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It is an ordinary day, but on this day, what happened on a train from Ningbo to Xi'an caused a heated discussion among everyone. There was an 87-year-old lady who sat alone in a hard seat and had to walk for 20 hours. An old woman with gray hair, in a crowded carriage, waiting alone to reach her destination, this picture is so distressing.
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Someone filmed the scene. This old lady didn't even drink hot water for such a long time. Her son-in-law came over to take a look, threw the old lady a bag of instant noodles and a bottle of black tea and left.
People on the Internet are clamoring. Some people say that this son-in-law is too unfilial, "This old lady is so old, how can she be allowed to sit in a hard seat alone, and she doesn't care about it." But some people feel that maybe the son-in-law has a difficulty, "We can't just look at the surface and draw conclusions." There are also people who speculate whether there is some past contradiction, or whether the bride price is causing trouble. There are all kinds of theories, which make this rather simple thing complicated.
"When you want to be filial, the old man may be gone, but don't wait until then to know that you regret it, cherish the present." This sentence is particularly weighty at this time. We are usually busy with work, and it is always easy to ignore the relatives around us. Just like this son-in-law, maybe he has his own reasons, but when the old lady needs someone to accompany and take care of him the most, his approach is indeed a little disappointing.
The follow-up came As the video went viral on the Internet, some netizens picked up the suspected son-in-law and responded to the reason why he did it.
Some people say that true love and responsibility is not only to buy something for the elderly, but more importantly, to accompany the elderly more and chat with the elderly. That's true. Buying a sleeper ticket for the old man, giving her instant noodles and black tea, this is just giving something. But what the old man really wants is to have relatives by his side, a warm word, and a shoulder to lean on during this long journey.
Back to this matter, we don't know what happened to the old lady and son-in-law. But we can learn something from this incident, we have to cherish the relatives around us, accompany them more, and care more about their days. Don't forget, family affection is our most precious thing. Let's not be busy making money and doing other things, we have to stop, spend more time with our parents, and ask them how they are doing. Because they are the most beloved people in the world.
The events on this train let us see the warmth and coldness of human feelings. There are places of unfilial piety, and there are places that can be understood. But no matter what you say, the elderly should be cared for and accompanied in their old age. They can't be left alone. I hope that every old man can have someone to hurt and accompany them when they are old, so that their days can be warm and bright. We also have to remember that family affection does not mean that there is, we have to rely on ourselves to cherish and maintain. Don't wait until you lose it to know it's precious, then it's too late.