Why do so many people like Dong Yuhui?
I saw a high praise answer:
"Although he is mediocre in appearance, his talent is uneven.
He is literary and humorous, and his words are down-to-earth but not cheesy.
It provides extremely high emotional value and spiritual strength for people who are confused. ”
Dong Yuhui is a model of grassroots counterattack, and in the hearts of many ordinary people, he should have succeeded.
The road he has traveled and the words he has said have provided a steady stream of spiritual food for everyone who is from an ordinary background but has extraordinary dreams.
When you feel that the road ahead is confused and the internal friction is serious, you might as well reread Dong Yuhui's most classic 5 sentences.
I believe that these familiar classic sentences will provide you with continuous upward strength in the quagmire.
Think long-term
When you don't know how to choose, imagine what you would choose today when you look back on your youth five years later. As long as the vision is stretched long enough, the topics that originally made you entangled become clear in an instant. You're wise, you're just short-sighted all the time.
Su Shi said: "I don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain." ”
Many things that make us feel tricky are not that there is no optimal solution, but that our perspective on the problem is not comprehensive enough.
When you are faced with an important choice in your life and are undecided, you might as well jump outside the "Lushan" to find the answer.
Forget the current self and ask yourself in 5 or 10 years, what does he want you to choose?
When I was a child, when I didn't do my homework and played hard, I always heard my parents say meaningfully: "If you don't study now, you will regret it in the future." ”
But at that time, I was immersed in the short-term joy of the game, and I couldn't listen to it.
It wasn't until many years later, when I was beaten by society, that I regretted not listening to my parents' advice.
Any choice that makes you entangled, once you stretch the time and broaden your horizon, the answer will immediately be clear and clear.
When you can see clearly the ultimate direction of a choice, you will no longer be entangled and will no longer choose the wrong one.
It's not that you don't have discerning eyes, you just tend to be blinded by the butterflies in front of you.
Live in the moment
Don't be anxious in advance, don't advance your worries, life is all about seeing tricks. The sunset returns to the mountains and seas, the mountains and seas hide deep meanings, look back, you have unconsciously survived a lot of hardships, and you have cultivated yourself while collapsing.
If you want to be happy and do things successfully, the most important thing is to develop the ability to live in the moment.
If it happens, let it pass, because no matter how dissatisfied you are, you can't recover time;
Don't think much about what is not coming, because no matter how much you look forward to it, you can't advance the future.
The only thing we can grasp is now.
Life is not a straight line from the past to the future, but is connected by countless points of the present.
Live every minute of the moment, collect every moment of joy, and heal every moment of pain.
When you only focus on one place and polish every moment into a bright pearl, you will reap a brilliant future.
As the saying goes: "It is neither yesterday nor tomorrow that determines life, but the here and now." ”
The present is eternal, and those who grasp the present are the ones who truly own the future.
The harder you work, the luckier you get
Hard work is not to prove how good you are, but when accidents and uncontrollable come, those cultivation and ability that you have worked hard to accumulate can become the confidence to resist all the wind and rain.
If you don't come from a good background, don't have money, and don't have talent, the only thing you can and have to do is to work harder.
Not all hard work can make you successful, but as long as you work hard, you will have more choices in life.
When you are tired of work, the savings you usually work hard to save will become the confidence for you to quit naked;
When you want to try a new track, the skills you work hard to learn every day will turn into the courage to change careers.
Many middle-aged people describe their state as having neither the capital to toss nor the qualifications to lose, and they are trembling to cope with every day.
In fact, the reason why I live like this is largely because, at the age of hard work, I choose to lie flat.
If you don't try to live a good life, life won't make you better.
Just like Lu Yao said in "Life": "Don't complain about life, life is always fair, you should blame yourself." ”
Life is like farming, what you do in March and April, you will have the answer in July and August.
Work hard in the first half of your life, and enjoy life in the second half.
All your efforts, life is visible.
Long-termism
Even it takes 8 minutes for sunlight to reach the earth, and you need time. Ingenuity is to do one thing well, and the original intention is to always do one thing well. Clearly, comprehensively and rationally see your own value, and do this thing firmly, enthusiastically and persistently.
In this era of shortness and fastness, patience is the most scarce quality.
And if you want to achieve a career, the most important thing you need to have is persistence.
Writer Zhou Ling said: "Those who have patience win the world." ”
In his book "Cognitive Awakening", he pointed out that things may not work for a long time, but when you persevere until the moment the inflection point comes, you will usher in the results of rapid growth.
If you want to succeed, you need to be a long-termist, not seeking quick wins, but slow wins.
I have heard a saying: "The slowest pace is not a step, but a wandering; The fastest step is not to sprint, but to persevere. ”
Success is not a test of speed at a certain moment, but a steady and steady progress at all times.
The sun arch is endless, and the merit is not donated to the sea.
The longer you hold out, the sooner victory will come.
Allow everything to happen
Panic is due to lack of preparation, impatience is due to lack of energy, frivolity is due to insufficient training, irritability is due to unclear thinking, pressure is due to insufficient pattern, and fear is due to too many assumptions. In this cold world, you are not strong, everything is a floating cloud.
I've heard a metaphor about the "blue sky".
The sky is the state of our mind, and the clouds are the thoughts that are projected onto our hearts by what is happening in the outside world.
When something happens to us in the outside world, we are sad, angry, and painful.
At this time, the sky in our hearts will be covered by large clouds.
But for people with a strong heart, their hearts are always blue, and nothing can make their hearts dusty.
In fact, life is all-encompassing, good and bad, like mud and sand.
Since the river of life cannot be stopped, it is better to try to adjust our mindset than to resist the things we are powerless to change.
"Caigen Tan" said: "Don't be shocked by the humiliation, watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court; Go and stay unintentionally, looking at the clouds in the sky. ”
Cultivate a soft and strong heart to accept the impermanence and repetition of life.
Allowing everything to happen is to say goodbye to all the panic, impatience, anxiety, restlessness, and fear.
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Now Dong Yuhui is already standing on a high place, but what he said is when he came from a low place, little by little his soul was fully understood.
It is the nurturing of these spiritual foods that has supported Dong Yuhui to achieve today's achievements.
When you are at a low point in your life, feeling confused, unwilling, anxious, and self-doubting, you must read and re-read these classic sentences that Dong Yuhui said.
May you have a dream in your heart, and you also have light in your eyes, so that you can walk with the master and keep up with the master.
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