The child was beaten by his classmates at school, which is undoubtedly a worrying thing for parents. According to the survey, about 30% of children have encountered varying degrees of conflict or even physical conflict in school life.
First of all, parents need to stay calm and don't get carried away by anger. As one education expert put it, "Impulsive decisions often make things worse." At this time, you should listen patiently to the child's story and understand the ins and outs of the matter. For example, whether it was because a small quarrel escalated into a fight, or because he was bullied for no reason.
Then, communicate with the school teacher in a timely manner. Teachers can understand the situation more comprehensively in the school, and may be able to find some details that the children have not said. Moreover, schools have a responsibility and obligation to ensure the safety and learning environment of every child.
Next, teach your child to protect himself. It's not about getting kids to fight back, it's about letting them know how to avoid danger, such as reporting it to the teacher or leaving the scene. For example, when Xiao Ming was chased and beaten by his classmates, he quickly ran to the teacher's office and successfully avoided the escalation of the conflict.
Finally, it is crucial to pay attention to your child's psychological state. Being beaten may leave a psychological shadow on the child, and parents should accompany and encourage the child to know that they are not alone in the face.
In short, if a child is beaten by a classmate at school, parents should deal with it calmly and rationally, and use love and wisdom to hold up a warm sky for their children, so that they can grow up in a healthy and safe environment.
Dear parents, let's work together to protect our children's school time!