If it is said that couples with children must have one person to stay at home and take care of the children, even if the mother's ability to make money is a little stronger, but if it is not a strong geometric progression, I still advocate a full-time mother!
Because the concept of "outside the male protagonist, female protagonist internally" in our society is deep-rooted, even if you didn't care at the beginning, but you can't stand the words of your parents, friends and colleagues, there is no escape, and we are not as strong as we imagined, and our beliefs are not so firm!
01 Che Li, who is getting busier and busier, is not mentally prepared
In the hit TV series "Little Couple", since Zhou Quan became a full-time father and Che Li started her own business, the time to go home is getting later and later, not to mention, when she returns home, she keeps receiving phone calls, even if she spends a rare family parent-child day with her son, she also deals with work all the way, and she has no time to take care of the emotions of her husband and children.
This kind of companionship without quality, the child can't feel the company of the mother, and the husband can't feel the love of the husband and wife, which is not at all the happiness imagined in the past.
Although Che Li has always felt guilty, she wanted to take advantage of her mother-in-law's birthday to reunite the family, be happy, and ease the relationship between the family, but she didn't expect the arrival of Che's mother to make Hehe Meimei, who was still brewing, all of a sudden!
Che's mother is not a fuel-efficient lamp, and Zhou's father is also a difficult master, the contradiction is only the contradiction between the "little couple", maybe the husband and wife close the door and communicate well with each other.
But as soon as the old men on both sides joined, the conflict escalated. Parents on both sides should take sides, not only to appease each other, but also to appease their own parents.
finally appeased the old people on both sides, but what I didn't expect was that because of the advertisement, Zhou Quan collapsed again.
Zhou Quan's "collapse" this time was very thorough, and he made a lot of noise in the community. Che Li is an emotional big V and a public figure, but people with ulterior motives secretly posted a video of their quarrel on the Internet.
Che Li's personality collapsed, and her career suffered a heavy blow. The conflict between the young couple is further intensified!
02 Che Li, who is under increasing pressure, has not found the right outlet for release.
At the beginning, Che Li was encouraged by Meng Fei, and it can also be said that she started her own company. On the one hand, it maximizes personal value, because Che Li was already very popular at that time. But the reality is that this fame makes her obviously overestimate her abilities.
On the other hand, Che Li has to earn money to support her family. Because Zhou Quan, who was fired from the company, has no income at present, she has to take on the responsibility of supporting her family.
And another partner of the company, Meng Fei, also resigned from his original job and devoted himself to this studio, the studio wants to make money, one is to rely on traffic, the other is to rely on selling goods, and entrepreneurship is ever-changing!
So Che Li had to devote herself to her work, but because she was eager to make money, she first had a fake problem with the umbrella sold by the studio, and had to apologize and pay compensation to fans
These are all things that she can't imagine when she is a full-time mother at home and writes an official account
As a full-time mother, she doesn't need to think about making money, and writing emotional essays on the official account is not at all aimed at making money, but just feeling and recording life!
But after setting up a studio, opening the door every day is money, rent, employees, water, electricity, and gas, which is not only the expenses of the studio, but also the family, who does not work and takes care of the children full-time, so she has to pay for this expense at home.
Children's education, ice hockey practice, and daily expenses are all pressed on Che Li, and she often says to Meng Fei that I have no inspiration at all, and I can't write at all! This feeling of exhaustion of inspiration is maddening for an author! But for the sake of money, she had to write it, and it was extremely stressful to think about!
Before starting a business, she has been a full-time mother for 5 years, in addition to taking care of children, she loves life, shares her feelings in life, details of life, and children's growth on the Internet, but also has a lot of fans, and also publishes books, and has a good income, these are unexpected gains, and she has received unexpected surprises.
But from the perspective of entrepreneurship, this is not the case, making money is the right thing, if you don't make money, you can't be anxious to death? Then there is no surprise in making money!
Che Li is capable, this is undeniable, but starting a business is not only limited to the ability to write, the ability to perceive life, but also social skills, financial ability, risk foresight, etc., but Che Li obviously does not.
Now it seems that the first step in her choice to start a business was wrong, how long can her own public account be popular? After she started her business, she also mentioned many times that there are more and more people who do the track of emotional public accounts, and how to write articles with high-quality content is a problem she must be anxious about every day! If you can't write hard writing, how can there be good content!
She couldn't do what she liked, she was depressed, she wanted to look up at the moon in the sky, but she had no choice but to look down and pick up sixpence on the ground! She likes to read, wants to sell books, and wants to output book content, but there is no traffic, no sales, she is doing unhappy and ungood things every day, she is about to collapse. But she can't escape, there's no way back!
Back then, Meng Fei was able to use the resources of the publishing house to praise Che Li, but without the resources of the publishing house platform, whether it could succeed or not was actually not evaluated at all! The pressure of starting a business is not a little bit higher than that of a part-time job. The greater the pressure, the greater Che Li's temper, she is not floating, she is panicking.
03 Che Li only cared about picking up sixpence on the ground, and forgot the original intention of starting a business!
It was at this time that I happened to meet my senior brother in college, and he was also a senior member of Party A, who could provide stable resources, and was considerate of her, and had a good impression of her, I believe that no matter which woman it is
If you are anxious and hesitant on the road to entrepreneurship, you will not let go of such a senior brother, and you will actively maintain a state of imminent departure, so that he can supply himself with a steady stream of blood and solve those problems that he cannot solve.
Why didn't she communicate with Zhou Quan about the problems she encountered on the road to entrepreneurship? What problems can be solved by communicating these things with thoughtfulness! What problem could he solve if he was worried? In Che Li's words, what am I doing every day? Aren't you working hard for this family, aren't you making money for this family!
When the quarrel was hysterical, Che Li said helplessly, "I'll give you the phone, you see!" Zhou Quan is even more angry, I don't want to look at your phone, I want your company!
But for Che Li, how precious is her time after starting a business, or in crisis public relations, or in her mind to conceive creative content, or to think about the company's next direction, where does she have the time to talk about his parents' short and trivial things!
But every time she said that she was busy, Zhou Quan didn't understand it at all, Zhou Quan talked to Che Li when she was at work, Zhou Quan was at work, just responsible for a certain part of a certain part of the company's project, but Che Li was starting a business, and everything in the company was related to her, could it be the same? But thoughtful and incomprehensible!
In addition, she has bumped into her and senior brother Lin Qing several times, Lin Qing is handsome, golden, resourceful, and will come to things, which is compared with Zhou Quan today, Zhou Quan can't wait to get into the cracks in the ground, so he becomes sensitive, suspicious, and unconfident, and then cautious and emotionally unstable!
These reactions will not be shown when a career is smooth and high-spirited, but now Zhou Quan is a stay-at-home father.
He himself is embarrassed to tell others, afraid of other people's jokes, afraid that his parents will have no face, afraid of neighbors pointing fingers, he can't pass this hurdle in his own heart, how can he confidently stand in front of his wife, who is now on the rise in her career, beautiful and talented?
Even if Che Li told him a hundred times, her heart did not change, and there was nothing between her and her senior brother. But now that he is a ghost, how can he let his wife get his hands on other men?
In fact, being a full-time dad is thoughtful, and the psychological pressure is no less than that of Che Li. But Che Li didn't feel it at all, just like what she said when she quarreled: I don't work hard, you can eat so well and play so easily!
No one saw Zhouquan's sacrifice, the Zhou family's parents felt that their son was unproductive, and his wife felt that he was enjoying Qingfu at home, and everything he did was what it should be.
In the past, when Che Li was a full-time mother, there was a family conflict, and Che Li was an emotional big V and a little expert in resolving the crisis. But today's Che Li, an emotional V, has no time to take care of her emotions!
There's nothing wrong with starting a business. It's wrong that Che Li didn't put the position of starting a business to make money and the relationship between husband and wife right! Husband and wife are inherently one, and they can't report good news or bad news! Both good and bad are part of life.
Husbands and wives must learn to quarrel, and quarrels are also a common way for couples to communicate, not just to vent their emotions!
If the video of their husband and wife quarreling was posted on the Internet, what Che Li thought of was not to protect her own personality, but to have a relationship with Zhou Quan, maybe the couple would not have gone to the step of divorce.
However, one thing must be understood: starting a business is about making life better for your family, not just about making more money!