#长文创作激励计划#
Haruki Murakami once wrote: "Everyone has a forest of their own in their hearts, those who are lost are lost, and those who meet will meet again." ”
A person's life needs to go a long way, and it is actually unpredictable when and where he will meet someone he likes.
However, when two people come together because of fate, they will love with their hearts. In the process of getting along, there are emotions such as sweetness, excitement, romance, disappointment, heartache and so on.
Some people are separated not because they don't love, but because they want each other to pursue a better life and don't want to hurt each other.
There was no insertion by a third party, and there was no change of heart, but the two people at that time didn't know how to protect this fragile emotion.
In such a breakup, there must be regrets and reluctance in the heart, so the possibility of getting together again may be higher.
After breaking off contact with each other, lovers who can fall in love again are likely to have these two feelings.
01: I feel a lot of pain in my heart, and I can't forget it
Some couples end a relationship because they have changed their minds, and one of them has the opposite sex around them who is more attractive to them, so they choose to give up their existing love.
The person who has been hurt may be very painful and unwilling at the moment, and will continue to redeem, and even be full of hatred.
But when this emotion is relieved in my heart, I will turn the page, and it is absolutely impossible for each other to get back together.
There is a helpless separation because of practical problems, or because neither person has the means to deal with a more intimate state of life.
At that time, two people would only feel depressed and miserable together, not enjoying love.
After separation, I thought that we could live happier and simpler, but I didn't expect that my heart was painful and even more unhappy.
Even if there is a good person of the opposite sex around, the heart is closed, and I don't want anyone to walk in.
Each other is still immersed in the love of the past, and misses each other very much, and can't completely forget it.
Then, when we meet again, we may be able to move on.
Because at this time, you and I are more mature, and we are very sure of what we want, and our love for you is clearer.
Zhang Ailing said: "In this world, if you can't be together, there must be someone who lied." If true love will be together regardless of everything, it is nothing more than weighing the pros and cons, no exceptions. ”
As long as it is true love, two people after separation will continue to be together again for different reasons. If you can't let go of what you have in your heart, your fate won't be wiped out.
02: I didn't have hatred, but I was grateful for this vision
After some people break up, they will have a very unpleasant quarrel, or even speak ill of each other, and they will become enemies from then on.
Lovers who have said hurtful things are less likely to get back together. Everyone has seen each other's most hideous appearances, even if they still have thoughts in their hearts, but there is no way to forgive anymore, it is impossible to act as if everything has not happened.
In the process of disconnection, each other is very calm, very considerate of each other's feelings, and full of gratitude for this love.
Then it is possible for love to be rekindled.
Zhen Lan (pseudonym) and her ex-boyfriend have been together for 4 years, and when she is most helpless and anxious, her boyfriend's appearance makes her world different.
Her boyfriend's family conditions are good, and he is very motivated, but Zhenlan's situation is not easy.
Because he has never been praised by his parents, he always has low self-esteem, and no matter how good he does, Zhenlan still can't feel happy.
Since she was in a relationship with her boyfriend, she realized her weaknesses and learned to recognize herself.
The reason why they broke up was because of work, and they had to deal with each other's problems.
Both of them misunderstood their minds and did not find a more appropriate way to deal with the relationship.
When they parted, neither of them said a word of slander. For Zhenlan, she has always been grateful for the appearance of her boyfriend, who has given her so much love and help in her life.
Because there is no hatred, the two are still friends after separation.
Two years later, at the wedding of a mutual friend, they met again, and they matured much more with each other.
Some people, as long as they look at each other, will be moved again. Eventually, they got back together.