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preface
Deng Chao was born into a restructured family. His father divorced his mother when he was very young and later married his current mother. The reorganized family has brought a lot of shadows to Deng Chao's growth, and he has had a rebellious psychology towards his father since he was a child.
The young Deng Chao faced his father's high hopes, and his heart was full of rebellion. His father hoped that he could be an excellent child, but he adopted an overly strict education method, often yelling and scolding, which made Deng Chao even more naughty and unpredictable.
When he was in junior high school, Deng Chao even had the title of "Demon King of the Mixed World". Once, because of a conflict with his classmates, he actually picked up a kitchen knife to chase after the head of the school's security section. At that time, there was an uproar at the scene, and the teachers hurriedly stepped forward to stop it, and finally interviewed Deng Chao and notified his parents.
This incident brought a huge blow to Deng Chao's father at that time. As a museum secretary, he has always hoped that his son can do something in the future, but now it seems that Deng Chao has embarked on a completely different path. Although he also tried to guide Deng Chao in a gentler way, it had little effect.
This period of rebellion left an indelible shadow on Deng Chao. He later admitted that if it weren't for his fanatical love for drama and his persistent pursuit of acting, he might have really made mistakes again and again, and eventually degenerated into a social zha zi.
Fortunately, acting became Deng Chao's salvation. It allowed him to find a new purpose and direction in life, and finally embarked on the road of acting step by step. Although this road is difficult and tortuous, he has come through it with his own efforts little by little.
Overcoming obstacles in the performing arts
Despite his dissolute and uninhibited adolescent love for trouble, Deng Chao's love for acting has never wavered. With his tenacious perseverance and self-motivatedness, he was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy and started his acting career.
In college, Deng Chao's rebellious mood was not completely eliminated. He often skipped class, spent all day in the ballroom, and enjoyed that uninhibited life. If it weren't for the timely pull back of his roommates, he would probably have gone astray from now on, and one misstep would have turned into a thousand hatreds.
Fortunately, Deng Chao met a good mentor in his sophomore year. This teacher, who has decades of teaching experience, not only gave him the correct concept of life, but also taught him how to stick to the bottom line and live a down-to-earth life with personal experience. Since then, Deng Chao's personality has slowly changed, and his learning attitude has begun to be serious and rigorous.
By his senior year, Deng Chao had completely lost the rebellious coat of the past. With his outstanding performance, he has won the favor of several directors and has booked many wonderful roles. The division commanders had high hopes for him, believing that he had a great future, and Deng Chao successfully entered the entertainment industry.
After entering the showbiz, Deng Chao once fell into a long trough period. Like many popular students, he is regarded as a "white chicken" by industry insiders, and there are few good works. But he didn't give up, but chose to do the most basic work on the set, and there was a lot of tenacity in his bones.
It was this tenacious and hard-working attitude that finally allowed Deng Chao to get through the trough of his career. In 2003, he gained attention and became well-known to the audience for his outstanding performance in the TV series "Happiness Like Flowers". Then, his career began to rise all the way, and his works continued one after another.
This drama not only allowed Deng Chao to show his acting skills, but also allowed him to meet the most important partner in his life - Sun Li. The two met and fell in love on the set and began a tortuous relationship journey. It's just that no one thought that the road of this relationship would be so long...
The twists and turns of the emotional journey
After meeting and falling in love with Sun Li, Deng Chao's love life fell into a rather tortuous period. Because Sun Li has been exposed to the shadow of her family since she was a child, she has a strong fear and resistance to marriage.
When she was a child, her father left her and her mother because of his defection, leaving only a pitiful living expenses. Since then, the mother and daughter have been dependent on each other for their lives and lonely. This experience left an indelible scar on Sun Li.
She began to question the institution of marriage itself, believing that it was destined to be a cage that would strangle women's freedom and happiness. Therefore, although she and Deng Chao fell in love, they never succeeded in taking the final step.
In the face of Sun Li's hesitation and fear, Deng Chao was not discouraged. Instead, he chose to wait patiently and use his sincere love to dissolve the haze in her heart. In the past few years of getting along, he has shown with his actions that there is still true love in the world.
Just when Deng Chao was about to give up on this relationship, an unexpected turning point appeared - his father's love and enlightenment played a key role. After understanding the emotional entanglement between his son and Sun Li, Deng Chao's father took the initiative to communicate with Sun Li and sincerely expressed his blessings and support for their marriage.
What's even more commendable is that he shared his experience of reorganizing his family, telling the bits and pieces of meeting and knowing his current wife back then, so that Sun Li could see that marriage can actually be very beautiful.
Under the sincere guidance of Deng Chao's father, coupled with Deng Chao's deep love for Sun Li over the years, Sun Li finally dispelled his concerns about marriage and made a life-changing decision. In 2011, the two tied the knot with the blessings of family and friends and began a new journey in life.
epilogue
Life after marriage has not been easy, and both husband and wife have encountered many difficulties and challenges. Deng Chao was once evaluated by industry insiders: the role he can play is single and limited. As a veteran actor who has worked hard in the industry for many years, of course he does not want to be limited. But now it seems that it has fallen into a career bottleneck, and the outside world has doubts one after another.
At the same time, Sun Li also encountered a decline in her career. Since she gave birth to a child, the family has become more responsible, and it is difficult to have enough energy to devote to her career. At one point, she even doubted whether her choice was correct.
In life, they also face the difficult test of how to balance parenting, career and relationships. Due to the needs of work, the two could not be together for a long time and could only live separately. Sometimes I can't see each other for a month, and it's really difficult for the newlywed Yan'er.
Fortunately, they have resolved these differences with understanding and tolerance. Deng Chao supported Sun Li to concentrate on serving the children at home, and then devote himself to his career when the time was ripe; Sun Li gave her husband the greatest trust and support, and tried to create opportunities for them to reunite their family.
Little by little, the husband and wife finally got through the difficulties in their workplace and life. After this tempering, their relationship has become more sophisticated, and they cherish each other's company more and more.
Today, Deng Chao and Sun Li have become representatives of model couples in the entertainment industry. They often post the warm daily life of a family of four on social media, showing everyone a happy side. Deng Chao's career achievements have also been highly recognized, and he has frequently won heavyweight awards in recent years.
The ups and downs of the relationship between the two are known by many as the "realistic version of the green book", and they have inspired countless people's persistent yearning for love with their personal experience.
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