01 "Don't go to the dinner you meet by chance, don't take politeness seriously"
"Learn to remember names, especially people you've only met once"
02 When you are awake, you read when you are confused, when you are angry, when you sleep, when you are alone, you think
03 The closer the person is, the more attentive she treats, and a casual word will hurt her
04 It's okay for others to laugh at themselves, but don't go along with it
05 Don't be stingy with your sincere praise and loving words
06 Mean-mouthed and humorous are two different things; Openness and candor are two different things
07 Don't talk nonsense when you can't speak, it's better to be silent and smile
08 "Don't habitually say sorry, it's easy to take unnecessary responsibility because of this"
"Don't subconsciously say thank you, it's not good to be too polite and kind"
09 "Don't show your wealth, don't show your figure, don't show your family background"
"Three pipes of communication, good mouth, good appearance, good emotion"