If someone advises you to take risks, take them with you! This is not what I say, it is what thousands of years of experience and lessons have taught us. Unbelief? Let's take a look at the stories of those two kings in history.
During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, the State of Chu was a big country, but King Huai of Chu encountered a thorny problem. At that time, the state of Chu allied with the state of Qi to fight together against the powerful state of Qin. King Qin Zhaoxiang wanted to break up the two allies, so he wrote a letter to King Chu Huai, inviting him to come to Wuguan for a meeting to talk about the four corners of the world and life ideals.
After King Chu Huai received the letter, he was called a tangle in his heart. Go, lest there be deceit; If you don't go, you're afraid of offending the Qin State. At this time, the minister Qu Yuan stood up and persuaded King Chu Huai bitterly: "King, this is clearly a trap of the Qin State, we can't be fooled!" But what about Na Zilan, she said vigorously: "Oh, king, what are you afraid of, Qin is a big country, we can't lose our manners." Besides, King Qin Zhaoxiang is also a hegemon, what else can he do with us? ”
When King Chu Huai heard this, he felt that Zilan was right, so he decided to go to Wuguan. The result? This time he was detained by the Qin State and became a prisoner. When the ministers of Chu saw this, they hurriedly discussed countermeasures. But they discussed for a long time, and finally decided not to use the land to redeem King Chu Huai, and directly appointed the crown prince as the new king. What about Zilan? This matter has nothing to do with him, and he also became Ling Yin (equivalent to the prime minister). Poor King Chu Huai finally died in the Qin State.
If King Chu Huai had taken Zilan to Wuguan together, would Zilan still persuade him so hard? This is really "being sold and helping people to count money"!
Coincidentally, Zhao Guo also encountered a similar situation. King Qin Zhaoxiang invited King Zhao to meet in Mianchi, and King Zhao's heart was also up and down, and he didn't know what to do. At this time, Lin Xiangru stood up and spoke: "King, go!" We can't show weakness, we have to give Qin Guo some color! When King Zhao heard this, he felt that it made sense, so he took Lin Xiangru with him.
The result? Lin Xiangru had already prepared for a long time, and he fought wits and courage with the King of Qin, which not only brought the meeting to a successful conclusion, but also won the respect of Zhao State. You see, that's the difference between bringing and not bringing the person who makes the suggestion!
Now, let's go back and think about King Chu Huai. During the days when he was imprisoned in Wuguan, he didn't know if he had thought about this question: "Why didn't I bring Zilan with me in the first place?" "If he brought Zilan, maybe he wouldn't have been deceived into going to Wuguan so easily, right?
Besides, Zilan, he later became Ling Yin and lived a good life, but did he ever think that all this was based on the pain of King Chu Huai? When he sleeps at night, will he have nightmares and dream that King Chu Huai will come to him to settle accounts?
Of course, these are all speculations on the part of our descendants. But one thing is certain: when someone advises you to put yourself in danger, be sure to take him with you! In this way, you can not only prevent being deceived by multiple eyes, but also have a helper at critical moments. This is the wisdom left by our ancestors!