Bai Luomei said: "All encounters in the world are reunions after a long absence. ”
When encountered, there is a cycle of cause and effect.
Fate is fate.
Some seemingly coincidental encounters will only be surprised after savoring them.
At the heart of the Law of Attraction is "Similarities attract." "The kind of person you are, the kind of person you attract.
Everyone has their own magnetic field, attracting similar people and things to their lives, and encounters will come naturally and become inevitable.
The encounter is not an accident, the cause of the same frequency sows the fruit of the encounter.
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Things are gathered by like, and people are grouped
There is a saying in the Book of Changes: "Respond with the same voice, seek with the same breath." ”
Just like people looking for friends, the encounter between people and people, acquaintance to acquaintance is a gradual process, and people of the same frequency will not be separated.
As the old saying goes: "Mountains and rivers look for soulmates." ”
Boya and Zhong Ziqi are a pair of irreversible friends who have been passed down through the ages, and the two have become a good story with their hearts.
Both were from Chu during the Spring and Autumn Period.
Boya was a well-known luthier who was good at playing the lyre, while Zhong Ziqi was an ordinary woodcutter.
During the Mid-Autumn Festival, Boya was ordered to send an envoy to the state of Chu.
On the way to the mission, he passed through the mouth of the Han River, but due to the huge wind and waves, Boya had to suspend the shore and wait for the wind and waves to stop.
Boya was fascinated by the moon, and Yaxing was furious, so he took out the piano and played a song.
At this time, it coincides with the Zhongzi period to go up the mountain to collect firewood, and the sub-period listens to its piano sound, indulges in it, and cannot extricate himself.
After Boya finished playing, Ziqi praised it again and again, praising its sound as majestic as a mountain.
Boya was like a bosom friend, full of interest, and played another song.
The sub-period said that its piano sound was as mighty as a river.
As a result, the two formed a strong friendship.
One is the pianist, the other is the woodcutter, the disparity in status should have no intersection, but because Boya is good at stroking the piano, the child period is the most distinguishable, and the friendship of the bosom friend of the mountains and rivers is achieved.
In fact, this is "things gather by like, people by groups." ”
Boya and Ziqi broke the boundaries of their identities and became close friends, which stemmed from mutual attraction and soul resonance.
The ancients often said: "It is enough to have a confidant in your life, and the world should treat it with the same heart." ”
If you can get irreversible friendships, it is like a tooth and a child, which is a blessing.
The people who travel with you must have similar passions and common pursuits, and will go with the flow of together.
Like-minded, hit it off; Those who disagree parted ways.
Those who make you fall in love at first sight, the books and movies that interest you have long been written in the music of your life, not suddenly, but by fate.
You don't need to worry about the people and things that you hate and are difficult to get along with, because birds and fish are not the same.
Birds soar for nine days, sinking fish swim freely, find a "group" that suits you, and listen to the beauty of the world freely.
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Enrich yourself more than to please others
Sanmao once said in "The Sahara Desert": "Those who have a rich heart are like many people who walk alone." ”
Throughout the ages, many sages have walked alone, but they are not lonely, they are able to listen to their inner voice and become masters of themselves.
As the old saying goes: "Dexin is in the world, and friends are all over the world." ”
Although Liu Yuxi lives in a humble room, he is famous for his noble virtues, and he has always been accompanied by honest people all his life. ".
It can be seen that the virtuous will not be lonely, and they have close friends for them.
There is no need to forcibly integrate into the circle that does not belong to you, and being strong and enriching yourself is a compulsory course in life.
Song Lian of the Ming Dynasty had a difficult family background and loved to read.
In order to enrich and improve himself, he borrowed books and copied them, and returned them every day.
When the weather is very cold, the fingers are frozen and cannot be bent and stretched; Admire the sages and are willing to go a hundred miles away to ask for advice.
The classmates who lived with him were well-dressed and wealthy, but Song Lian never envied him because he was rich in heart.
In the end, Song Lian became a generation of science masters.
Life is a practice, and what we have to do is to cultivate our hearts.
Nowadays, with the rapid development of the times, there are endless rich and interesting things, and the number of complicated and distracting things is also increasing.
The eyes and voices of the outside world often affect our thoughts and judgments, and the beauty and glitz of others are as charming as flowers, making us often forget our original intentions.
The Law of Attraction tells us to look inward in everything.
We should clear our horizons, start from ourselves, see the fire in our hearts, and become the masters of our own lives.
As the old saying goes: "Self-cultivation, family harmony, governing the country, and leveling the world." ”
The most important of these is self-cultivation, that is, to shape oneself, not to be easily shaken, to form a strong and tenacious spiritual core, and to be strong and strong, the world will be more exciting.
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Be a better version of yourself and meet better others
Audrey · Hepburn once said, "Of course I won't try to pick the moon, I want the moon to come to me." ”
When you become the moon, you will attract the same glowing things to walk side by side with you.
When you are a phoenix on a sycamore, others will live with you.
When you are the boundless sea, others will seek you to gather.
Make yourself better, there will naturally be excellent people on the same road with you, and life will suddenly open up.
Zeng Guofan, the first minister of the late Qing Dynasty, was a stunned young man with a hot temper and often fought with others before the age of 30, and he had many shortcomings.
After he was admitted to the Hanlin Academy through hard work, he found that there was a sea of talents here, and the learning atmosphere was very strong.
Here, he made a completely different kind of friends than before, these people are believers in science, strict with themselves, sincere and serious in learning, not afraid of the chaos of red dust, and unwavering in their inner convictions.
Zeng Guofan walked with these people and set up a lofty ambition of "learning to be a saint".
In the end, Zeng Guofan was fully edified, overcame his shortcomings, and became the legend of the "Inner Saint and Outer King".
Zeng Guofan's entry into the Hanlin Academy through his personal efforts was the starting point for him to improve himself, he changed the people and learning environment around him, and completed the transformation from an ordinary person to a king and a saint.
The fragrance of flowers and the wind comes, and the wind arrives and the butterflies come.
You must first become an excellent person before you can attract butterflies.
The road must be walked with excellent people in order to be long-term.
Things must be done with people of the same frequency to be proper.
John Donne said, "No one lives alone in the sea like an island. Each person is like a piece of dirt that connects the whole land. ”
All we have to do is find our own land.
Before becoming a part of the land, you should continue to cultivate yourself, enrich the soil, and attract more and more excellent people to build a garden together.
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You have to believe that everything that happens in your life is what you attract.
The Law of Attraction mentions a force called a positive force, which is a positive attraction that originates from the person himself.
How strong your positive force is, how lucky you will be in life.
A person needs to constantly improve his positive force to attract and give a positive influence to the people around him, so that everything he can do is good.