A few days ago, I watched the movie "Catching the Doll", Ma Jiye, the youngest son of Ma Chenggang, the father of a local tyrant, adopted the education method of "poor raising", deliberately creating a poor living environment, their family lived on a leaky roof, wearing shabby clothes, etc., the purpose is to let children learn tenacity and self-reliance in adversity.
However, contrary to his wishes, Ma Jiye learned that everything his parents had carefully created for him was a scam on the day of the college entrance examination, and he chose to flee the college entrance examination scene.
In the college entrance examination in the second year, Ma Jiye was admitted to his favorite sports university, but when participating in a marathon, he habitually picked up the bottle on the ground and ran with a full bottle in his arms.
Should the child be poor or rich?
I easily think of Li Xiang's daughter Wang Shiling, she can be said to be a representative of being raised by wealth, how arrogant is Li Xiang's wealth to his daughter?
(a)
Wang Shiling's material life and education are beyond the reach of ordinary people
In terms of material life, Wang Shiling really enjoys the wealth of the world, dressing up, she has been a famous brand since she was a child, and the total price of her outfits is often the salary of many ordinary people for a year, any pair of pants may cost more than 40,000 yuan, and a bag may be worth more than 200,000 yuan.
In the variety show, Li Xiang once said that his family would spend hundreds of thousands of dollars on food alone a month, and the refrigerator was full of imported fruits, bird's nest and other high-end foods.
Wang Shiling once posted a picture of a dinner party, where the rice was covered with black truffles, which are very expensive abroad and sold by the gram, and the consumption of a meal was considerable.
Education has always been the aspect that Chinese parents are most willing to invest in, and the educational resources enjoyed by Wang Shiling are not "rolled" by ordinary people.
Regarding the training fee when Wang Shiling was a child, Li Xiang revealed that it would cost at least 650,000 yuan a month, which is the price for ordinary people to buy a house in a small city.
Wang Shiling's school is Burnetton Girls' School, one of the top private boarding schools for girls in the United Kingdom, where Princess Anne of the United Kingdom has studied, and the tuition fee is quite expensive.
Parents also attach great importance to the cultivation of her hobbies, Wang Shiling is to learn piano is to ask Liu Huan to guide, her coach to learn to skate is a figure skating champion, swimming coach is Zhang Jiahui, if you like art, you go to museums and art galleries to check in one by one.
Anyway, she had the opportunity to be exposed to cultures and friends from all over the world and broaden her international horizons.
Of course, Li Xiang's "entrenchment" of her daughter was also questioned by many netizens, thinking that she would harm the child and spoil the child.
But in reality?
(b)
Wang Shiling's achievements slapped everyone in the face, and Li Xiang was very successful
Wang Shiling was not carried away by the favor of her parents, she grew up into a very good child under the careful education of her parents.
She excelled in girls' schools in the United Kingdom and received high scholarships, and she was not only a child of a rich family, but also a very hard-working child.
In terms of artistic attainments, Wang Shiling has also achieved high achievements, when she was 8 years old, her paintings were auctioned for 120,000 yuan, she opened an exhibition at the age of 9, and her paintings were exhibited in the Louvre at the age of 12.
And Wang Shiling is still just a child, her growth road is still very long, with the careful cultivation of her parents, just wait for the flowers to bloom, I believe that the future achievements will be great.
If you are a rich person, it is recommended that there is really no need to use the thinking of poverty to restrict the development of children.
I think most of us can't compare the wealth with Li Xiang, but there are still many things we can learn from her education method.
(c)
How to nurture children to excel?
First, respect the development of children's personalities.
Wang Shiling is a child with all-round development of morality, intelligence, physical fitness, aesthetics, and labor, because Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun pay great attention to the cultivation of Wang Shiling's personality and interests, and they encourage her to try all kinds of things, rather than forcing her to do things she doesn't like.
For example, Wang Shiling is interested in painting, and they support and guide her to develop in this area, and Wang Shiling's paintings have won many awards in international competitions.
Respecting children's personality development and paying attention to the cultivation of children's interests and hobbies can help children build self-confidence.
When children make progress and achievements in areas they are good at and enjoy, they feel pride and satisfaction, which boosts their self-confidence.
This self-confidence affects all aspects of a child's life, making them more daring to try new things and face challenges.
Second, provide children with high-quality educational resources as much as possible.
The schools Li Xiang chose for Wang Shiling, such as Dulwich College Beijing United Kingdom International School and Bonetton School in United Kingdom, are the best educational resources for her to receive a good education.
These schools not only have excellent teachers and teaching facilities, but also provide a diversified curriculum and training environment, which helps Wang Shiling broaden her horizons and develop in an all-round way.
Our ordinary children may not be able to get into such a top school, but we must also try to provide better educational resources for our children.
High-quality educational resources often mean better teachers, who usually have higher academic qualifications, rich teaching experience, and advanced teaching methods.
High-quality educational resources also include state-of-the-art teaching facilities and a rich curriculum.
Good teaching facilities, such as modern laboratories, libraries, art studios, etc., can provide children with a better learning environment and practical opportunities.
Third, cultivate children's wide range of interests and hobbies.
Nowadays, many middle-class children are very busy on weekends, they learn piano, painting, dance, etc. from an early age, and are exposed to a variety of hobbies.
This helps children discover their hobbies and strengths, enrich their lives, and improve their overall quality.
When children have a strong interest in a certain field, they will take the initiative to explore and seek knowledge, without too much supervision from parents and teachers.
While focusing on the things they enjoy, children are able to concentrate on them and forget about external distractions.
This kind of concentration is not only beneficial to their development in hobbies, but also transfers to other aspects of their studies and lives, so that they can be more serious and efficient in everything they do.
Parents are the guides for their children, and we encourage them to learn about cultures around the world, broaden their horizons, and increase their knowledge, which helps them form a broader worldview and values, and lay the foundation for future development and choices.