack than abuse, if the other party does not meet the conditions, he would rather continue to wait, Uncle Wang's attitude on this issue is very resolute.
Uncle Wang and Aunt Li were introduced on a blind date. Aunt Li is 63 years old, well-maintained, likes to dress up, and likes to maintain health, she looks only in her 50s, and she is a warm and cheerful woman who loves to talk and laugh.
Aunt Li is divorced, has a house and a pension, has no burden, and spends her time shopping, fitness and exercise, and sometimes she travels. Aunt Li is a chic and happy person, she fully enjoys the relaxed and comfortable old age, how happy she comes.
Aunt Li envies the love of other sisters and husbands and wives, and the family is harmonious, even if they are sometimes noisy, it is a kind of happiness. Aunt Li has been single for many years, no one to talk to her, and no one to comfort her lonely heart, Aunt Li longs for a romantic love, and at the same time forms a family with her beloved man and spends the rest of her life together. Aunt Li's mate selection conditions are very simple, as long as he is healthy and treats her sincerely.
After meeting, Uncle Wang was excited, he was attracted by Aunt Li's beauty, and was moved by Aunt Li's optimistic and cheerful personality, he fell in love with Aunt Li at a glance and decided that she was the best candidate for marriage. Aunt Li's impression is also good, she thinks that Uncle Wang is strong, cheerful and talkative, and the decoration of the house is very good, the house is big, and he looks like a rich person, and their first impression is good.
Uncle Wang bluntly expressed his love, he praised Aunt Li for her good maintenance and outstanding temperament, and also praised Aunt Li for being able to dress up and maintain her health, and his satisfaction was beyond words. Uncle Wang said his thoughts straight to the point, he can meet Aunt Li's needs for material and money, and give Aunt Li 2,000 yuan of pocket money every month, which Aunt Li can save by herself, he doesn't ask at all.
There is another question that Uncle Wang attaches great importance to. He is willing to give Aunt Li a bride price of 50,000 yuan, he said that the bride price is an indispensable part of talking about marriage, even if Aunt Li is in her 60s, he is still willing to give Aunt Li a bride price, and hold a wedding ceremony, and marry Aunt Li in a beautiful way.
There has never been a man who treats Aunt Li so sincerely, in the face of Uncle Wang, who is full of sincerity, Aunt Li is heartbroken, she thinks that Uncle Wang is a frank and down-to-earth man with reliable character. What's more, Uncle Wang's economic strength is very strong, he is willing to spend money on her, and he is willing to be with her, such a good man is difficult to find with a lantern, so Aunt Li is very happy, and she agrees.
They share the same views on issues of common concern, and have many similar life experiences and interests, which invisibly shortens the distance between them. The more they talked, the more speculative they became, the more intimate they became, and Uncle Wang struck while the iron was hot to put forward his demands.
Uncle Wang hopes that Aunt Li will move to his house, and in this way, they will further increase their understanding and enhance their relationship. Uncle Wang said frankly that life is short, he doesn't want to waste his good youth, only two people who love each other get along day and night, like glue, life will be complete, life can be wonderful and happy. Aunt Li agreed with Uncle Wang's point of view, they agreed on a time and planned to have further relationships, and this blind date was very successful.
This incident has attracted widespread attention from netizens. Many people agree with Uncle Wang's idea, thinking that the blind date for the elderly should be simple and direct, and they should be together if they can talk, and they will be separated decisively if they can't talk, and there is no need to drag the mud and water. Once the old man meets a satisfied wife, he should take the initiative, find ways to keep her, and work hard to promote a good marriage.
More people are not optimistic about the relationship because the gap between them is too large and their motives for marrying are not pure. Uncle Wang covets Aunt Li's beauty, and Aunt Li covets Uncle Wang's money, which is too hasty. If they don't get along, they have to leave, and that's really ugly and embarrassing.
Some people also ridiculed: "The blind date for the elderly is simple and efficient, as long as the two parties can talk together, the blind date can be successful, they save a lot of communication and understanding process, which is really interesting!" ”
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